Tere Bin DT#102 (Yumna Zaidi-wahaj Ali) Gham aur hum - Page 80

Originally posted by: arshi1983

Peeps,

The primary reason why we fell in love with this show and got ridiculously attached to it is because of Wahaj and Yumna's chemistry and their amazing portrayal of Mu and Me.

We've all had our issues with the story,plot points,continuity..infact we still do but If u've been watching this from episode 1, by now u should have a minimal understanding of Me and Mu- the kind of people they are.Their interactions,fights,verbal spats (for the most part) are real and thats y it is ugly! Their character arcs arent that inconsistent for us to keep flippping between 'did he do it' or 'did he not'?. Fudge Nooran,let her go to hell! She is a pathetic excuse for a woman let alone a writer. We love W and Y's body of work and we need to put our trust in them.

On a lighter note, I am gonna take a roll call now-

'No MR/AR between Me and Mu'

I am taking the liberty to add some names because I know their answer :)

1)Arshi1983

2)Heeba

3)Gigi

4)Winterberry

5)Wandering Wonder

6)Midniteangel

7)Altr

8)Neha

9)Moonks

10)gundamwing

11)Pickachu

12)Cherryonthetop

13)Bad_karma

14 ) NavyaKavya

15)Luvmayurarti

16)Ninalogy

17)aimmyangle

18)Pallawi1803

19)cranberryqueen

Pls feel free to add urs and mind u - u cant go back on ur word until the episode finishes ! And for those who dont want to add their name,no worries- U will not be judged ! TBA girls are not snobs and we dont judge unlike other forumwaasis.

why are we adding names ? 😳🤓

each of us here trust yumhaj infact somewhere all of us belief that MR won't happen ...

but i am also mentally preparing myself for other scenario too , pairo k niche se zameen nikal jane vali feel nahi ayegi ...

Originally posted by: CranberryQueen

would love to see them destroy Haya 😭

Exactly... And in that meerub lives out of town somewhere and murtasim knows that and goes there then here comes meesam... 😍😍😍😍

Originally posted by: aimmyangle

Exactly... And in that meerub lives out of town somewhere and murtasim knows that and goes there then here comes meesam... 😍😍😍😍

i am loving this version more 😆

Originally posted by: aimmyangle

Yup always staying positive is the most powerful weapon 😍😍😍😍

Without a doubt positivity is best

Originally posted by: aimmyangle

What if in that haya matter they become bff and start sharing their feelings for eachother...

Originally posted by: altr

There is not going to be an assault. No way. Not of any kind. There's not going to be any divorce either. MK is going to come out as good in this scenario. Nothing else.

Meerab-MK

With her hand in elopement and breaking MK's heart after he begged her not to, no one would have thought Meerab could push him even more. But that wasn't the lowest MK could fall, could he? He lost as a husband, son, brother, ruler, his pride, ego, everything was lost here. What could be worse?

Meerab attacked his love for her by bringing in the contract.

Their lack of trust-This was my main issue with the epi. After watching it and thinking about it, I'm relieved.

1. Their bickering at the wedding venue was a proof of their trust in each other.

2. Meerab comparing Rohail's haath pakadna to Haya's hug shows her trust again.

Meerab's Reaction

Meerab reacted the way she did for many reasons, but not because she didn't trust him.

She has given him her trust time and again, accepted his explanations, reasons, and accepted H in their life. Soup? Gajra? Gao?

This bedroom interaction mirrored their gao fight. Same excuses. Same dialogues. And MK again Brought in Haya to explain. Meerab didn't like it then, and she didn't like it now. Her issue is only with her husband. No one else. Which is why she asks him not to shout at Haya. She doesn't care about H, cause she knows how Haya is.

But, did MK put any boundaries? No. Tumhare ek ishaare pe she will be on you again. I mentioned this earlier, the shopping scene was there for a reason.

1. She was furious for having given him trust always and for him having taken it for granted every time.

2. Adding to that, he questioned her and called her besharam.

3. He never gave her a chance to explain.

4. He called her Haya right before the room incident.

She knows he didn't mean any of that, and she knows he trusts her as well. But she did catch them in a compromising position. And Meerab has always been more intense.

5. But she is furious at the double standards here.

She turns venomous. She wants to hurt him. And she is as possessive as him, if not more.

All her demons are exposed and expressed in this interaction. Jealousy, possessiveness, abandonment issues, her self-respect, everything. She wants to test him as far as she can. She gives her final blow with the contract. She is not in her senses. This is me at my worst. Everyone's abandoned me. Show me your worst.

The spit didn't happen. Her dialogue contradicts it. And I tried saying that word😆, and when we enunciate 'thook', especially as aggressively as Yumna did, it looks like we are actually spitting. But she did not spit.

The slap was too much too. Hard to get over it. Not liking Meerab at all, but trying to understand where the character is coming from.

MK

I am confident there is no assault of any sort. I watched the episode finally. Even after all the reviews, I'm confident there's no assault.

MK first got angry at Meerab's comparison of R and H's situation. This could have further triggered Meerab's anger. And his anger only rose after that.

When MK responded to Meerab's aukaat line finally and closed the door, the only thing I got on my mind was that he is going to tell her how wrong she has been.

He is going to prove her wrong. Act true to his words: Hurt me as much as you want, I'll forgive you, always. My love will once again win. It has always been my love.

They are going to have a huge ugly fight. Meerab in guilt maybe. MK heartbroken yet again.

Off the epi

1. It is only the reviews that gave the feel that there's going to be an assault. The promo, disgustingly marketed to play with emotions, added to the fear. But the epi in itself did not indicate assault in any way.

2. This isn't the final separation. We still have one bts of MK in brown Kurta and M in red dress she usually wears at night. She has her wedding ring on her finger there. So, Meesam is going to happen the right way.

3. The article is vague. It mentions the slap and spit part. And it talks about the THEME of consent and MR. Why not? The whole show is about consent. Aren't they dealing with it already?

4. The makers and channel are cashing in on the publicity and uproar by fans. It's all PR. Nothing else. They aren't going to clarify anything. They will only add more to the publicity. It's disgusting what some of the makers are hinting at, but I don't believe it wrt to MM. They are being vague.

I agree with everything you said 10000000%

Nothing will happen that will damage his character beyond redemption

Keep the faith I am repeating this million times till Wednesday

Originally posted by: NINALOGY

We are still in that shock aur shock jhelney ki himmat nhi

Originally posted by: pari87

NO SA/MR..

I am 100% sure they won't go that route. Something definitely big has happened and I don't know how redeemable Murtasim or Meerub will be but definitely not SA/MR because that is a point of no return. They will not take such a big risk for a show that has gained million viewers across the sub continent.

All said and done, if you listen to Nooran's interview (don't kill me), she is not stupid. She made sense in her interview when Maliha went on asking her about why Haya is still there etc. She said that all the side characters are catalysts for the leads and their story to move forward. Yes, are there many illogical situations in the show? - 100%. But this is not an OTT drama, this on prime time TV - so it is made with the idea of cashing in on drama versus sensibilities. But, she also said how she is a pure romantic at heart. She loves her heroes, even if they rise at the cost of her heroines.

She justified Meerub's actions by talking about the psyche of a girl who was overnight abandoned by her parents and left to a totally opposite feudal family that she cannot relate to and even hates. Even in the back of her mind, she holds Murtasim responsible for this forced marriage - because he did not fight against it. She says this to Murtasim too in one of their fights - Why didn't you say no? Why didn't you fight and stop this marriage? This is why she still thinks that he is not as liberal as he claims or seems to be to her. That is why she has not been able to accept him 100%. she is always scared that he has the same mentality as his family and background.

Whatever happens in the next episode, is for Meerub to realize she was wrong. Something happens that finally makes her realize her mistake in judging Murtasim. Again, this is a trope by Nooran to rise her hero at the cost of the heroine (slapping/spitting). This is why Meerub looks distraught and Murtasim looks broken., not guilty. He does not look guilty. A man who has claimed to love his wife, has been so patient and gentle and caring towards her, won't just assault her and then also have no guilt and roam around in tashan, no matter what background they shown for him. This is not a realistic drama. Murtasim does not exist in reality. Feudal lords would have done worse to their wives already in all the times she has attacked his character/ghairat/stature. That's why, he won't suddenly turn negative.

I am telling you guys, the more I watch the episode, the promo, I am convinced that once again this is a 360 sixer from Nooran to make Murtasim a hero and Meerub look stupid. The climax is Meerub realizing her love for him and accepting him 100% with her heart and giving herself to him. We are predicting too much from BTS and random updates from the child actor's mom and other characters. We don't know how they will join the lines, but I think next episode will be a big "eff you" from Nooran to all the viewers/critics/people abusing her on IG and Twitter. She will not drop her Murtasim from the pedestal. Bhale, Meerub ki bali chad jaye.

Loved reading this analysis. Thank you for this ❤

Originally posted by: aimmyangle

Exactly... And in that meerub lives out of town somewhere and murtasim knows that and goes there then here comes meesam... 😍😍😍😍

Originally posted by: CherryOnTheTop

Mk meeting his own wife as if she is his gf ❤️

😍😍😍😍 Lols ek achi khasi light hearted story bn skti is p 🤣🤣🤣🤣