Originally posted by: Nja91
I disagree again. Sai denying her feelings or going behind Satyas back would be disgusting and more hurtful. But Sai does not hide or change her stance based on who is watching/not watching. Jo hai saamne hai. There's no pretense.
I absolutely agree that cheating is also emotional. Thats what V always did to Sai. Emotional cheating is much worse than physical.
But Sai ke taraf seh Emotional cheating tabhi hogi if she continues to get more tangled with V instead of distancing. And that remains to be seen. After this mission and as time goes on, does she still accommodate V over everything or not. If she does then she will be butchered and there's nothing left in the show. And I'll also quit. I'm hopeful it won't go there because Sai has always been righteous. She won't put anyone through what she underwent is my belief. I hope its not ruined.
When V Sai got married through deal, Sai just wanted honesty. More than Vs soft corner for P or love for P what bothered her and made her feel small was the way he belittled her, denied things that he was clearly doing. And how he continued to keep P involved in their life while also leading her on.
I have hope Sai wont do the same.
And so far she's not like that. She doesn't deny things. She does not lead Satya on. She won't let V speak between her and Satya. She doesn't pretend to be holier than thou and act as if Satya is asking unreasonable questions when he asked if she loves V or wants to go back to him. When she said- aisa kyun laga- it was genuine curiosity from her side to learn how Satya was perceiving her actions. And then her honest explanation for his questions.
You call Sais actions as emotional cheating now because Sai has still got residual feelings and Satya is moving on and has feelings for Sai. What if Satya was still hung up on Girija. Would that change anything? Being emotionally hung up on anyone whether they are dead or alive, available/unavailable is emotional cheating. So if Satya was still moping over Girija then is he also cheating or would it get cancelled out? As far as Sai knows, Satya still is hung up on Girija too. She doesn't know he has already moved on. On day 1 of marriage, Sai and Satya were both crying for their lost love, the difficulty to forget their first love. And today only a few days later Sai is still dealing with her residual feelings but Satya already loves Sai.
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