It takes a lot to be not bothered about being insulted day in and day out by your own aunt….It takes a Lot not to answer or give it back to her when your aunt says you are not the right person to handle business and darji must give the baton to Gary…..It takes a lot accept jasleen’s part in the bride changing issue at his marraige and still show her respect …..it takes a lot to see your aunt trying to insult your mother almost at every occasion and still maintain dignity by not giving it back …..it takes a lot to love and trust the same cousin whose mother is putting you and your parents down all the time …. It takes a lot of magnanimity to still trust your cousin in spite of his mothers acts which shows that Gary is never held responsible for what jasleen say or does ….but that the cousin broke his trust is another issue …
But why does Angad do it …. Put up with Jasleen and everything she says , did or does …only one answer come to my mind ..family … a joint family has its problems and people like jasleen are a part and parcel or lt.. there are many ways to deal with such people … we can have a one on one with them everyday for whatever they say and do and give them what they want which is provoking a response from you or ignore them and continue what you are best at which is your work and let that do the talking for you. Angad adopts the second way. Also Angad has been probably brought up to believe elders have the liberty to say anything and the young ones don’t answer back no matter what … and he maintains that decorum of respect for the elder and keeps away from engaging in any kind of verbal spat with jasleen …Manveer responds occasionally when she feels the line has been crossed too much but not always … and it is because of Manveer and Angad’s this disposition that they don’t make an issue of everything Jaslin says , things are quiet at Brar house and the unity is maintained ..
But what jasleen did for Angad’s marraige is unforgivable… even then Angad never uttered a word against jasleen except once where he hinted how hurt he was by what she did …Manveer did show her anger but it was like water off a ducks back on jasleen…here is where I feel darji and Bebe should have taken a stand and given it to jasleen. It is in darji and Bebe’s place to take jasleen to task but they did not even question her on this issue. darji and Bebe have done a great injustice to Angad and Manveer. If jasleen had the guts to destroy Angad’s life through his marraige it is because she was confident no one will take her to task for it . Darji’s behaviour in this incident speaks volumes on the kind of man he is … the head of the family should take a firm stand against big wrongs …darji of course need not take sides on the everyday insulting but something as big as a marraige fraud needed a condemnation and a strict action by the head of the family …
For Angad his family no matter how they are to him ..they will come first ..he will bear any injustice or wrong done to him by them ….but Angad I trust and believe will not let his family spoil someone else’s life by cheating ….even today he trusted sahibas word against Garry to one extent and is waiting for proof to take Gary to task and that’s where I believe that he is not completely blind in his love for his family …
The brar family’s united front is thanks mainly to Manveer and Angad.