Originally posted by: DevilsHeart
The Goenka’s just didn’t agree with her choice to go that concert location. The didn’t abandon her. They came to pick her up from Birla’s but she had left. BP even went to Pathankot to bring her back. She refused. She could have clarified her position and perspective- but she chose to let them believe she is wrong. My family has misunderstood me multiple times, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t love me or care for me. She chose to remain silent. She withheld information that would impact everyone’s lives and she wants everyone to accept it. If Abhimanyu declaring his decisions for others is wrong, her making people bend to her choices by lying and hiding is also wrong! Isn’t it just two people using different means to get their way? Just Abhimanyu’s temperament makes him appear bad to some.
Abhinav took care of her I accept. Her starting to stay with a stranger with the complicated pregnancy, I cannot get.
Did Abhinav really know what he was getting into? He was amazed to see Akshara’s palatial residence when they came. So he didn’t know about her background. Did he know Abhimanyu left Akshara but would have been there for his child? And he did it to help Akshara. He selflessly agreed to marry. Even if in that moment after delivery Akshara was emotionally drained and lonely, she never gave a second thought later that if she is unable to love him later, what about his life and happiness? His happiness was never considered.
First of all my sincere apologies to the TM - I know you said no Abhinav and Abhimanyu but couldn’t resist on commenting about it. I promise no more from me after this 😊
I don’t agree that he selflessly agreed to marry Ak. He agreed to marry because he wanted to be father of a child no matter how he got the child. He didn’t bother or give a second thought abt Ak.
It was clear to both of them that they are getting into a marriage only for the child. And I agree Ak was being selfish, but I can understand her position and reasons, but Abhinav agreeing to marry was also selfish, not selfless help.
If I am going through a difficult time and I am making a wrong decision, I expect people who care about me to help me see it, not to just agree to it because it works for them too.
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