Tere bin wahaj ali yumna zaidi DT 93 " I M sorry " - Page 53

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Priyankaakdha

yh kya padh lia maine 🤣

billo rani 🤣

That dirt is billo rani lite 🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago

How's the world after the promo...😈😆

Meerab was Right..

From the start

😆

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Gundamwing


I am back guys

I was just in bed dozing off. A thought popped into my head. And I must share otherwise I will explode.


Haya hugging Murtasim without his consent isn't that sexual assault?


Physical advances are termed sexual assault and include many types of actions including; intentionally grabbing or touching you in a way that you do not like, forcing you to touch them in any fashion, forcibly hugging or kissing you, and other unwanted physical contact.


I know what people are thinking Murtasim deserves this because he himself blurred the boundaries with Behaya by saying cousin touches are OK, BUT HE NEVER consented to this hug. And blaming him is like victim shaming him, isn't that what society does to a woman. She shouldn't have been out late that is why she got assaulted, she shouldn't have worn that dress that is why men were ogling her, she shouldn't have gotten drunk at that party that is why she got raped excuses excuses excuses we here all the times in the media and anyone that asks first what did she do to deserve it. Murtasim should have known Meerab's touch and scent yes he made a mistake, just like woman must take necessary precautions it is a dangerous world but what if we make a mistake does that mean we should get assaulted in return as punishment.


Reverse the genders imagine if Sasta Salman hugged Meerab without her consent, would we blame her, shame her or defend her. SN coercion to get Meerab in his car, deceiving her by saying she is taking her to a cafe but instead taking her to his place that is kidnapping, snatching away her phone and when she was in SN flat touching her multiple times without her consent it was all predatory behaviour. I stood by Meerab woman solidarity and all, but predatory behaviour sees no gender.


The eye check up scene between Murtasim and Witch was another assault scene. Anytime you fake sincerity to trick the other person into touching you that is sexual harassment. Yes Murtasim allows it because he is acting like an older brother, but the other party is not acting like his sister and any touch where intentions differ between two parties is basis for assault. Just like how a male boss can give a harmless congratulatory pat on a female employee's back as a gesture of good job I am proud of you, but if he had other intentions when he touched her then he just assaulted her even if she wasn't full aware of it.


What is wrong for a woman is also wrong for a man. I know this will not be addressed in TB, this show is not about societal topics, but more importantly Murtasim is an alpha dog to even remotely suggest that a woman jumped him is like making fun of his alphaness and well we can't have that. Which is such toxic mentality, a man can cry he can get vulnerable too, he can also get tricked by an evil woman and if she violates his personal space THEN THAT IS A BIG DEAL, and this takes nothing away from him being a macho man. Men get raped and assaulted as well but they don't admit to such things and we don't prosecute such cases because society mocks such men for not being man enough.

If we have come across someone who invades our personal space & we didn't feel comfortable, shouldn't we take care of ourselves around them? Shouldn't we communicate this is not ok? Shouldn't we strictly take action if they still does these things or should we wait for some major tragedy to happen?

She cut her wrist on his Marriage day, what else should she do for him to know what she's & what her intentions are!!

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: midniteangel

No not that.

The first scene, meerub taps him and he says haya..

She says sorry n leaves. Then the room scene

Oh. Okay. Thank you.


I thought in their bedroom he turned and said Haya.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Gundamwing


I am back guys

I was just in bed dozing off. A thought popped into my head. And I must share otherwise I will explode.


Haya hugging Murtasim without his consent isn't that sexual assault?


I felt the same but i was not sure whether to name it assault or not since when she hugged he was happy (because he thought it was Meerab) so his consent was not clear to me.

Now it's clear.

and yes it's super creepy touching someone without their consent.

Edited by Mari_a - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
Meerub was awesome😎 but how in the world recognising the touch is so common?? How can a forceful or unintentional hug means an EMA? It was not his intention to hug her, was it??
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: pickachu

The thing is haya ko murtasim slap bhi nahi kar sakta in the show warna iss p bhi backlash hoga tu mujhe samijh nahi ata haya ka saath karna kya chahiye 😡.


He can ask his wife to 🤓

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: CherryOnTheTop

Oh. Okay. Thank you.


I thought in their bedroom he turned and said Haya.

That Would've had fandom flying to Pakistan...😲🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: midniteangel

This promo just ruined my whole week

Its ruin the meerasim first hug for me. As that is a brutal mark in my heart that dirt hugged him first.

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