Originally posted by: Gundamwing
I won't call them toxic, apologies for misusing the word. But they are definitely not in a healthy space right now.
I will use gone with the wind as the bible for alpha alpha romance, when two very volatile people fall in love it is very important they are on the same page or the other person has to back off in a fight, but if they don't and are this highly strung they become self destructive.
I still hold to the theory they don't doubt each other, but they use others as leverage to provoke one another to get a reaction because they are angry and this is how they show it. Because they are aggressive personalities this is what happens when you provoke too many times they will eventually explode.
Does Meeru really think Murtu has a thing for BeHaya NOPE
Does Murtu really think Meeru has a thing for SN NOPE
So why are they doing this to each other. Because instead of discussing about what the real problem is it easier to blame the third party that is soft target. They don't want to face the truth because they are afraid to face it.
Meeru is upset Murtu told her to go home, she knows she is wrong but she expects him to forgive her like he always does. She doesn't want to face the fact that her betrayal was so huge that he will never exonerate her or love her like he used to. She is an ego centric character and she fees diminished in his eyes so she rather blame him and behaya than examine her own behaviour.
Murtu is upset Meeru never prioritizes their marriage, so it is easier to blame her friends and pretend like she did this so she can run away from him. He knows that is not true but he is afraid to face the fact that she doesn't love him as much as he loves her and her causes are more important to her than his happiness.
They are both wrong, she loves him more and he will forgive her anything, but they don't want to talk about that, they would rather character assassinate each other over something they don't even believe in because that is easy to do.
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