TERE BIN - Yumna Zaidi - Wahaj Ali DT # 74 - Page 36

Originally posted by: pickachu

Atleast rohail ka white board aur anas ka stupid dialogue se better tha per unfortunately ye meerab ka standard se zayada ka tha 🤣

meeru ko white board k sath wale confessions hi pasand hain and pocket mein ring le kar ghoomne wale larkay. murtu needs to do the same, phir pasand karne lage gi 😆

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Very long post alert ⚠️ 📢

Meerub even after that confession helped maryum with this shitty plan!!!! 👏this just made all this worst and unbearable in many more ways!!!!! 😫

So To all those people saying Marium had been planning to elope before M even knew anything, she would’ve done it anyway.

Okay chalo mana she would have done it on her own, without Meerub’s help the same thing would happen!

But but but..... meerub ki involvement ho chuki hein!!!!! So yeh sab kehna ab bekar hein!

Chalo dekhte hein meerub kaise yeh rok sakti ! But roka nahi! And uski involvement mei jeyada kya bigaar gaya!

Well aao start kare 🤪

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She could have informed murtasim about maryum's plan! She stopped her and asked for some times, even made a stupid wada! She had plenty of times in hand informing this to him but she didn't! She chose to ignore it! For whom??? That anas and maryum???

Areh islaam bhi kehta hein after maa baap, your spouse comes first! Sabse pehle spouse ka izzat ka maan rakho phir baad mei baki dekh lena!

Why only islam! Isn't that how it supposed to be?? Thinking about your own partner's well being first! Even tho maryum is his own sister, he himselt told her "maryum ko nikalo, usko humare bich nah aney do"

What does this mean??? Give your attention on me first! Make me your first priority then go for others ( maryum) joh bhi humare bich aye usko side mei rakho!

Yeh gaya ek point ! Lets dive into next one!

Your sister betrayed your trust your love, your upbringing, YOU. ( ONE PERSON)

You own biwi helped your sister with her stupid plan! That biwi who meant the world to you! And you told her this many time! That biwi from whom you asked "sambhal lena khudko and mujhko" ! The first ever person to whom you ask for sahara! That biwi who's became your first priority, and even she understands this! For whom you went against your beliefs, family, thoughts everything!

The one that means everything to you now, the one you almost begged and confessed ( right before the eloping kaand) saying "sambhal lena" and all! You trusted her with all your beings!!!

That person! That biwi betrayed you too . ( 2 person)

1 ka betrayal mano kafi nahi tha dard dene ke liye.....they doubled the pain with adding another person! 2 person at a time from his family, his sister and his jaan betrayed him!

And in between this 2 person! Meerub's betrayal will hard more harshly than Maryum's betrayal !

Now imagine the pain murtasim will feel! The harsh slap of betrayal he will go through ! What will he answer to his family his mother???jiske against woh itne dafa chala gaya just for biwi!

His own wife helped his sister in this! Ghar ki ek izzat ne dusri izzat ki janaza nikal ne mei madad kar di???

( ladke bhi izzat hotey hein. Don't start calling me sexist. Call meerub stupid!!! )

Meerub even after that confession from murtasim helped maryum! Iske baad woh bata sakti thi murtasim ko tumhari behen yeh soch rahi hein kuch karo!

She helped her even tho she herself understood "yeh sahi nahi hein" still she did this!

Areh kisika nahi toh khudka hi sun leti "yeh sahi nahi hein" yehi sun leti meerub!

She helped her with this eloping even after she herself said this 2-3 times "murtasim jhoot nahi bol sakta"

toh kya fayda huya iska??? Yeh aise trust ka kya fayda?????

She clearly had 2 option in her hand!

Maryum ko diya wada vs murtasim Ka bharosha

Maryum the duffer nanand And her 2 days ashiq! Vs Murtasim the guy, the sohar, jisne uske liye apne jaan ki baji se leke jo bas mei aya sab kar diya!

and and and 🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁

Our meerub baji chose her wada ( ego, I'm always right attitude) over her husband's trust on her ! 👏

So to all those agar meerub nah bhi hoti toh bhi maryum bhagti! Meerub ki hone se kya fark ho gaya jeyada, phir bhi toh hona hi tha!!!

JEYADA NAHI BOHUT JEYADA hi FARK par gaya! Her involvement in it has made it 100× worst for murtasim! Murtasim ne jis ek insaan par trust rakha sabse jeyada, jisko sabke upar rakha, apni gairat se upar rakha ussi ne usko ek dhakke se gira diya !

It was a test for her....and she failed! Yeh sab ruk sakti thi bas ek bar apne sohar par trust karke usse plan bata dete maryum ki! But SHE DIDN'T! AND THAT'S HER MISTAKE!

SHE HELPED A GIRL ELOPED AT MIDDLE OF NIGHT WITHOUT MUCH INFORMATION OF THE GUY! THATS MISTAKE! HER HELPING MARYUM IN IT IS A WHOLE MISTAKE! NO NEEDS FOR JUSTIFICATION WHY ITS A MISTAKE! Coz THIS IS WHAT IT IS, ITS A MISTAKE! HER EVEN LOTS OF WARNING FROM MURTASIM STILL GOING AHEAD WITH THIS STUPIDITY IS MISTAKE!

Meerub , maryum, haya and anas all of them are equally wrong in this! Which kinda sensible person would help a girl elope that too who has been shown as progressive, intelligent, ambitious, studious !!

Maryum - Eloping and she loved and trusted the wrong person over her own brother and family

Anas/Mz for planning this GHATIYA plan! Trapping a poor girl by this trick!

Meerub :- well here it is! Khun karne wala , and khun karna galat hein janke bhi khun mei madad karne wala bhi utna hi galat hein!

Haya :- well that bitch! Sab kuch janke bhi kutta pan kar gayi! Most disgusting. Same line for her! khun karne wala, and janke na batane wala same!

Usko sirf jo uske k sath hua woh nazar ata hai, bs, she can not beyond herself.

^^^

Meerab is irresponsible even as a sister to be honest , she is supporting Mariam in taking such a huge risk without knowing anything about the guy , even if we forget about Murtasim for a second , Meerab should not be so foolish to not notice Anas’s clear manipulative behaviour, he’s asking Mariam to elope from the very start and is avoiding meeting Murtasim at all times.

Writers are doing great injustice to their female lead by making her look so dumb , the attitude Meerab throws after behaving so stupidly is getting annoying to watch nowadays.

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

AGREE. I have personal experience with this, so maybe that’s why Meerab’s turn of character has really irked me. Some people close to me have ruined the lives of others around them, because their focus was just on what they personally felt was the right thing to do, and the right way to live their life. But, we are not islands unto ourselves. Especially in many Asian cultures (and others). Their actions have consequences on others. Others have to foot the bills of life, while they live in their la la land. It has made parts of my life hell, and I am still angry about their decisions and how it has affected my family. Things could have been done in a different way, to get to the same destination. Those people have what they wanted now, but only in that respect, and at what cost to others.

That is sheer selfishness. One thing I have learnt in life is that your every action not just affects you but also your near and dear ones. Be it good or bad. A lot of times people have this myopic vision, they only think short term and from 1 perspective w/o realizing the impact it will have on others.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

https://youtu.be/dvWyv2LyHNk

What's with Mariyam's expression here?? Itna zyada pheeka. She isl ooking confused rather than shocked.

sorry but f*ck meerab. bilkul achi nahi lag rahi rotay huay. she has done this several times now. itna kachra kar deti hai phir murtasim murtasim kar k masoom shakal bana kar ronay lagti hai and expects him to fix everything, and then she goes on to repeat the patterns. there's only so many times you can sympathize with someone or feel bad for them when they are crying, but if they never learn from their "mistakes" (if i should even refer to those willful decisions as mistakes is highly questionable), then that's the end of the rope 😤

Originally posted by: midniteangel

Yes.. mariyam already tried to elope. It was meerub who stopped her the first time. If meerub hadn't stopped, mariyam would have already eloped n murtu would have gone crazy searching for her.

Even though meerub helped this time, she was still not fully satisfied with her decision. She told abt it to Mariyam as well but Mariyam still wanted to leave with anas.

Unpopular opinion - meerub and Haya should not be blamed. This was mariyam's fault 100%, coz she is the one who chose to run away. Even if Haya said it was MZ, mariyam would not have believed it, for her Anas is the only truthful one. When Mariyam doesnt believe her own brother, I highly doubt she will believe Haya..

Originally posted by: pickachu

Atleast rohail ka white board aur anas ka stupid dialogue se better tha per unfortunately ye meerab ka standard se zayada ka tha 🤣

Originally posted by: Neha_J

Meerab will teach him to forgive the past as she will be the first to forgive first and move on

I guess didn't quiet get the reference 😅

Take the right perspective you will find your answers

Originally posted by: FireSafireFiree

100% agree with you guys. The guy need to be suitable and no way I am justifying what’s happening in show is good!! Bcs in reality your parents ask if he or she any good for you??

Idk about others but I have a very conservative family (alhamdulliah) our deen is our 1st priority!
map they follow the basic rules where elders asks our wish.

Marriage is a big thing. So need to get it right.

however I have seen, few , actually quit few now ! They finished education has great jobs. Girls r already reaching 30 or now over, who has been rejecting men’s after men’s. Bcs they didn’t like any and now they don’t even get proposal! Now they r regretting oh why I said no!

Idk if you guys experienced that but I have seen lots and now family is straggling to find someone. And also Bcs they have been so busy in their life they can’t even find someone.

mens has a good time span to be married even in there 30s they can find girls but it’s not the case for girls!

do u see my point??nothing with drama! Just few members of my family 😂😂

Totally. And tbh, I can relate a little to this topic. I am 28, unmarried, so the whole shaadi concern and everything I get it. If I take my example, my family isn't that conservative but they give high importance to marriage and for them age matters (right time wala logic)...and I don't 🤣

Struggle is real....only ik how I have been dodging the bullet 🤣