With an intent to close one debate - Page 8

Originally posted by: DevilHere

This is the part that never made sense to me.... whatever we may think as an audience about goenkas as a ckt AK doesn't seem to have any grievances against them...she didn't say a word to them

She's having a good time bonding with her family... she's stated her grievances to all birlas but never had anything to say to her family.... believe it or not BP went to get her, swarna was super pissed off at AbhiM the white day, KV was super pissed of at AbhiM, she made one call when Abhir was sick nd they made immediate arrangements nd she didn't have any qualms taking there help

Everything they've been showing,her decision of not going back makes less nd less sense

She had grievances with her family what about her friend.

Thank you. This is what I meant. Coz it made sense to me earlier. Even i was like Goenka aaye tak nahi beti se milne and all. But said beti ko hi issue nahi hai who are we to call names 😂

I want to read all the quotes but tum sab bullet train ki gati se pages fill kar rahe ho can't catch up 😭

Originally posted by: mickeym

if iam in akshara's shoes , i would have understood Abhi's anger and emotional breakdown , instead of going away and marry an unknown person ..And that too when a supportive brother and family is there .. i can never be this Akshara ..

Ur missing the imp point here .

I would have understood his anger and stuck by him but he divorced me so what's the other option ? 🤷

I know..go bCk to the family so that he comes with his forgiveness ki tokri after hearing abt the baby

She could have taken some more time, fell in love with that guy and then marry!!!

The very dialogue of hers that there's nothing like husband wife relationship between them, shows that all that she did was out of majboori!!!

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Second i am simply asking why didn't she go back to her family. She is clearly not holding any grudge from them. Also, season 1&2 i don't know but after watching this gen. Goenkas doesn't seem so bad to me.

She doesn't hold any grudge against them nor does she hold a grudge against arohi and arohi doesn't hold any grudges against her for what happened to.neil ...

I've said this countless times , at that time when she heard manish blaming her for Neil's death like all others she wanted to stay away from them , may be for the time being bec thy never made it clear so interpret it the wY you want. Later she found abhinav , she discovered one baby is still alive , she decided to stay with abhinav ..she didn't want to go bk to goenkas then , may be bec she didn't want anyone to know that abhir is abhims son bec she knew abhir would be taken away from her as they hate her so much ...so the reasons changed.....but she kept contact with them and told them she is now married hence closing all doors to abhimanyu ...her not taking her family's help had a lot to do with keeping abhirs identity a secret.

In all this.

1. If goenkas had brains they would figure out about abhir but thy didn't

2. If abhim had brains he would have figured it out given abhirs age

3. If goenkas wanted they cud go visit akshu but they didn't

And before anyone pounces me on this ke she did wrong by keeping abhirs identity a secret , she has accepted it already that she was wrong in doing so. She was scared n now she isn't.

Also, her advocating muskan and kairavs alliance , I don't like it frankly . She did the same during anishas time n the outcome was a disaster. I appreciate the emotion but the 2 ppl involved must have the only authority , as it's a love marriage . She need not take guarantee for her family . Muskn and abhinavs doubts were justified imo n they should have the final say , kairav should be the one to convince them and goenkas.

I totally understand what u r saying wrt to birlas finding out if they wanted

But i don't understand how come u include goenkas in the situation

From what I see Goenkas wanted her to be with them 6 years ago nd have embraced her now she's back too

If Birlas have money, power Goenkas have that too...it wouldn't be that easy for AbhiM to take away abhir from AK...as much as BP was angry at her for hiding abhir identity none of them wanted Abhir to be seperated from AK even during the custody track

Why is the onus of everything on everyone except AK...i understand that logic wrt to Birlas they never tried to contact her never did wrt to Goenkas ...I mean she goes to lengths to hide stuff refuses to go with them when they come to take her nd they would've figured out... isn't it same as the logic when people say AK should have tried harder to tell AbhiM about Abhir.

Between this they've left a 6 year canvas who says Goenkas didn't ask her to come back at all...I remember during the family reveal Manish said something on lines of him sochte reh gye ki hmse aisi kya galti hogyi hai

For me the outcome wasn't bad so I won't comment on it but i never understood her logic of marrying Nav....if they were friends nd today when she realised she loved him she married him it would make a whole lot sense to me....if some time back when she read Nav letter nd wanted to give them a chance as a real couple she married him it would make sense to me

For me the most fundamental thing in marrying someone is wanting to be their partner in life...you do it the arrange way or love way is upto u but I can't find any reason for her to be so bound to marry someone if she didn't want them to be partners

You can say anything about Goenkas why did she not take help from Priya too....usmein ab kya keede pade the....I would rather impose myself on a friend who's got the means to help me out rather than a complete stranger(before u come at me I'm talking of the moment she landed in pathankot not 7 months after) who's hardly getting by himself

Atleast for me they failed to justify why she decided to take help from Nav in the first place when she had so many other options she could...nd they make me question this everyday with the bond they show of her nd her family everyday

Hey I hope you are well🤗In the name of closing a debate you've opened a huge DT(hornet's nest) 10 pages long so far👏

Akshnav never had the deep emotional connect like abhira and abhira never had time to settle down and discuss their issues like akshnav.

Love with high intensity can happen only once in a couple's life abhira's lovestory is that, and akshnav can only have a marriage of convenience, adjustments with its own merits(does not seem bad either)

CVs have kept both possibilities open and want to navigate it slowly with TRP demands.

Coming back to the topic, IMO, as of now it looks like Abhira are going to together soon.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

So recently came across a debate point that one AbhiM goes like Akshara married a stranger and all

Nav k fans goes like AbhiM k 75 flaws and all.

One statement i came across was- yeah you go marry a guy you met in a festival.

So I thought to make a post coz I was free 😂

Why marriage with AbhiM is okay(let's not talk about the outcome cox that's beyond control for anyone in reality)

You met a guy in a festival, you heard about him, know about his family, almost same social circle.

You interact with him and like him...

Now his family sent a rishta(let's assume no misunderstanding and all here- coz that was just to intensify Abhira ka pyaar and all that ITV situations) i am comparing it with real life scenario.

Your family is involved now- they know Ladke ka history now. I find this completely safe and that's how mostly things work type of situation.

Now XYZ reason but you met a guy in a bus who kinda intrude your space. Agreed that he is helping and all and you are in distress. You started living with him while you have a complicated pregnancy, he is caring, genuine, nice and everything and after knowing him for 6-7 months, after the birth when you see how he cares about your child you marry him.

So yes Akshara didn't marry a stranger but what is unbelievable is that she agrees to stay with a stranger over her family.

And i personally would be okay of her not contacting her family if she was not this involved now.

If eventually you have no grudges with anyone in your family why did you choose a stranger.

Here you no nothing about him, in reality it can turn out dangerous. That guy can be a drug dealer, human trafficker, anyone.

I don't think it was a wise decision. I understand she was in trauma but still it's the reality.

Share your povs.

😆 this debate is still on 😂

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

She could have taken some more time, fell in love with that guy and then marry!!!

The very dialogue of hers that there's nothing like husband wife relationship between them, shows that all that she did was out of majboori!!!

After that dialogue she consummated her marriage so it's in the past . Today she confessed to her husband in drunk state , and while in that state nobody lies. So she loves abhin with all her heart , moved on with him and also her marriage is complete.

Falling in love before or after marriage is inconsequential , imp thing is to be happy with whatever one chooses.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Hey I hope you are well🤗In the name of closing a debate you've opened a huge DT(hornet's nest) 10 pages long so far👏

Akshnav never had the deep emotional connect like abhira and abhira never had time to settle down and discuss their issues like akshnav.

Love with high intensity can happen only once in a couple's life abhira's lovestory is that, and akshnav can only have a marriage of convenience, adjustments with its own merits(does not seem bad either)

CVs have kept both possibilities open and want to navigate it slowly with TRP demands.

Coming back to the topic, IMO, as of now it looks like Abhira are going to together soon.

Hahaha yes I am doing good 😁

Well yes I don't came upto me and i started this post.

It's like i am talking about how we can't compare apples and oranges and people are oranges doesn't deserve apple.

And apple now love pineapple what's the issue.

I am like mujhe matlab nahi hai 😂