Originally posted by: Tiara-p
You know when i first saw that scene,i was furious,I even bashed him in the mpht thread.Then after a day when there are ppl telling their views that he might have meant she doesnt need to do work bcs she is compelled to do so as they are having shortage of money,so i thought i might be having the wrong impression,also till that scene he never really behaved like a typical man and have been shown to be open minded?Like he has been talking about giving divorce if she asks,also even after knowing that she talks with Areeb he wasnt reacting in a bad way,those behaviour is rare and not actually is of a typical man.The job scene really came as a surprise to me like when you are in need of money and your wife is willing to help out then why make your ego an issue?He is definitely having inferiority complex thats for sure.Also its wrong of him to think that he is having any right to give her,his so called "permission" to do a job!If she wants to do it,if she wants to help out her parents thats her choice and also taking money from Saad everytime for her parents isnt something his chachu or chachi is comfortable with.He talks about being capable of seeing off everyone's need,but he is already having a big fat loan to pay,how is it that he will be taking care of others needs!And the way he tells he doesnt want to listen about the topic anymore was really infuriating,arre agr usse job karna hai toh bhaisab kaun hote hai rokne wala?Why is he having this galatfehmi that being a husband means he has the right to put restrictions?I wont make much of an issue on the tea thingy bcs he in my opinion did that to put an end to their conversation as he was clearly uncomfortable on her job topic.Only one scene made his entire character of 21 epis questionable!
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