Why are we doing this?????

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Posted: 2 years ago
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The whole forum is divided into angad and sahiba lovers... Whyyyyyy?????? Why can't it be sahan lovers ??

Agr dono characters mein itni kamiyan nikalne hai toh why are we shipping them.. Why are we watching it??

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I am not shipping them. And it is creatives fault that we cannot root for them. 150 episodes in and they don't see eye to eye on any matter , neither do we get those cliche romantic moments or eyelocks to show they feel a thing for each other. It is just shouting and more shouting.

Sahiba from the beginning has been abused and called names at hands of Brars, it is continuing even now after Garry expose where people want her to give up her passion while doting on the woman who actually did the fraud.

I am all in support of Seerat Angad, he cares about her to the point he can excuse her sleeping with his brother and she wants the status that comes with being elder Brar wife and does not want to work. They are perfectly compatible and stuck with partners who are incompatible, should come together and free their spouses.

Sahiba should leave the mansion, focus on her art and get therapy so she stops defending people who abuse her and focus on her life and art.

We have overlooked a lot of things but how do we overlook Angad not even trying to speak in favour of his wife's decision to work. If Veer can, Angad can too and he would have spoken if it was Seerat , just like he shut up Hansraj and mohalle aunties for Seerat. He should marry Seerat and free everyone, all will get what they want.


Honestly that is the outcome we are expecting, just want Sahiba to leave the mansion once. Just once, free herself. If that does not come soon , I will likely stop watching.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Sahan has never been established

What is seen in the show is that both Angad and Sahiba bring the worst out of each other in order for this couple to work someone has to be a doormat the submissive one jo dusra kahe usko sar aankhon apr rakho which is not acceptable neither to the characters not to the audience hence there is no Sahan

At least Seerat and Angad have a mutual connection right or wrong whatever it is its there but with Sahiba there is just nothing

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I want to ask why are the makers doing this. ..


I am that someone who has been watching, now following only the written updates of this serial from day 1.. and 150 episodes me all I got is frustration...


I quit having hopes for sahan.. and I truly think that angad should have proposed now that all is clear... let me marry seerar I'll take care of her.. me and sahiba we are nothing for each other... I would have still enjoyed watching that drama than read updates about how seerat is thinking of angad when taking pheras... how angad shuts up people who insult seeraji.. how angad gives vada to his seerat ji..

Honestly if amid this serry marriage there was some progress of feelings from sahiba or angad .. I would have thought about thik hai chalo let's give it a try dekhte hai what they Wana show... but instead all we got was seerst eying angad... angad sahiba shouting and.. I don't know what else... it all only led to me thinking that I cannot waste more time on this serial in hopes that are not going to come true...


Sahan ship has sailed away.. folks!!! And it's coz of stupid show put up by the makers..

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Yes this serial has divided fans down the middle.


The reason I call the aunties out on this forum is that they expect the the ML to be the hero regardless of his actions, whatever etc. The FL is expected to take the crap dished out to her and be the usual sweet one, who is so grateful to be married etc.


The old pathetic indian mindset has to change and move on with the times that yes we can have a FL who can be bold, outspoken, Independent, working and have self respect and take care of her family etc even after marriage and not forget about them once She is married, which is what is happening here.


The Aunties blame the Monga's family for Angad ruined marriage but forget that Sahiba life has been ruined as well.

The main culprits in this mess were Garry/Jasleen and Seerat/Santosh who plotted and planned the breakup of Angad/Seerat marriage.

Why have the Aunties forgotten that???


Angad has been abusive to Sahiba right from there first meeting and throughout the marriage infront of his family and in private plenty of manhandling etc and attempted drunk rape and expect Sahiba to speak sweetly to him when She has been bold to protect her respect etc and suddenly on the last few episodes he has been sweet to her and expects her to be nice to him in front of his family, glad that Sahiba put him straight etc. Why have the Aunties forgotten that??


Everytime he expected proof from her regarding Garry/Seerat, and threats to get her arrested and thrown out of the house etc. When Garry misbehaved with her in her room, what did Angad do, he shouted at Sahiba for slapping Garry and did not believe her.

When the proof was presented to him, he broke down and cried and it was all about him only, this was shown but where was the apology to Sahiba and what She went through as well. She married him, the abuse from him and his family, he never apologised to her at all but carried on as if nothing 🤔 happened.

Why have the Aunties forgotten that??


Angad makes promises without asking Sahiba, like her not working and to look after Seerat, the marriage between Garry/Seerat without talking it over with Sahiba first as ultimately it affects her directly and than gets shocked that Sahiba blasts his great thinking and starts his usual dramas that Sahiba will disagree with whatever he says or does is pathetic.

He does it again, when Sahiba tells him that She will go and work in her Shop daily from tomorrow, that he gets up early and heads off to the Monga's house to pay for the house when he was told by Sahiba that She will clear the debt etc, he does not discuss this with Sahiba first but dashes over to give money to Ajit and gets shocked when Sahiba comes and blasts him for it.

Why have the Aunties forgotten that??


Angad is plain stupid here, he still thinks that Seerat is the damsel in distress, defends her when Hansraj insults her and promises to look after the very person who betrayed him. And today when the issue of the house was being discussed infront of everyone he knows that it was done by Santosh/Seerat, he should have said something to Seerat that its her foolish action that led to the Monga's on the brink of losing there home but what the hell he keeps quite on it but gets offended that Sahiba wants to work against the pathetic no woman working rule in the family.

Only Veer was the only one who stood up for Sahiba and said it was unjust, and unrealistic to expect Sahiba to crush the artistic talents and stop working and saw nothing wrong in Sahiba wish to support her family.

Where was Angad the husband, is it not his duty to support Sahiba and let her work, instead off trying to lock her in the gilded cage.

Angad keeps quite when Hansraj insults Sahiba is wife is pathetic and does not understand that getting your 1st love married to your cousin and have them under the same roof is going to be uncomfortable to your wife and how on earth will this marriage work is unrealistic.

Why have the Aunties forgotten that??


Coming to today's eposide was very sad that even after knowing how strong willed, independent and how much passion Sahiba has for Art and work is that Angad without discussing it first with Sahiba goes to her parents home and gives Ajit the check and tells them to keep it between the 3 of them and not tell Sahiba about it is pathetic. Even when Ajit explained it to him that he will not take any money from him, was to do with his self respect etc, he just does not get it and in turn says that whatever negative is said to them will impact the Brar's family as well, is like what planet is he on that he does not understand that everyone be it rich or poor have there self respect which he needs to understand.

I am so glad that Sahiba gave it back to him and made it clear to him that She needs no charity from him whatsoever and glad that She ripped up the check infront of him and threw it on the floor.

He than goes on about how Sahiba always misunderstands him, like what planet is he on, with the actions and things that he does without asking Sahiba first is hilarious that she blasts him for his saintly actions is now getting beyond a joke.

Angad has always accused her of being a golddigger and when She refuses to take the check, he gets shocked by her response that it is priceless and his face said it all, surely he knows that by now that she will not accept his money etc.

Alas in his arrogance that he thinks that the money will be accepted by the Monga's for the loan but was shocked that it was rejected was not taken well by him.

He accuses her of having no respect for his family but gets taken back when She says that he has no respect for her family either.


Jasleen plotting with Seerat to be the ideal bhu of the Brar family is hilarious, someone pls explain to Jasleen and her wacky children and now Seerat that She is the Bhu of the Bhawaja family but here she is the wife of the grandson on the maternal side, there is a big difference in the relationships that the writers need to clear up and why no mention of the father of Garry etc.

Trying to make her the ideal Bhu in front Dharji eyc is hilarious. The halwa was not cooked well, why did the family not speak out about it and bust Jasleen bubble.


The whole drama played out again about the loan was not nice to watch, what has it got to with them, but Hansraj was out of order, why did Angad not stand up for Sahiba opps I forgot its only Seerat that he helps.

The fact that Sahiba said that Angad knew about it before her but did not tell her but use it against her to stop her from working was hypocritical and even Manveer was shocked by this.

The Brars in there arrogance think that money will buy anything and everyone and do not even understand what it means to Sahiba's self respect and her Family's self respect.

Snake Seerat tells Sahiba to accept the money from Angad and end the drama, here I think that Sahiba should have challenged Seerat who is responsible for this mess but instead of reminding her that She has never accepted any help from anyone but the saint Seerat says that we are grown up now. But her actions speak otherwise.


Dharji again starts his dramas on how a Woman binds the house etc is his norm and respect of the Brar family that the Bhu's do not work etc. And tells Sahiba that She has has to follow it but Sahiba says that She will work and its matter if her self respect.

This shocked Dharji who says that by earnings the money to save her Home by her self respect and Sahiba says yes.


There was no shouting today apart from Sahiba quite rightly taking Angad to task for his sneaky way of trying to pay the loan but the rest of the dramas at the Brar house was enlightening that this time Sahiba was calm and said that She will not destroy her dreams and ambition. But sadly the wimp Angad did not stand by Sahiba.


At least Sahiba is being respectively asking to work, as no can legally stop her from working lets have some reality here.


Snake Seerat turns up at Angad bedroom to ask for a headache tablet and gets shocked to see Sahiba there who says that She put it in her room but says that She came to ask Angad for his help, is this a sign of things to come, will she keep on running to Angad but will Sahiba finally wake up to the realiy of Seerat.


Here I have been clear that Sahiba needs to divorce Angad and follow her dreams and if the end game is Angad/Sahiba, than do it properly and a forced marriage will never work as in this case

Especially since he has bought his only true Snake opps I mean love Seerat to marry his snake cousin is anyone's guess.


There is a reason why 2 sisters are never married in the same house and especially so if one is the true love of the ML.


Aunties take note that today Angad was wrong???

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I sincerely wish next time Seerat opens her trap that Sahiba shuts her down saying she is here because of Seerat’s created mess in the first place, so to keep quiet!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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For people to love something - the thing should actually exist in some form.

Any romance reader can tell you that for a forced marriage/enemies to lovers to work - there is some amount of coherence needed. There is no coherence here or if it is to come the pace is so glacially slow that people are loosing interest.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: averma4583

I sincerely wish next time Seerat opens her trap that Sahiba shuts her down saying she is here because of Seerat’s created mess in the first place, so to keep quiet!


thats my only p[roblem with sahiba..she is too blind to her family. keeps covering up for them. she should be honest to everyone irrespective ki wo family hai ya starngers

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