Vinayak needs to be shown the door - Page 9

Originally posted by: Gems.musingsRN

And no gratitude to the person who cured his illness, instilled confidence in him , who was revealed to be his own mom, the one he has been seeking (he always wanted to find his aai baba ever since he came to know about adoption)?

Selective gratitude huh? Not to mention selective hearing & processing of things (he knows Virat is his dad, Sai is his mom & Savi is his sister yet he has gratitude only to patra ..that's unnatural ).

Vinu had gratitude and respect for Sai before the truth was revealed and P manipulated him. Savi never had a father figure in life and she was pining for him. So, it was easy for her to accept Virat. On the other hand, Vinu already a mother figure in life through Pakhi. After Pakhi's manipulation, it was natural for him to doubt Sai. Had Virat taken up the job of handling it maturely, it would have been nipped in the bud. Vinu would have accepted it slowly. The elders messed it up.

Even the guardian angel idea, it was Pakhi who planted it into him in a way. According to indian scriptures, the responsibility of mistakes of children fall completely on parents when the children are less than 10. Once the children cross 20, the blame falls on them mostly. 10 to 20 years of age is where slowly they are held responsible.

Anger shouldn't blind you when you are speaking about people especially kids

Well we are discussing that show where Sai opted for surrogacy because her eggs were getting destroyed .. and that’s why she jumped in accepted a woman as surrogate abd then agreed to have patralekha .. toh take that show seriously ..

Something not to forget it that in reality this Vinu was developed inside a pregnant woman called PP who was that that time an evil, envious, selfish, take vada for no reason, think only about the current person so the result is very clear. I dont think genes mattered in this guy, he is only PP's son

People justified an adult ACP Virat's multiple abusive behavior saying he was manipulated by Pakhi and Bhavani.

But the amount of gaali the poor 7 year old gets just coz he is believing his manipulative mumma. why doesnt he get the same pass? I was actually surprised to see he didn't blame Sai for his dad's bad behavior with his mom and still the same.

Do people know how easy it is to manipulate children if the person knows how to esp evil people. We normal people don't know how to or realize it, but there are people like Pakhi or Ashwini in real world who can actually convince kids into many things. She has years of experience that not even Sai can handle her manipulations, what is poor child in front of her.

You are wrong here. Sai was not taken into confidence when egg was transplanted into pakhi…….that blame lies solely with birat.

Its not really. Patralekha has lead hjm to believe that Sai abandoned him. Do you really think a child would leave the parents they've known their entire life for a random doctor who treated them(in his mind)?

Its not really. Patralekha has lead hjm to believe that Sai abandoned him. Do you really think a child would leave the parents they've known their entire life for a random doctor who treated them(in his mind)? Why does Savi not feel the same amount of gratitude for the only parent that raised her? Why does she keep doing her baba Jaap all the time? Now that's what you call an ungrateful child.

Given that you are a woman yourself, you too will lose all your "eggs" at some point of time jn the future, because nobody can stop the biological process called menopause. I hope you learn to stop valuing yourself based on your fertility and develop the strength to accept the change that you'll inevitably face in the future.

I hope this might sound preachy. But do we have to speak on the lines of eggs, fertility etc We can bash any character we want by not bringing in topics or words that can come across as difficult to accept.

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

Well we are discussing that show where Sai opted for surrogacy because her eggs were getting destroyed .. and that’s why she jumped in accepted a woman as surrogate abd then agreed to have patralekha .. toh take that show seriously ..

The idea that a 20 something Sai's eggs were getting destroyed is laughable, it was the worst blunder the writers and creatives did. I remember many called out that nonsense in forum during that track.

Atleast sensible people shouldn't repeat the utter stupidities ghum cvs have written .