Ak's Strange love - Page 7

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

First of all Akshara’s age can’t be compared with children. Akshara agar child category mai aati hoti toh overprotective parents and children ka example muje suitable lagta.

As I said, jab kisi bhi shaddi mai ek partner ko wrong time par wrong task karne ki urge hoti rehti ho tab blunders hote rehte hai that’s why dusre partner ko alert rehna he padta hai.

Agar apne partner ki tendency ko samaj kar koi bar bar careful rehne ke liye alert karta rahe toh usko babysit karna nahi bolte hai.

Alert rehne mai, alert karne mai and babysit karne mai bahot fark hai.

Akshara ne apni tendency ko hamesha sabse uper rakkha. Yaha tak ki apne ek baby ki life ke bhi uper apni tendency ko rakkha. Akshara ke liye apni core tendency sabse zyada important thi isiliye apne baby ki life ke liye bhi kuch sensitive months ke liye apni tendency ko chodne ko taiyar nahi thi.

Aisi tendency ka kya karna jo aapko, aap ke unborn bacche ko , aap ke pati ko, aap ki shaddi ko, aap ke rishte ko khoon ke aasu rula jaye!

Abhimanyu hamesha uski isi tendency se darta rehta tha kyunki usko pata tha ki uske life partner ke liye sabse uper khud ki tendency hai that’s why he was quite alert.

Jis din uske partner ki uss tendency ki Jeet hui uss din unka rishta , unka shaddi, unka baccha and woh dono khoon ke aasu roye, tab ja kar usne divorce manga kyunki pyar toh tha lekin woh samaj gaya tha ki uske partner ke liye baccha,shaddi,pyar sab se uper hamesha apni tendency rahegi jiska koi kuch nahi kar sakta.

Abhimanyu ne divorce zarur manga tha lekin ghar se aadhi raat ko nahi nikala tha.
Abhimanyu ki divorce ki timing wrong and insensitive thi lekin iska matlab yeh nahi hai ki Akshara sahi thi ya abhimanyu ka divorce mangne ka reason galat tha.

Again this is what I feel. Akshara character ke liye apni tendency sabse uper hai and apni tendency ke liye woh apna baccha tak daav par laga sakti hai aur mere liye mera baccha, Meri shaddi he sabse uper hai that’s why I can’t like or connect with Akshara.

Akshara ke liye uski tendencies sabse upar KYUN na ho? She is her own person with her own mindset with her weaknesses and her nature . This is not something she can control , like abhim ke liye uska gussa.

Whatever you're trying to say only proves that akshu was right about the caged part. One very imp aspect of love is that a person is loved for who they are...if abhim can't accept that , if he has to control her tendencies , keep a check on her bec he is scared of her tendencies , it's a sign of a highly toxic relationship. You still didn't answer why abhim left her alone when he knew abt her tendencies.

And nahi. They lost their baby due to her "tendencies" but unka pyar, unki shadi , unka rishta sab kuch abhim ne khatam kiya apni marzi se...khoon ke aasoo rona aur rulana abhim ki marzi se hua...

if the reason to divorce her was correct he shouldn't be asking her to come bk in his life again in the temple.

If both choices don't work also it is fine . She has her sweetheart Abhir with her . She can be a single parent . Why to be a climber plant either with Nav or Abhi ...let both of them leave and let her be a lawyer and taking care of her son. But that is not going to be in this show 😞

Originally posted by: DevilHere

She's not liked by either of the fds coz people don't know which ship she'll finally sail.... I'm pretty sure it's going to be Abhira with recent epis nd probably why Nav fans r mad at her

I'm mostly pissed off at her for hiding anything nd everything to the point it doesn't even make sense...if it was possible for Nav to never find out the truth that Abhir knows he's not his bio dad her hiding would make sense why now

It feels like some days later she'll start saying something like

"Mein Nav ko nhi bta skti maine khaane kaafi zyada kachori khaali unhe tension hojayegi ki kahin mera pet na khrab hojaye itna heavy khakr" 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Anu234

It's because people only use her for their shipping part aur kuch nhi na hi uske pov se sochne ki koshish karte hei. People either want her to forget everything what has happened with her and go back to abhi or nhi toh people want her to baby sit nav for their shipping. It would be best if she leaves both of them and stay single for sometime. And also ak is not gonna go back immediately to ab even if nav is out of pic. Even on d day the things which happened people were saying that now how will he like abhi after all this but still people are liking na so wait makers will make ak also the way same likeable. Ak aise hi abhi k pas nhi jayegi just because he is father of his son or for anything she will only go back if both the sides accept their mistakes redeem themselves and accept their love for eo back then only.

Lol, so true. I never doubted Abhira. But I am so frustrated at what Ak’s ckt has been reduced to.

Seriously after leap I feel like I am watching some old 60-70’s Hindi movie, where FL was there to just aid/glorify ML existence. Her role would be to suffer, be mahan by doing tyag, balidan etc, and then be rescued by ML and her suffering brought to everyone’s notice by some divine intervention and by ML. I am so sick of this narrative. Be it Abhi as ML or Nav as ML. Ak’s ckt has no standing by itself. She is just there to be part of a ship?

I don’t want her to have career or anything - career is a choice and being a homemaker is also a choice and equally tough, but I want her to be strong and honest, rather than lying and pretending in name of being mahan and not wanting to hurt others!!

Hope they do turn her around as Anu234 said 🤞

👋Hi Anu234, tagging you here as reply to your post 😊

Originally posted by: Avanti30

If both choices don't work also it is fine . She has her sweetheart Abhir with her . She can be a single parent . Why to be a climber plant either with Nav or Abhi ...let both of them leave and let her be a lawyer and taking care of her son. But that is not going to be in this show 😞

They can show it for sometime like she is single parent then if they have to reunite them it would be them realising and slowly falling in love them only it would happen. Just because nav gaya esliye nhi hoga.

Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

Lol, so true. I never doubted Abhira. But I am so frustrated at what Ak’s ckt has been reduced to.

Seriously after leap I feel like I am watching some old 60-70’s Hindi movie, where FL was there to just aid/glorify ML existence. Her role would be to suffer, be mahan by doing tyag, balidan etc, and then be rescued by ML and her suffering brought to everyone’s notice by some divine intervention and by ML. I am so sick of this narrative. Be it Abhi as ML or Nav as ML. Ak’s ckt has no standing by itself. She is just there to be part of a ship?

I don’t want her to have career or anything - career is a choice and being a homemaker is also a choice and equally tough, but I want her to be strong and honest, rather than lying and pretending in name of being mahan and not wanting to hurt others!!

Hope they do turn her around as Anu234 said 🤞

👋Hi Anu234, tagging you here as reply to your post 😊

Makers did reduce her to Glorify nav haad se jyada even i also don't like it. And also I believe abhira sath aayenge sirf apne pyar k karan not because of abhir or not anything is what I feel. Nav k jane k baad turaant reunion nhi hoga i think them reuniting will take time i guess and it should usse pehele Akshara ko apne law mei kuch toh karte dekhaye bas atleast for once it would be fine. And also akshara just does not want to lose her illusionary family is because of her past hurtful events i think once all those are healed she will realise where she went wrong and rectify it i guess

Originally posted by: Krinya

Akshara ke liye uski tendencies sabse upar KYUN na ho? She is her own person with her own mindset with her weaknesses and her nature . This is not something she can control , like abhim ke liye uska gussa.

Whatever you're trying to say only proves that akshu was right about the caged part. One very imp aspect of love is that a person is loved for who they are...if abhim can't accept that , if he has to control her tendencies , keep a check on her bec he is scared of her tendencies , it's a sign of a highly toxic relationship. You still didn't answer why abhim left her alone when he knew abt her tendencies.

And nahi. They lost their baby due to her "tendencies" but unka pyar, unki shadi , unka rishta sab kuch abhim ne khatam kiya apni marzi se...khoon ke aasoo rona aur rulana abhim ki marzi se hua...

if the reason to divorce her was correct he shouldn't be asking her to come bk in his life again in the temple.

Chahe Akshara ho ya abhimanyu, jo tendency long term damage cause kar sake usko CHANGE KARNI HE CHAHIYE KISI BHI INSAAN KO, AISI TENDENCY SABSE UPER HONI HE NAHI CHAHIYE chahe koi bhi insan ho.

Hum toh humari shaddi ke liye daily apne ap par work karte hai, hamari jis tendency ki wajah se hamara and hamari shaddi ka long term damage ho uske uper kam karte hai.

Yaha ek ko dedhshani na banne ki tendency par kaam karna hai and dusre ko anger par kaam karna hai. Muje nahi pata tha ki log apni tendency ko apne jivan mai itna uper rakhte hai ki uske uper work karne ko bhi ready nahi hai.

Problem wohi hai na kisi bhi shaddi mai, jab partner khud he apne destructive tendencies ko samaj kar uske uper khud he kaam kare toh insaan behtar banta hai , lekin jab soch he aisi ho ki mai kyun apna tendency chodu tab, apki tendency se darr kar apke partner ko alert rehna padta jo toxic lagta hai.

Jab aisi soch ka case ho tab dusre partner ka divorce dene ka reason bahot sahi hai kyunki ap alert nahi rahoge toh long term damage hona he hona hai and agar ap uss partner ki tendency ko samaj kar alert karte rahoge toh ap toxic dikhoge.

Abhimanyu ka alertness bahot sahi tha, darr bhi jayas he nikla, sirf timing insensitive thi. I wish divorce bhi sahi time par diya hota lekin isse bhi dusre partner ki bhi galti kum nahi hog and divorce reason bhi invalid nahi hoga.

Mai jo bhi baat kar rahi hu usse sirf ek he point prove hota hai ki apni long term damage causing tendency ke uper SABKO proudly work karna chahiye and apne life mai change lane chahiye.