Ghkkpm: Second name of absurdity - Page 3

Ghum handles Virat with kids gloves. Sai should have outright told Virat that she hasn't forgotten his abuse can't even entertain the thought of staying in the same house as the abuser much less marrying him. At present, Pakhi is fed up with Virat too who is no less of an abuser herself.

Sai will not get such dialogues - she didn't get it in the medical + courtroom scene against Pakhi, she won't get it against Virat now. I am just happy she is leaving Virat for good for xyz reason. A DCP locking his ex wife and small kid in a room because she rejected the married man's marriage proposal 🤢

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Calm down ma'am he didn't locked them specially his daughter without food and water I think you would have watched Virat's concern about the repeatation of events of past and it wasn't because of rejection but Sai's inability to understand the situation and I also agree with that, there is nothing wrong in his decision I am not anybody's stan but this is what my POV is, as Sai didn't rejected him because of her heart but all that drama PL did ,she is not a homewrecker or dusri aurat that her belief is according to me if she will be moving on with Virat she will not be serving as that.....

In reality if this happens

Virat would be suspended

Originally posted by: Ashane25

As I have said I will gonna reply so here it is in hindi jyaada feeling aati hai phir

Ma'am kamal ki baat hai ki aapka message logical hai illogical bhi Virat Pl se ek baar shaadi kare do baar kare hazaar baar kare kya isse ye sachchai badal jaati hai ki uski shaadi ek bachche ke adoption ke liye ho chuki thi, jab family ne use convince kiya tha aur wo pichle 7-8 saalo me apni ex biwi ki yaad mein devdas bana phir rha tha shayad mar bhi jaata agar aai ki kasam nhi hoti aur Vinayak ko adopt nhi kiya hota par phir bhi matter kya karta hai ki ek aise accident ke baad jisme Pl ki jaan ja sakti thi kyunki Virat ne prove kar diya tha ki uske liye Sai jyaada matter karti hai aur gharwalo ke specially Aai ke lakh taane sunane ke baad agar bande ne pati hone ka farz nibhane ka decision le liya to wo galat, honeymoon pe chala gaya jaha honeymoon manana hi nhi tha wo bhi galat ,ghum ko follow karne wala ek ek insaan jaanta hai ki Virat aur PL ke saath.... kuch nhi....kabhi bhi nhi ,bande ko uske haath se khaana khaane me bhi hesitation hoti hai honeymoon to bahut dur ki baat hai par nhi hume pta hai ki pichle 7 saalo me Virat ne PL ko touch bhi nhi kiya jab uske biwi bachche duniya me nhi the aur uski puri life aage pdi hui thi ,shaadi to karni hi padti aur bachche bhi par kuch nhi kiya, aur achanak use mauka mil gya na ye sab karne ka ma'am aap bolna kya chahti ho ye statement ekdum shocking hai ki Virat sad nhi tha kya ki wo PL ko uska bachcha nhi de sakta hai, to kya wo ye sab apne marji se kar rha tha.... ha..... really aur aapne aisa socha bhi kaise itni insaaniyat to hoti hai ma'am ki jab ek aurat hospital me bed pe pde ro rhi hai kyunki ab wo kabhi maa nhi ban sakti to use sambhala jaata hai ,hasa nhi jaata jo Virat ne uss waqt kaha tha ,wo pyaar nhi guilt tha aur usse jyada haalat the.....

Point to be noted is that aapke mutabik Virat PL ke saath saalon se ek hi bed pe so rha tha....nhi na 7-8 saal tak soya kya....kab soya jab usne bed joda ya aai baba ne aur kaise soya kabhi soya to dusri taraf to kabhi soya hi nhi....

And respect wala point aap hi batao aap kiski respect karogi jo aapka bachcha leke chali gayi aur Vinayak maara gaya, joki Virat ka bhi beta tha, pregnant thi par akele bachchi paalne ka decide kar liya aur ek baap se uski beti ka bachpan chhin liya, 7-8 saal tak apne aap ko ek door gaon me basa liya aur jab wo insaan aapse galti se mil gaya shayad kabhi milta hi nhi to aise galatfahmi wale painful years ke baad usne aapko kiske saath dekha ek bachchi ke saath jise aap apna bta rhi thi, duniya aapke character par ungliyan utha rhi thi aur ye baat Virat ko bhi malum pad gyi Vitthal khud aaya tha ending me sab ke baad itne saalon ka JT ka aur Sai ka rishta batane to Sai JT and Savi ki kahani...... aap jaanti hai ise bolte hai pain.....naaki FL ke aasuon ko jo ki uske bebuniyaad faislo ki wajah se hai......

To wo Pl ki ijjat kyu nhi karega jo sudhar gayi thi aur itne saalon se ek anaath bachche ka khyaal rakh rhi thi aur ghar ka bhi aur khaaskar jab Virat waise mare hue haalat me tha ya phir Sai ka jiski wajah se aaj sab aise haalat me hai aur madam ye sab gadbadi karne ke baad move on kar rhi hai kahi wo kisika ghar na tor de....

And you yourself declared Sai stupid definitely she is because aapne jo bhi kha wo to post leap hua but chhora to leap ke pehle tha na..... makers ne rota dhota dikhaya to humne maan liya......

And yes he is not a great man, he was a great man ,shayad ek anaath bachchi jiske baba apne senior ko bachate hue maare gye aur uski zindagi puri tarah khatam ho gyi thi ,koi nhi tha duniya me ,kuch bhi nhi tha aage badhne ke liye agar tab Virat ne sai ka haath thama apne pyaar, family aur khud ki married life ke baare me soche bagair to shayad ise aam shabdon me great hi kahte hai ye to main wala tha jisse wo doctor ban paayi baaki aur bahut si baatein hai par rahne dete hai......

Aur ha shayad sai dusri aurat tab nhi thi na jab wo vinayak ke liye ghar me aayi thi, sab ke taane sun rhi thi phir bhi nhi gayi par ab ho gayi hai.... kyu????kyunki Pl ne jo gyaan de diya... kaunsi dusri aurat... kaisi dusri aurat.... Jab wo khud galatfahmi me biwi ban gayi to Sai kaisi dusri aurat ho sakti hai kaha ka logic hai ye law to ye show maanta nhi hai to hum apna dimag bhi chhor aaye show makers ko jo chaaho wo kar lo and calling Pl as wife and Sai a stranger or teesri aurat is I think he did it all in a neutral situation shayad iske liye achchi khaasi baatein ho chuki hai Sai ne to Virat ko ex bola hi nhi na jab ki tumhare decisions ne use ex bna diya uski marji ne nhi ye ek crime hai par ye itv hai....

Aur countless is not 3-4 times .....

And harassment you know is only when a woman is a victim otherwise it's not harassment kyunki Virat ne Sai ko harass kiya jab Sai chup chap khadi thi na usne to kuch kiya hi nhi tha bas aise hi harass kar diya man aaya aur harass kar diya uska adopted bacha leke jaane ki dhamki wo deti hai aur harass Sai ho rhi hai pehle aag me kudo aur phir baad me bolo mai jal kyu gayi aise law nhi kaam karta ma'am......Jo bhi ho par Savi ko to andar dikkat nhi hui aur Virat to chhabhi de rha tha par kya Sai Savi ko leke nhi jaati ab to wo shaadi bhi kar legi mamla hi khatam madam aapko koi ye nhi bol rha ki kisi ka abusive behaviour acceptable hai par aap court ya police se bhi deal karengi na to wo bhi bolte hai ki mamla kya tha aise chhoti moti baaton ko jinke piche aisi wajah hai unhe wo sar pe nhi chadhate kai baar domestic violence ka level 1 offence( slap, scratch, punch, hit, etc) agar occasional hota hai aur reasons ke saath tab bhi maaf kar diya jaata hai ye to wo bhi nhi hai.....

Pta hai ki Savi kya chahti hai, pta hai Virat kya chahta hai, pta hai mere dil me kya chahat hai ye bhi pta hai ki Vinu ko ek din sachchai ka ehsaas ho jaayega aur wo tumhare saath khush bhi hai par matter kya karta hai ki aapne kisika ghar to nhi toda na....kahi aapko Pl jaisi aurat dusri aurat na bulaye.....

Actually na saari dikkaton ki wajah Kamal sir hai pehle Virat ko sikhaya ki Virat farz se badhkar kuch nhi, faisle haalat dekhke liye jaate hai, jazbaat nhi ....ho gayi na ladke ki zindagi barbad ab Sai ki baari hai Kaayde nhi Faayde.......

Problem na aapki nhi hai actually na ye saari soch na makers ki creativity ka kamal hai....barso se Fl ki DDP ko inhone saatve aasmaan me jo rakha hai aur jab chaha jaise chaha ML ki waisi side dikha di.... trp ka game hai ma'am....

Sabse achchi baat kya lagti hai pta hai.... iss baar Pl se sab andar hi andar khush hai ,ab kisiko uske selfish nature se problem nhi hai, kyunki face Virat kar rha hai hai naa....hume kya wo aurat thori na hai jo use pain hota hai ,aur humari Sai to ab Satya se shaadi kar legi apni marji ke khilaaf, deal ki tarah par kam se kam humari maange puri to hongi.... Sai khud nhi chaahti hai ye sab par Pl ne gumrah kar diya..... nhi to wo Virat ke proposal ko accept kar leti shayad ,dil se to wo yahi chahti thi kamal sir se baat suni thi maine par zindagiya na barbad ho jaaye jaisa wo sochti hai pta nhi kis logic se isliye wo ye kaayda apna rhi hai faayda nhi aur aapne gavahi me kuch aur hi prastut kiya hai ...man prasanna ho gaya.....

Objectivity to aapke message me kut kut kar bhari hai ma'am

Jis baat ka Sai ko fark nhi pda uska aapko pad rha hai isse to mamla hi khatam ho jaata hai par phir bhi, pre leap decision ka reason post leap harkate after all that happened there aur pain of Sai's side without understanding other ends this is your way of proving yourself right ,objectively....

You see Sai's side.... okay there is nothing wrong in that, you see Virat's side from Sai's end it is also understandable saare dimensions dekhne chahiye par why have you never seen Virat's side.... maayne badal jaat kya...and let aside this aapne kabhi Sai ko Virat ki side se dekha hai....nahi naa...to aap sahi kaise ho?????

Mujhe na do bahut achche messages aaye hai isi thread me...ki beta aise show me man mat lagao jaha leads ko ek dusre se baat karna bhi nhi aata unhe na medical help ki sakht jarurat hai aur maine bhi ye maan liya hai ye show hote hi out of world hai to mai ye sab rahne deta hu aur apne studies pe focus karta hu....

Aur ha dusra message ye tha ki mere message me absurdity chhai hai.... maine bhi maan liya ki mai hi gadha tha jo stans se baat karne aaya, socha kuch neutral discussion honge par yha dekha hi whi jaata hai jo man chahta hai ,kuch achche discussion hue par kuch sarcastic favouritism of pseudo feminism ne to dil hi jeet liya....agar aap Sai ko bachcha churane ke liye defend kar sakti ho jo ki uske haq me hi nhi hai (I think it's a sin) to shayad aage baat karna hi bekar hai aap enjoy kariye ghkkpm and Sai's victimization every now and then, yha to Pl ko bhi victimize kar dete hai use chhoro JT ko bhi to Sai to phir bhi shi hai...bahut jyada but not wrt Virat....Sai hai to sab sahi hai.... devi tai ne bola tha na

Aur mai apne haath piche karta hu I am an absurd gut with iq around 127 and a tag of IITM and a well developed eq sorry if you find it arrogant but thori absurdity range define kar lu socha.... nhi to koi importance nhi deta,,,,aur mera ye last message tha aap log enjoy kariye iss show ko jo sirf FL ke ishaaron pe naachta hai aur kyu na nache saari audience lagbhag auratein hi to hai to dikhana bhi unke hi hisab se hoga na.... ye sab aadmi thori na dekhte hai kuch logo ko chhorkar jo meri tarah abhi chhuti mana rhe hai.....kamal hai maine Sai ki taarif ki hi nhi... sirf reply kiya aapke message ko aur Virat mujhe bhi pasand nhi hai par dono nhi pasand hai ,bura lagta hai jab koi aurat roti hai....meri kisi se koi dushmani nhi hai....auraton ki ijjat karna mai bhi jaanta hu ma'am par jis tarah ye show unki harkato ko dhankne ke liye victimization ka sahara leta hai aur ML ka graph bigad deta hai jisse uski galtiyan galtiya na rah jaaye aur sympathy paane ke liye use hazaaron dialogues de dete hai aur phir rone chhor dete hai to ab mamla hi khatam....ye sab faltu ka drama pasand nhi aata hai......sorry if you find my message disrespectful but mai ab iss show ke baare me discuss nhi karunga.....

Aap log has ke ignore kar dena shayad apne dil ko satisfy karne ke liye kuch gaaliyan likh dena ya phir kuch naye concept par itv show itv show hai ye kabhi nhi badlega ....

I am 21

But I am studying law

Trust me when I say you are a kid

&

Live in rainbow world.

First of all

Whatever Virat and his family along with Papi has done

They are CRIMINALS and if Sai wants

She can make them rot in jail for their rest of their lives for all the crime they did.

Most importantly

Virat is not a bechara he is the abuser, wrong doer of Sai.

He is someone who does crimes, hides them, and saves his criminal family along with his bhabhi/ex gf/wife/pyaari cheez/matured women/Criminal, misuses his powers, and authority, does Domestic Violence, and many more horrible things he has done.

Itne kaand kiye hain ki likh likh kar thak jaungi but khatam nahi honge.

Sabse importantly Virat and Pakhi weren't elible to adopt

Their wedding wasn't valid

Simply shows Virat misuses his powers, cry sympathy after doing bad things and still he is made the victim.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Entire post screams that a 19 y/o boy doesn't understand or care about the concept of consent, women's autonomy, or domestic violence. It is utterly sad

Actually I wasn't with the intension to come on this forum again but just replying to some of the messages pending, so ma'am pls understand that I am not a guy who believes in misogyny or patriarchal behaviour I really respect woman( I love my mumma.....) And misbehaving or mistreating woman in a neutral situation is not who I am as a human but the way this itv shows victimize them for the sake of trp and represent the MLs in a very bad way to cover their ends and the emotional creativity or multidimensional overemphasis of FL's pain make me feel so irritated that I don't get agree it easily and when people say ML is victimized it really bursts my temperament ,you and I infact everyone knows that in itv shows FL ko bichara dikhake aur victim banake inhe paise milate hai and that's why MLs side is being hided but no one cares and they just start bashing without being practical.....

My whole post was with the aspect of what the entire scenario was wrt the track which is going wrong by logic but what you focused that home arrest......Did I say that home arresting an adult lady or anyone is right???? No naaa......

Did I say that a person's consent or women's autonomy here should not be considered???? No..... What I just said that Virat is right here....not wrt the action that he took to control things but wrt the issue and its solution, people are just like Virat home arrested Sai because she rejected him but did she do all that because her heart wanted to or was it right wrt kids or wasn't it only satisfying PL's heart???? Sai is in a trap of Pl which will gonna ruin everyone's lives whether you take Savi, Vinayak or Virat infact Sai will not be happy with all that , this is what I wanted to say but your only focus was not what I was saying but that Virat's abusive behaviour though it was with reasons and not the whole scenario....

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Bro, itna blatantly overcompensate nahi karte. You are young, go try to befriend some girls in your class geniunely; thodi eq aa jayegi. Touch some grass.

Oh ma'am...for this, I am in touch with grass from my childhood though I reside in a nuclear family I am nurtured in big joint maternal and paternal families and still have connection with them and also connected with girls as sisters or friends and also know their end they also understand many of the things what I say and being covered by makers pls ma'am mujhe judge mat karo mai koi taanashah nhi hu mujhe ladkiyon ki azaadi aur unke samman se koi dikkat nhi hai but if you are saying I am blindly compensating it ....so sorry I am not.....I really uttered logic there and pls understand it from different sites just reading and with the programming about this show and the woman inside you and responding just taking into consideration what you feel for and seeing no other dimensions and respond in a way that for me girls are not equal is not right just keep aside your emotions for a while and accept or feel things to what I said and why????? You also need to consider a man's end while watching this things, being stan to a FL is not objective behaviour, rating with proper magnitude and not with your emotional weightage towards something is very important.....

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Actually I wasn't with the intension to come on this forum again but just replying to some of the messages pending, so ma'am pls understand that I am not a guy who believes in misogyny or patriarchal behaviour I really respect woman( I love my mumma.....) And misbehaving or mistreating woman in a neutral situation is not who I am as a human but the way this itv shows victimize them for the sake of trp and represent the MLs in a very bad way to cover their ends and the emotional creativity or multidimensional overemphasis of FL's pain make me feel so irritated that I don't get agree it easily and when people say ML is victimized it really bursts my temperament ,you and I infact everyone knows that in itv shows FL ko bichara dikhake aur victim banake inhe paise milate hai and that's why MLs side is being hided but no one cares and they just start bashing without being practical.....

My whole post was with the aspect of what the entire scenario was wrt the track which is going wrong by logic but what you focused that home arrest......Did I say that home arresting an adult lady or anyone is right???? No naaa......

Did I say that a person's consent or women's autonomy here should not be considered???? No..... What I just said that Virat is right here....not wrt the action that he took to control things but wrt the issue and its solution, people are just like Virat home arrested Sai because she rejected her but did she do all that because her heart wanted to or was it right wrt kids or wasn't it only satisfying PL's heart???? Sai is in a trap of Pl which will gonna ruin everyone's lives whether you take Savi, Vinayak or Virat infact Sai will not be happy with all that , this is what I wanted to say but your only focus was not what I was saying but that Virat's abusive behaviour was with reasons though and not the whole scenario....

You know, in 18th-19th century, as reading became a more democratized pastime, publishers would pay authours by the word count. A lot of the classics are verbose because of this. Your post again screams of overcompensating verbosity where words havw no connection to each other and even lesser sense.

Emboldened is where you do not respect Sai's autonomy and think that the man has the right to make decisions for her.

Even if she looooooooves any man, it is solely her decision to be or not to be with him.

Originally posted by: Ashane25

Oh ma'am...for this, I am in touch with grass from my childhood though I reside in a nuclear family I am nurtured in big joint maternal and paternal families and still have connection with them and also connected with girls as sisters or friends and also know their end they also understand many of the things what I say and being covered by makers pls ma'am mujhe judge mat karo mai koi taanashah nhi hu mujhe ladkiyon ki azaadi aur unke samman se koi dikkat nhi hai but if you are saying I am blindly compensating it ....so sorry I am not.....I really uttered logic there and pls understand it from different sites just reading and with the programming about this show and the female inside you and responding just taking into consideration what you feel for and seeing no other dimensions and respond in a way that for me girls are not equal is not right just keep aside your emotions for a while and accept or feel things to what I said and why????? You also need to consider a man's end while watching this things, being stan to a FL is not objective behaviour, rating with proper magnitude and not with your emotional weightage towards something is very important.....

Stop referring to women as "females" first lol

Originally posted by: Deltablues

You know, in 18th-19th century, as reading became a more democratized pastime, publishers would pay authours by the word count. A lot of the classics are verbose because of this. Your post again screams of overcompensating verbosity where words havw no connection to each other and even lesser sense.

Emboldened is where you do not respect Sai's autonomy and think that the man has the right to make decisions for her.

Even if she looooooooves any man, it is solely her decision to be or not to be with him.

So what actually you want from my end because being less verbal or verbose I will not be able to deal with you pls say what you actually find wrong...

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Stop referring to women as "females" first lol

Galti se mistake....😉

Originally posted by: Deltablues

You know, in 18th-19th century, as reading became a more democratized pastime, publishers would pay authours by the word count. A lot of the classics are verbose because of this. Your post again screams of overcompensating verbosity where words havw no connection to each other and even lesser sense.

Emboldened is where you do not respect Sai's autonomy and think that the man has the right to make decisions for her.

Even if she looooooooves any man, it is solely her decision to be or not to be with him.

What I just said that Virat is right here....not wrt the action that he took to control things but wrt the issue and its solution, people are just like

Pre section

Virat home arrested Sai because she rejected him but did she do all that because her heart wanted to or was it right wrt kids or wasn't it only satisfying PL's heart?

Emboldened part by you......

What I have said you proved it just read the sentence before that....first thing you should read it in a different way I think I wasn't unclear but you have taken it in your way I haven't said what you emboldened that Virat arrested Sai and then reason and then he is allowed for all that no just read the things before that na.... What I wanted to say there is I was talking about the matter when Virat's mentality about the solution of the situation is right but you didn't focus on that infact home arrest I haven't justified his end to what he did but focusing towards the topic and not this distractions in the name of domestic violence he was wrong to do that I have stated it in previous statement......

And pls we should not discuss further you just ignore things without understanding different aspects and recommend improvements from other side I was really idiot to discuss further when your first message was only restricted to the topic related to feminism and not the main scenario and the storyline that I was discussing so pls utmost respect to you, I don't know about equality but I have seen pseudo feminist mentality and it will not be good for both of us to continue.....