Originally posted by: mango.falooda
what happens with kids like aarav is that they end up having a delayed childhood phase. this can happen either in their teenager years or young adult or even as an adult. basically all the things they could not express as child, they end up expressing those kind of emotions much later. so it is a type of stunted development (there is actual psych term for it but I can't remember).
one would hope the old people around the complex were only discussing appropriate child stuff with aarav. so I don't really see why viaan and aarav are bonding in such a stupid way. why not bond over cricket or over dogs or something in common. like I said before, it shows utter lack of imagination on the makers part -- makes me think no one on that writing team has any experience with children.
Definitely, that can significantly contribute to a developmental delay and especially in children who have struggled with illnesses- they tend to have much weaker interpersonal skills. Possibly why we are witnessing the unusual situation we are seeing now 😂
(I certainly see a reasoning behind Aarav's behaviour but you know what, more than this I think you're right about lack of imagination by the writers, Im sure they havent even thought in so much detail 😂 😂 )
I do think, similarly Viaan's childhood had a significant effect on how he is behaving now when he has found someone to depend on leading to a very clingy behaviour.
But yes, would have loved seeing them bond over other things, way more. It would have been more appropriate like you said! ❤️
Edited by RatiPandey615 - 2 years ago