Tere Bin (Yumna Zaidi- Wahaj Ali) DT#89 "jo kahungi sach kahungi " - Page 120

Originally posted by: Winterberry

Nobody tapped on YZ sensuality till TB. I have seen PKS and then bits n pieces of her other work or shoots but she never looked like she is shown in TB.
There is different feel and vibe to her as meerub and Maha shoot did complete justice to her ! She is no longer the cute girl this is different! TB just brought out her inner hidden feminine and the shoot manifested it!

100 percent agree 👍.... she always have a serious and decent girl image and no one projected her as a typical heroine who s there in a drama to allure the hero...yes she looked tempting and sensual in the latest shoot specialy the yellow dress look where she s not wearing the duppta ,the physical proximity with wahaj added the effect 😍.....you are absolutely right TB brought out her inner hidden feminine ❤...though it always existed i also noticed that in DNTN.

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

Thank you- that’s so kind of you! It took lots of work..and lots of time…even with a love marriage. I think the key is to look at marriage as a partnership in life. When we gave up some of our stubbornness willingly, when we realized that it’s ok to bend our heads down and towards each other sometimes, out of love, for a common goal, that’s when we gained that level of respect and prioritization. Wishing you, and everyone on here, the same!

But also…I learned my lessons from past KMK macho type of guys. They are not marriage material. So I carefully chose this guy to seal the deal with…knowing he wasn’t perfect (b/c who is? I’m certainly not) or my original type of bad boy ideal (silly me), but there was a good base there. He was good looking but honestly the LAST type of guy I would have seen myself with. But life holds diamonds in the rough!

Ohhh…thank you for sharing. I love that you have come to that realization! (I know many don’t care much for culture or religion, and that’s ok too!) But honestly, I personally feel that we are so lucky to have south Asian culture. It is just so so rich and vibrant in every which way, from clothing, to food, to literature, music, dance, languages with beautiful words,sounds, and meanings that you can’t just translate. To me it adds such a beautiful dimension to life. I know for some it’s not important, and again that’s ok too, but for me personally, it is HUGE. I also grew up in Canada and initially only liked white guys…later on though, we had plenty of brown guys here, so my choices changed. My husband grew up in the US and had NEVER thought he’d end up with a brown girl. Never!!! (Although I will say, I know many girls/boys who married non-brown people and still are heavily into their south Asian culture.) Hoping you find THE BEST fit for you soon <3 <3 <3

Originally posted by: Gigi78752

Thank you for sharing your experience with us…it’s so reassuring to hear about differences even in marriages of your choice and how to handle it..you know lately i have started realizing that one of my non negotiable is someone who is completely from a different culture( or doesn’t understand other culture)…as someone who is south Asian who grew up in the US…I had a very difficult time accepting my own culture because it made me feel like I would stand out…I wanted to fit in…I dated white men..wanted to fit in soooo bad but as I’m growing up and maturing I’ve realized how lucky I am to have such rich and beautiful culture…I’m finally in the last couple of years proud to be brown..and want to share my life with someone who shares this heritage and culture with me…anyways…listening to you…I just wanted to share my thoughts…

Please lock this thread. Thanks🤗🤗

My case is quite the opposite of yours. Mine was an arranged marriage to a total stranger, he's a typical macho types, our marriage 18 years still going on. Everyday my DH makes me blush like a teenager with his compliments and treats me like a queen, so one size doesn't fit all.

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

Thank you- that’s so kind of you! It took lots of work..and lots of time…even with a love marriage. I think the key is to look at marriage as a partnership in life. When we gave up some of our stubbornness willingly, when we realized that it’s ok to bend our heads down and towards each other sometimes, out of love, for a common goal, that’s when we gained that level of respect and prioritization. Wishing you, and everyone on here, the same!

But also…I learned my lessons from past KMK macho type of guys. They are not marriage material. So I carefully chose this guy to seal the deal with…knowing he wasn’t perfect (b/c who is? I’m certainly not) or my original type of bad boy ideal (silly me), but there was a good base there. He was good looking but honestly the LAST type of guy I would have seen myself with. But life holds diamonds in the rough!

Awww love that 🥰 I’m glad you have your Macho guy! I guess… my guy still is a pretty macho tall Punjabi munda but I forget to acknowledge that sometimes hahaha! But I think I meant to say, bad boy type…not macho, macho is ok…just not the bad boy ass behavior type.. is what I meant.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

My case is quite the opposite of yours. Mine was an arranged marriage to a total stranger, he's a typical macho types, our marriage 18 years still going on. Everyday my DH makes me blush like a teenager with his compliments and treats me like a queen, so one size doesn't fit all.

Yeah, thanks, 🤗I agree we forget the physical appearance and it's only the behaviour which matters After a while

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

Awww love that 🥰 I’m glad you have your Macho guy! I guess… my guy still is a pretty macho tall Punjabi munda but I forget to acknowledge that sometimes hahaha!

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Yes meerab did nothing.

She fought with him for nyla, haya by saying he shouldn't do forced marriage to anyone.

But haya is trustworthy

What if she wantedly created misunderstandings, harmed meerab intentionally, did kala jadu, tried to seduce him in gao.

She is after all family member & most trustworthy