TERE BIN (Geo) - Yumna Zaidi - Wahaj Ali DT# 62 - Page 32

Originally posted by: NINALOGY

It's just YumHaj's chemistry otherwise this drama was just a crap. Such badly written script.

My question is too TBA, let's suppose you get marry forcefully with a person like murtasim, let's put yourself on meerab's place and tell me, after 6-8 months of marrriage? What would be your reaction. Samjhota karty/chod detey or meerab ki tarahan confused rehty?

I just got goosebumps even thinking that.

Scary beyond imagination.

Still one thing is for sure that I will not become heartless if at her place.

For sometime yes such things could cloud your basic senses and logic but than you start seeing things clearly so yeah approach can't be this illogical and rude for sure.

Originally posted by: Alizba63

This! Other than this if someone is like murtasim I don't see any other reason.

But there are people like meerab who maybe for some reason just can't. They love no one else but Unki marzi pehle nahi thi and they just can't deal with that aspect. I can't even blame them.

See alizba at this point no one is asking her to love him back, or have sex with him.

All we are asking some human behaviour.. basic trust, comfort....care.

Like pyaar nahi...dost baan ja??? Bande ne itne dino mei itna toh kiya hi hein ki usko dost maan sake???

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Wohi joh maine pehle kaha tha...ghar, parichay , chaad, aan baan shaan!

Murtasim is giving her all these.

Also a toy to play according to her mood!

Separation ki baad usko aur bhi realise hogi Murtasim ke bina usko dar dar ke thokre khane parenge....pari likhi jaheel ladki hein hein

Bhai tuh itni strong itni pari likhi ja nah sab chorke...please chali jaa ...khud bhi shaanti se reh baki ko bhi shaanti de....bas chali ja sab ko chorke

Murtu baap maa yeh ghar khandan title sab...kahi dur jake apne buniyaad par kuch kar!

No mam only knows bari bari batein ☺️

Merub is not padhi lakhi jaahil. She is full jaahil. A college drop-out.

She is a privileged brat with zero street smarts and survival skills. Logon ki pehchaan nahin hai. Iski badtammezi main she will get fired from her entry level job in a day. Apne liye chai bhi nahi banati thi. She herself knows she is not cut out to live outside her privileged bubble without her daddies. If she were to live on her own, ek hafte main sex trafficked hokar dubai main hogi.

Originally posted by: midniteangel

Lol!! 🤣🤣🤣

I have learnt to not expect anything and just watch the show.. I became wise after last week's ishq episode 😭😭

If you accept she is damaged then it makes sense

I see the episodes like I am her therapist

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Good point

if my no self esteem theory is right then she is someone who will never love deeply as he loves her.
In real life such people are always unsure, temperamental, flaky, confidence is a facade, they indulge in foolish bravado
does she even believe in maryam love hmmmmmm I doubt it. She is trying to rewrite her past by trying to write maryam future on her terms

She will fail on all fronts

You have written some eye-opening sore facts....which I doubt some misguided revolutionists will appreciate it!!!🙂🙃

Kal Eid nahi hai, nahi Murtasim mara hai. 😭

Okay jokes aside, I'll share my honest opinions about characters from today's episode, although I watched it through live updates on twitter but I still know what happened.

Meerab was 💯 correct in taking the stand for Maryam. Her stance and point was absolutely correct, but Khan family's females are the epitome of stupidity so Maryam did exactly what a stupid girl will do.

Maa Begum's character was one of my favorite in the show after Murtasim but now she nowhere is likable in my eyes. The parents who emotionally blackmails are unacceptable and annoying to watch. It was also the reason as to why she wasn't my most favorite( I mentioned this in some older DT too) because this thing always bothered me that she blackmailed Murtasim in marriage as well. It's high time she changes her thinking for the sake of her daughter and don't ruin her life and emotions, just the way she did with her son.

Well I won't say anything about meerasim scene because I'll feel like punching Meerab. It feels as if Meerab thinks too high of herself and considers Murtasim as a disgusting piece of human being. Her reaction is grossing honestly.

Now coming to Murtasim's love elaboration, I don't agree with it at all but it can be explained through his upbringing and how he fell in love with Meerab only after she became his wife. The fact is that he didn't differentiate genders, it isn't about man and woman but just a human falling in love as he mentioned both genders. It's wrong but it's an actual representation of feudal family.

In Islam it is commanded for both man and woman to lower their gazes for the sake of protecting their heart from heartbreak but if you fall in love before marriage you must go towards Nikkah immediately, but in cultural families they ignore the possibility of falling in love before marriage in nurturing and only emphasizes upon love after marriage.

After pregnancy fiasco in his conversation with Maa Begum he said that she always taught him to protect relations and prevent them from crumbling, one of the reasons why he hasn't given up on Meerab till now. This and his love for Meerab shows that he is bound by the upbringing and morals taught. He couldn't think about going against them.

I'm nowhere justifying Murtasim's thinking but I'll say that it is understandable to see as to why he has this regressive thinking. This thinking was a part of his upbringing and the upbringing is deeply rooted in him, he can't change it unless someone points it out. I deeply hope through this track Meerab helps him in changing it and he changes it or else he can go to hell from my side.

Originally posted by: NINALOGY

It's just YumHaj's chemistry otherwise this drama was just a crap. Such badly written script.

My question is too TBA, let's suppose you get marry forcefully with a person like murtasim, let's put yourself on meerab's place and tell me, after 6-8 months of marrriage? What would be your reaction. Samjhota karty/chod detey or meerab ki tarahan confused rehty?

Either main chor dungi

Or agar saath rehne ka choose karti hun toh dhire dhire koshish karungi

4-5 mahine ke baad toh main bhi sure ho jayungi....ki

1) nahi .....ho hi nahi raha hein..bas chor dena hi thik hein...woh bhi agey jaye.. main bhi...

2) lagega nahi yaar chor nahi sakte....shayed ek chance de sakte hein..

But aise ek track par pari rehke uske saath saath khudke jindegi bhi rok kar nahi rakhungi.

Originally posted by: arshi1983

There's more to a husband-wife relationship than just love/romance. Love alone wont keep a couple together. We can clearly see that they are working on things like- trust,communication,vulnerabilities,respect,honesty. They were struggling with all these initially now there's some progress, she is willing to talk and he is willing to listen u know..that's progress for me! Romance in their relationship is the culmination of this journey!

I never said I just want to see romance between these two.

and ofcourse it is about trust, communication, vulnerabilities, respect, honesty, romance etc. but in my personal opinion we haven't even seen that here.

Meru didn't trust Murtasim when he was alone with Haya, she sometimes feels uncomfortable with his closeness. She is not honest with him with respect to Rohail calls and when she got to know about Mariyam relationship...... very well knowing the thinking of Murtasim and Khaan family.

Murtasim didn't trust her with Rohail , the way he drags her from one place to another.....she deserves more respect than that, he tells her what should be done and how to behave in front of the family.

In 34 episodes, they had very very few communication where both were vulnerable....in Episode 20 and maybe in Karachi episode and that too for 4 minutes.

Not seen them communicating, being vulnerable and talking about their feelings for saying there is communication........ it's just random talks about love and Murtasim constantly staring at her for 2-3 minutes.

Since Episode 20, I want them to have a proper communication which we haven't seen. I have no hope if we will get one.

I wouldn't have said anything if it was ITV. Limited series shows doesn't have the scope to show snail paced progression between the leads.

Writer while writing Meerab:

(Inspired from twitter)

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

If you accept she is damaged then it makes sense

I see the episodes like I am her therapist

she is, koi shakh? 😊