Mujhe kya lagta hai ki ITV ko enemy to lovers trope samjh nahi aate. We iski jagah abuser to stalkholm syndrome dikhate hain. Inhe lagta hai ki aisa karenge to young audience ko passion/love/romance mil jayega aur housewives ko kitchen room drama bhi. Uske alava Inka empowerment dikhane ka bhi dhang hi nirala h. Jab jis jamane me "same pay for same work" ka issue dikhana to "aurate Ghar ke bahar Kam nahi karengi" dikha rahe hain. Ye aisa janbujhkar karte hain taki empowerment me garb me ye dikha sake ki basically a woman can (should) do everything! Haan ji wo machine hai, wo paida hi hue hai ki Ghar/bahar har jagah bhag bhag kar kaam kare, ek bigade mard ko rehabilitate kare, Sasural aur Mayaka dono jagah bas jimmedari uthaye aur rights ko jootiya mar de.
Jaan bujhkar ye log aisa dikhate hain ki heroine ko paiso me interest nahi, wo property rights me hissa nahi mangti, sabke liye muft me kaam karti hai, apne abusers ko therapy deti hai. Aur apna hak mangne wali sari Vamp hoti hain. Unhe gold digger, characterless, kaamchor dikhate hain.
Lalchi hona ya corrupt hona galat hai. Par paise kaise Galat ho gaye? Paise me interest kaise galat ho gya? Chori galat hai, galat kam karke paise kamana galat hai. Lekin mehnat karna, paise jodna, practical hona kaise galat hai?
Angad to Day 1 se haramkhor lagta mere ko. "Dil ka achha hai" sab kahte hain. Par Day 1 se hi dekh Rahi ki uska intro tak "saman ko sirf isliye todte dikhaya hai kyonki wo thodi kharab ho gai hain ya best nahi hain" he is way too materialistic and status/Paisa dekhkar hi logo se behave karta hai. Servant ka dhyan Dene ke peeche bhi uski "ye log aur wo log" wali mentality hai, jaha kai log ye sab God Complex ke liye karte hain.
Anyway... Ye to TV hai. Real life me kaun sensible ladki aise bande ko pasand karegi? Ise Paisa/beauty/class/status/blood relation/charity hi dikhta hai. Humanity/integrity/self-respect/equality ise samjh nahi aati.
Dusra ye ITV ka richness se kya obsession hai? End goal ki tarah dikhate hain. Fir "spirituality" ghused dete hain.
Agar kisi ko yaad ho... Mujhe sabse kharab wo "baba wala episode laga tha". Koi bhi religious philosophy (not ritual based everyday religion, I am talking about philosophy) ho, wo materialism ko, abusive logo ka "parivar ke naam par" sahne ko promote nahi karta.
Wo kahta hai ki Rab Sahiba se bahut khush hai. Wo sabka dhyan rakhegi (ye to uska compassion, conditioning, naive soch hai) aur sabse Ameer banegi (batao, seedhe 2 kah rahe ki jisse rab khush hota hai, use Ameer bana deta hai! Kya regressive baat hai aur religions ka majak hai!
To Rab etna khush hai ki use Seerat Di jaise selfish bahan mili hai, Angad jaisa Abuser husband mila hai, step mother jaisa treatment Dene wali maa mili hai, aur ek helpless baap mila hai. Maayke me Keerat aur Sasural me Veer hi to sensible mile hain use.
I cannot understand... Ki ye sab BC log kaise bardasht karte hain. That is the reason I try to not think too much about anything. I sometime force myself to be casual, to fit in! Par hamse nahi ho pa rha!
I am happy ki yaha logo me etni akal hai ki abuse ko abuse kah rahe! Dus saal pahle India Forum par tamam women Rape Stories likhti thi. Rapist ko lover banake dikhati thi. That is the reason.. I stopped visiting this website. Keval last year se I started watching ITV soaps just to know.. "etne saalo me kuch badala hai ya nahi!"
Fo lo jo ITV aur barbaad ho gya hai.
ITV standard se chale to women human hi nahi hai. Wo to ya to chudail (kulata) hai ya fir Goddess! Ek ka lifelong goal ek aise mard ko impress karna hai, jise usme interest nahi. Aur dusri ko usi battmeez mard ke diaper badlana hai.
I mean... Maine Ghum dekha, Anupama, Imlie, TMD... Aur Mera maath fat gya. Yaar chal kya Raha hai? ITV ki women University nahi jati, padhai nahi karti, dosto se milne park/cinema nahi jati, normal logo ki tarah job nahi karti.. we to din bhar kitchen me ya fir sabke taane sunkar time bitayengi. Fir ek din ke andar koi bahut badi naukari mil jayegi/koi Rajkumar mil jayega/chips hua achanak koi talent dikha dengi. Lekin har hal me abusers se pyar karengi, unke liye sacrifice karengi. Aur inme se koi bhi Police me complain nahi karengi.
Matlab ye log Vamp ke bahane se ham normal aurato ka character assassinate karte hain. Ye kaisa empowerment hai jo reality se dur hai.. I mean koi bhi sector dekh lo.. laakho/croro log etne talented hain, sari jagah heavy competition hai, sab din raat mehnat kar rhe. Aur AAP bina practice/proper education/guidance/social knowledge ke achank ek din CEO ban gai, ya usse shadi kar li! Matlab had hai. Cinderella story me kya empowerment hai?
Real life me ham log kitni mehnat se kisi jagah pahunchte hain. Ye sab kyon nahi dikha sakte?
Aur ye Sahiba... Shuru shuru me wo mujhe thik lagti thi. Abhi bhi mujhe uski conditioning (jise log hypocrisy kahte hain, aise logo dictionary dekhna chahiye) samjh aati hai. But I know.. ye log ise conditioning nahi "SANSKAR" ke taur par dikha rahe.
Rab Sahiba se etna khush hai ki usne ek Abuser se uski dori baandh di hai. Aisa hi to Ghum me dikhaye hain... Ye log divorce, move on karne ko galat, "sachha pyar ek hi baar hota hai", yahi sab chutiyapa dikhate hain. Udhar dusre Wale show me ek 45+ IPS bewada bana firata hai, ghar ke andar Manusmriti support karta hai, ekadh bomb diffuse karke, goli khakar hero ban jata hai. WTF.
Kal ke episode me Angad bhi yahi karega. Dard dekar dawa denge aur kahenge PYAR hai! Wah ji.