Originally posted by: Lostin90s
At the time, she had broken off contact with the goenkas, i am not going into the reason as it has been already discussed 100s of times, and was not taking any help from them and nor were they enthused to help her. Further, she didn’t marry Abhinav immediately after meeting him. She saw how he took care of her for over seven months and handled her kid for three days when she was unconscious. It was only after this she asked him to be father of her kids.
Abhinav knew what he was entering into, so, how is this unfair to him? Abhimanyu can pursue his case or do whatever he wants to do but why is he invading their personal space when things are already awkward between them.
The Goenka’s just didn’t agree with her choice to go that concert location. The didn’t abandon her. They came to pick her up from Birla’s but she had left. BP even went to Pathankot to bring her back. She refused. She could have clarified her position and perspective- but she chose to let them believe she is wrong. My family has misunderstood me multiple times, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t love me or care for me. She chose to remain silent. She withheld information that would impact everyone’s lives and she wants everyone to accept it. If Abhimanyu declaring his decisions for others is wrong, her making people bend to her choices by lying and hiding is also wrong! Isn’t it just two people using different means to get their way? Just Abhimanyu’s temperament makes him appear bad to some.
Abhinav took care of her I accept. Her starting to stay with a stranger with the complicated pregnancy, I cannot get.
Did Abhinav really know what he was getting into? He was amazed to see Akshara’s palatial residence when they came. So he didn’t know about her background. Did he know Abhimanyu left Akshara but would have been there for his child? And he did it to help Akshara. He selflessly agreed to marry. Even if in that moment after delivery Akshara was emotionally drained and lonely, she never gave a second thought later that if she is unable to love him later, what about his life and happiness? His happiness was never considered.
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