TERE BIN- Yumna Zaidi - Wahaj Ali # DT 51 - Page 21

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

I laugh everytime whenever meerab addresses aneela waqas as karachi wale 🤣

I also love her when she gives back to fake parents ... 😳

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Originally posted by: NavyaKavya30

Oh my God !! This clearly shows that they have been married and had their consummation too. Maryam is without a dupatta and the kind of look she gives to Murtasum clearly says all. I would 100% blame Meerab if this happens. It was her stupidity that led to it . She could have stopped it had she had brains. I know ppl here will blame Haya for it but I would hold more Meerab less Haya responsibe. Haya has always had her agenda clear from the beginning ( that is to get Murtsum) , she is trampling anyone coming in her way but WTH is Meerab doing . Just showing her idiocity due to her mighty ego.

Of course the feminist will bring lame justifications for her action but Meerab is clearly more in wrong. Unlike Haya Meerab has the authority to put a stop to this situation by calmly explaining Murtasim, we all know that he will understand like he understood her in malik's apology situation. But Meerab letting it continue and supporting Maryam in a wrong way is a representation of rebellion and self pride, the qualities which aren't something to be proud off. Haya remaining silent in this matter is wrong but Meerab getting her secretly engaged is a horrible encouragement of wrong.

At this point I want Meerab to learn a hard lesson and suffer because she is cruelly playing with her husband's respect who treasures her respect as his own. I still didn't forget the contract revelation to Rohail. These two incident are like a funeral of Murtasim's respect. 😭

Originally posted by: Slender-Rose123

That Bullet incident guilt was useless when she doesn't has the decency to apologize instead she talked with him as if he is stupid to be angry. The reason why I call Meerab stupid is because when nyla came, all Meerab had to do was apologize for running in the field and removing bullets, then she could have politely question his decision like an educated and graceful woman, yet she went all dominant at him like an illiterate. No man will tolerate such behavior, especially a feudal like Murtasim.

The reason why I call Meerab an illiterate is her rude behavior, because in my eyes the first thing education teaches is to respect others and here we are talking about her husband. Islam emphazies upon husband's respect as obligatory. A woman who doesn't respect her husband is punishable in another world, so her disrespect for Murtasim in my eyes is not justifiable from any angle, especially when a husband like Murtasim is in question who treasures her respect as his own.

In my eyes, for Meerab Murtasim is nothing but a toy which she uses for her own benefit. We all know how she would have been treated by others without Murtasim's support. So she definitely wants to use him to shelter her from the consequences of her every blunder, as we have seen it happening plenty of times by now, it's also one of the reason why she agreed to marry him.

I felt that Meerab struggling to prove herself correct isn't out of care or love for Murtasim but out of her pride to stay good in Murtasim's eyes. The reason why she didn't clear herself in both father's eyes is because she considers them useless in her life, but Murtasim is pretty useful for her, as she continues to enjoy the privilege of being his wife.

If Murtasim unintentionally crossed boundaries with Haya, then I also remembers that he had apologized for it and is getting her married in a month to stay out of trouble, unlike Meerab who didn't have the guts to give a proper shut up call to Rohail but speaks as if she is opressed, when we all know that she can easily walk out of the marriage whenever she wants. You pointed out Meerab's guilt but refuses to acknowledge Murtasim's apology in this matter is beyond my understanding.

It isn't the point that Meerab did nothing wrong to apologize because her intentions are correct, but Murtasim has apologized plenty of times even for things he hadn't done or the mistakes he committed unintentionally unlike Meerab who shows attitude and prioritizes her ego.

They should have shown a proper reason as to why she hates Khan family before the parentage truth, because we all know that she was loved and respected a lot there. If she hates Khan family for the parentage truth, then she must hate Rohail too who in her own words kidnapped her and gave disgusting ideas to get out of marriage. It's beyond illogical to see her trusting him still.

It's my personal opinion and you are free to disagree, but I really feels that we must get out of the phase of sympathizing with women and allowing them to play victim card, but cruelly expecting men to tolerate them and remain a saint. I believe in equality and here Meerab is more in wrong than Murtasim.

We keep calling out Murtasim for slapping Meerab, even though he apologized for it. Meerab has done things far worse and didn't even apologize but we keep justifying it for the sake of her being woman. In my every day life I've seen girls slapping boys on street for no reason and justifies it being a woman. It's a hypocrisy because I believe that a man and woman both must give equal respect to each other. In Meerab and Murtasim's relationship, there is only one sided respect and I don't see Meerab respecting him soon, Maryam's stunt is a prove of how much she respects him.

I will end this debate right here because I don't want to fight for a fictional character but my point remains that I refuse to sympathize with Meerab and ignore her mistakes just for the sake of her being a woman. I sympathized with her as long as she deserved it but now her mistakes are senseless and exaggerated. Similarly I refuse to expect Murtasim to let go of his self respect and become a doormat by ignoring Meerab's blunders just because he is a man.

I don't like holding personal grudges for anyone, instead I just hope that the society will move out of the phase of mysogynism or feminism. Every human being is equal in my eyes, irrelevant of their gender. I extremely hate the societies where woman's are deprived of their basic rights and dominated by men's but I also hate women who plays victim card and takes no strong action like Meerab but continues to blame others unecessarily and refuses to take charge of their actions.

Peace ❤️

Did murtasim apologize for not giving correct reason why she shouldn't get down from car?

Grate cashing someone's birthday and beating someone for no apparent reason, slapping a woman is what literate people do ? If that's definition of literate people then meerab better remain illeterate.

If a woman gets wronged, she has all the rights to play victim card.

Feminism itself means equal not woman dominating men.

Meerab never said she was getting married to fulfill wife responsibilities.

She was always clear that she is in this marriage because of shelter. Murtasim himself knows it.

Even if murtasim angry with her, she doesn't need to do anything to explain him because she can very well stay in that house with all the rights without needing to jump.

I am yet to see a scene where murtasim apologized regarding haya matter.

All he said is she is my cousin, don't misunderstand.

Even when he got caught in compromised position, he didn't apologize so why the same is expected from meerab.

@bold Anyways it's useless to debate after reading this sentence. Peace.

Originally posted by: Slender-Rose123

Unpopular opinion again but I think Meerab doesn't really love Murtasim, because if she does I think she would have given a little bit of consideration for his emotions but she is extremely cold towards it.

After the fish incident she was worried,not because she cared for him but because she doesn't want to hold herself responsible for any irreversible damage, similarly after bullet incident she showed attitude as if doing that stupid thing was a rocket science.

She didn't for once showed respect to Murtasim for saving her life in the accident, or keeping her respect in front of everyone, instead she continues to endanger her relationship.

This Rohail incident made her more suspicious in my eyes, because nowhere I felt that she actually felt bad about hurting him, instead she was more inclined towards proving her character right to maintain her ego, one of the reasons why she never said that I apologize for hurting your feelings instead she kept talking about her character and pride, when Murtasim didn't even mention it for once.

Her recent act of hiding Maryam's affair or getting her engaged secretly seriously gives me the vibe that Murtasim's love, emotions and respect are useless for her. She enjoys the attentions he gives her and continues to take it for granted, but refuses to acknowledge her responsibility as a wife. She doesn't properly create boundaries with Rohail, something which Murtasim has at least done for Haya.

Meerab's trust issues theory isn't relevant anymore after seeing her blindly trust everyone, even anas, right after just one meeting. I don't know what Murtasim has to do anymore to gain her trust because other's earned it too easily without doing even a bare minimum.

Okay now you have tickled me to put some real points across

Leave aside whether Meerab loves Murtasim or not, let me take you to the Haya-Murtasim village incident, where Murtasim whispers an 'I love you' desperately to make his wife believe in him, but what's stark and worth talking about is his wife's stern and LOUDER 'no, you don't'

What does that say about their equation?

He is hopelessly in love but she does not WANT to believe in that love

A wife when treated with the first confession from her husband would normally pause and take a moment to let that sink in but that's not something Meerab does.

Why does she not believe in his love? Despite majority of the audience believing he has done every possible thing to prove his love? The thing is he's not done it right!

Why is she ungrateful to him for not saving her life in the accident? 🤪Mate, he was RESPONSIBLE for the accident. He was in the driver's seat driving recklessly in rage, putting both his and her life at risk. Periodt.

After she's ousted from his home, who does he chose to believe in? Haya! If his love for her is so deep, it should give him a sense of something being fishy and that Meerab would never leave him on her own, and she cannot. He only gets her back, forcefully again, after his sister reveals the truth to him.

Their conversation after that is another poignant one where she says, even in his presence, she isn't suffering any less and things haven't quite drastically changed for her. Is she right? Totally. She is crucified for the slightest blunders she commits while others walk scot free.

The fish incident, you conveniently forget how the girl landed on Anwer's door asking for help, the man she despises the most in the world. You forget how she tried to make it up to him by cooking his favourite breakfast. She makes efforts, if only you'll don't turn a blind eye to it

Why should she be grateful for Murtasim for keeping her respect in front of everyone? Is the bar that low? That is the least a good husband can do for his wife, even in Islamic values. So please stop putting him on a pedestal for doing the bare minimum 🤪

Why should a girl not care about her character being questioned and try to clear her name first when every damn person in her life is accusing her of having a questionable character? Case in point, everyone, including her 3 useless parents. But who does she chose to give the explanations to? Only her husband and she does that THRICE

Meerab's trust issue theory is as relevant as Murtasim's love for her. Because with others, it's not about her trusting someone with her emotions, with Murtasim, it's trusting him with her heart, her soul, her body, her emotions, which have been so battered by her very own family. It is bound to take time and mammoth efforts from her husband

As for now, she very well believes that all of Murtasim's efforts come because she is wife, his izzat, and even Murtasim makes it very evident with his frequent 'meri biwi' phrasings. The one time, he says, 'meri meerab' in episode 14, she is left thinking and pondering.

In conclusion, most of the audience is too impatient for the defiance from a woman, as taciturn as Meerab. Most love women who are submissive, in fiction or reality. Her journey is not appreciated enough and I think, it never will be. Yes, it's painstakingly slow, but only humane for someone who's went through all that Meerab did

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Noooooo she won’t let me dream

And I won’t let her predict
Let’s see who wins

GAME ONNNNNNNN

Tanu, she's calling for a challenge 😆

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

Okay now you have tickled me to put some real points across

Leave aside whether Meerab loves Murtasim or not, let me take you to the Haya-Murtasim village incident, where Murtasim whispers an 'I love you' desperately to make his wife believe in him, but what's stark and worth talking about is his wife's stern and LOUDER 'no, you don't'

What does that say about their equation?

He is hopelessly in love but she does not WANT to believe in that love

A wife when treated with the first confession from her husband would normally pause and take a moment to soak that it but that's not something Meerab does.

Why does she not believe in his love? Despite majority of the audience believing he has done every possible thing to prove his love? The thing is he's not done it right!

Why is she ungrateful to him for not saving her life in the accident? 🤪Mate, he was RESPONSIBLE for the accident. He was in the driver's seat driving recklessly in rage, putting both his and her life at risk. Periodt.

After she's ousted from his home, who does he chose to believe in? Haya! If his love for her is so deep, it should give him a sense of something being fishy and that Meerab would never leave him on her own. He only gets her back, forcefully again, after his sister reveals the truth to him.

Their conversation after that is another poignant one where she says, even in his presence, she isn't suffering any less and things haven't quite drastically changed for her. Is she right? Totally. She is crucified for the slightest blunders she commits while others walk scot free.

The fish incident, you conveniently forget how the girl landed on Anwer's door asking for help, the man she despises the most in the world. You forget how she tried to make it up to him by cooking his favourite breakfast. She makes efforts, if only you'll don't turn a blind eye to it

Why should she be grateful for Murtasim for keeping her respect in front of everyone? Is the bar that low? That is the least a good husband can do for his wife, even in Islamic values. So please stop putting him on a pedestal for doing the bare minimum 🤪

Why should a girl not care about her character being questioned and try to clear her name first when every damn person in her life is accusing her of not having a questionable character? Case in point, everyone, including her 3 useless parents. But who does she chose to give the explanations to? Only her husband and she does that THRICE

Meerab's trust issue theory is as relevant as Murtasim's love for her. Because with others, it's not about her trusting someone with her emotions, with Murtasim, it's trusting him with her heart, her soul, her body, her emotions, which have been so battered by her very own family. It is bound to take time and mammoth efforts from her husband

As for now, she very well believes that all of Murtasim's efforts come because she is wife, his izzat, and even Murtasim makes it very evident with his frequent 'meri biwi' phrasings. The one time, he says, 'meri meerab' in episode 14, she is left thinking and pondering.

In conclusion, most of the audience is too impatient for the defiance from a woman. Most love women who are submissive, in fiction or reality. Her journey is not appreciated enough and I think, it never will be. Yes, it's painstakingly slow, but only humane for someone who's went through all that Meerab did

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Did murtasim apologize for not giving correct reason why she shouldn't get down from car?

Grate cashing someone's birthday and beating someone for no apparent reason, slapping a woman is what literate people do ? If that's definition of literate people then meerab better remain illeterate.

If a woman gets wronged, she has all the rights to play victim card.

Feminism itself means equal not woman dominating men.

Meerab never said she was getting married to fulfill wife responsibilities.

She was always clear that she is in this marriage because of shelter. Murtasim himself knows it.

Even if murtasim angry with her, she doesn't need to do anything to explain him because she can very well stay in that house with all the rights without needing to jump.

I am yet to see a scene where murtasim apologized regarding haya matter.

All he said is she is my cousin, don't misunderstand.

Even when he got caught in compromised position, he didn't apologize so why the same is expected from meerab.

@bold Anyways it's useless to debate after reading this sentence. Peace.

Exactly I refuse to further argue because if everything Murtasim has done so far isn't respect than I don't know what is respect. The soup and village incident already got the clarification by the hospital scene and now him getting Haya married. In Islam when you enter in a marriage you are bound to take the responsibility. Marriage and respect are no joke for us. In Islam a husband is obligated to love and take care of his wife, same rule is for women but here after witnessing a husband fulfilling his duties and wife shamelessly disregarding them is tiresome and annoying for me. I understand that she was forced in marriage but her unacceptance is now dragged and appears wrong. Instead of swinging like a pendulum she must walk out of this marriage instead of making a joke out of it. I don't know from which religion you belong, but as a Muslim I perceive this story from the same light I hope you enjoy this show. Have a good day👍🏼

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

Same!!!

ok…so tell me why you think these two have such good chemistry together? Is it just comfort or is it like a mutual level of respect…or just two great talents feeding off of each other?

Hmmmm

That's more tough to answer than to answer who came first, chicken or egg

So it's better to shut up

Originally posted by: shridharg

What's cooking up in the next episode ...😳 ....

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Murtasim is a lucky man, because holy hell, how gorgeous is his wife

In case of Yumna, her husband would be a lucky man 😆

See the no of episode . is it reliable 🤪its from wiki