Roohi’s heartfelt request- Episode Air Date 13 May 2023 - Page 16

Originally posted by: solembaum

It is not about intention.. he cannot spoil Abhir too with his thoughtless actions .. he has already spoilt Ruhi .. gifting expensive stuff every other day is highly unhealthy even if it is your child abd Akshara is right to be concerned .. but I wish it was not a fight a calm conversation.

So i said...i am reserving my comments for the episode

Lets see ....if Abhimanyu really made a mistake or not

[like I said they I don’t feel

Much sympathy about their troubles .. they have allowed Manjari to walk all over them .. now they are paying the price of not fully being there for their child .. QUOTE=reeyacute]

And she is also the one to create troubles for them

Originally posted by: solembaum

She needs the help and she is for once being selfish and t is allowed .. she can decide what she wants to do and I hope she takes her inheritance if required for the child .. and staying with Goenkas does not mean they are all gifting Abhir expensive things daily .. he is still being raised the way he was in Kasauli except for the big house

They have already giffected Abhir a separate room

Room full of toys....what more

Akshara has problems only with Abhimanyu

Goenkas are rich ....if the kid doesnot like the tiny kasauli house

.what will she do

Originally posted by: solembaum

[like I said they I don’t feel

Much sympathy about their troubles .. they have allowed Manjari to walk all over them .. now they are paying the price of not fully being there for their child .. QUOTE=reeyacute]

And she is also the one to create troubles for them

They were clueless...then

Fault was Aksharas...she hid the so called truth

I don't blame Goenkas here

They did go back to Kasauli afte they gifted the room and the child was fine.. I am sure they will

Manage .. but dailyngifting expensive things is definitely

Not right .. forget daily even if it is every other day it isn’t right . Like someone else said she didn’t object to the birth day gifts even though they were expensive .. but he should learn to keep a limit .. spending time , showering. Love , playing with the kid is good enough right .. you don’t have to keep showering material things every day .. children will stop valuing what they have .. anyway if you don’t want to understand it is fine .. we can just agree to disagree .. I think it is not right to soil kids with too many gifts … that too too frequently .. you feel it is his right and Alshara cannot question him .. and let us leave it at that .. .

Originally posted by: reeyacute

They have already giffected Abhir a separate room

Room full of toys....what more

Akshara has problems only with Abhimanyu

Goenkas are rich ....if the kid doesnot like the tiny kasauli house

.what will she do

Originally posted by: reeyacute

Do daughters have only rights....no responsibility

Akshara was and is responsible for what Goenkas are facing today

Her lies and hidden truth for 6 years are reaping fruits now

Goenkas r paying for the aacha kawyer which Akshara demanded

Manjari cones n insults Goenkas in tge middle of the night n they are clueless

Manish was right Akshara is equally responsible

And what about the responsibility of parents towards their children? Why didn't they go behind akshara and ask her what transpired between her and abhim ? Which parents can sit at home and celebrate with the creepy sil while their daughter roams around on the roads ?

No. Akshu is not equally responsible for what happened between her and abhim but goenkas r equally responsible for what's happening with them.

If manjari comes at shout at them can't they defend their daughter ? A patent no matter how wrong their children are never let a third person say a word ..instead of siding with abhim , if they understood aksharas plight , she would come to them , not abhinav .

Whatever lawyers and luxury akshu is using , it's her right..she has a right in her father's property equal to kairav . She can use it anyway she wants or refuse to take it , it's her choice.

Originally posted by: solembaum

They did go back to Kasauli afte they gifted the room and the child was fine.. I am sure they will

Manage .. but dailyngifting expensive things is definitely

Not right .. forget daily even if it is every other day it isn’t right . Like someone else said she didn’t object to the birth day gifts even though they were expensive .. but he should learn to keep a limit .. spending time , showering. Love , playing with the kid is good enough right .. you don’t have to keep showering material things every day .. children will stop valuing what they have .. anyway if you don’t want to understand it is fine .. we can just agree to disagree .. I think it is not right to soil kids with too many gifts … that too too frequently .. you feel it is his right and Alshara cannot question him .. and let us leave it at that .. .

Exactly. There is a hell of a diff in what you need and what u just pile up as luxury..abhim must pay for everything that abhir needs including his education and daily expenses....this is abhirs right ....

Here what's wrong is how abhir reacted ..throwing away shoes in good condition and comparing it with expensive ones isn't cool..issue is with the mentality of the child ..teaching him to value of everything ..cheap or expensive. Another problem is that if akshara says no , he must not overrule it..they can have a normal conversation if therez a conflict..as of now his direct guardian is akshara so she will decide.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/5327722#163281273

Originally posted by: solembaum

They did go back to Kasauli afte they gifted the room and the child was fine.. I am sure they will

Manage .. but dailyngifting expensive things is definitely

Not right .. forget daily even if it is every other day it isn’t right . Like someone else said she didn’t object to the birth day gifts even though they were expensive .. but he should learn to keep a limit .. spending time , showering. Love , playing with the kid is good enough right .. you don’t have to keep showering material things every day .. children will stop valuing what they have .. anyway if you don’t want to understand it is fine .. we can just agree to disagree .. I think it is not right to soil kids with too many gifts … that too too frequently .. you feel it is his right and Alshara cannot question him .. and let us leave it at that .. .

Abhimanyu gave 6 gifts to his son on his 6th bday for the past 6 yrs he missed

Mahadev ka locket is a blessing.....we normally make our kids wear...thats mot a gift

Shoes...i want the epi to air before i comment

no one objected to the locket and not to the 6 gifts either only his beti was unhappy about it since he kept her out of the whole thing and sowed seeds of insecurity in her mind by suddenly making her feel

Left out .. ..

Originally posted by: reeyacute

Abhimanyu gave 6 gifts to his son on his 6th bday for the past 6 yrs he missed

Mahadev ka locket is a blessing.....we normally make our kids wear...thats mot a gift

Shoes...i want the epi to air before i comment