I understand what you specify here which is why I mentioned the term plot armour. A 26 year period of love for someone you hardly know and have not actively interacted with sounds creepy. But since the woman in question is now divorced, it felt acceptable to make a move on her and everyone praised it?
But my question is why was is so difficult for Anuj to move on from her? He didn't even date her right?Because he kept looking for her persona in every girl he probably dated for brief period.
As Kanta said, "you can be excellent but you cannot be Anupamaa" indicating he would have never settled for anything else.
But what did he know about her till now? She was nice with everyone in college, but did he know how was her personality at home?
She was in abject conditions and was struggling to survive, so crying and fighting is the natural response. But did he know what she would do if she was happy?
The path he walked to end up with Anupamaa was downright creepy, and he seems to have a pattern because he did the exact same with CA. Think about it, Anupamaa was a 1st year drop out which means she spent less than 1 year and that too indirectly interacting with Anuj. CA too was at home for an equivalent amount of time.
It's an unrealistic plot armour again that Anuj went to her house to propose to her for marriage at the day of her wedding. Not at college, at her home where her family was, so obviously it was for marriage not dating. She definitely didn't have a proper college adieu else information about her marriage wouldn't have been such a shocker for him.
Then, wasn't he also expecting her to marry him in between her studies as well? Why didn't he think of proposing marriage her after college was over? Gave me Aparichit vibes when Ambi handed the love letter to Nandini's parents
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