Har Maajboori Mein Hi Kyun Samjhu?

He does not understand why is he the only one who always has to understand. He does not understand why the onus of continuing the marriage always falls squarely on his shoulder. He does not understand why only he has to fight for their relationship. He does not understand why only he has to beg for attention. Finally, the much-needed outburst. He does not hold her responsible for CA's departure. He understands but he wishes he did not have to understand. He is guilty of everything he said to her, but he knows that's exactly what he will keep doing if they continue this relationship. He married her with all her baggage, but he is tired of carrying them further. He is wrong but that's him. I am happy that instead of immediately giving this relationship a second chance, he has decided to maintain distance. They should take a considerable time before deciding to divorce, but right now it is better if they stay apart. They need to realize the priority of this relationship in their lives. Anuj has realized the mental images they created of each other are very different from the real ones. Both are very flawed. Now, if they can live with the real them is something they need to find out.

Sadly, for that you need not 1 but 2 mature individuals.

With one of them being BESHT and Perphect, there is no belence of power and understanding.

My question:

Will Anupama still be co-owner of Kapadia empire on this duration of break? If yes, there won't be much to gather by the time this break period ends.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

He does not understand why is he the only one who always has to understand. He does not understand why the onus of continuing the marriage always falls squarely on his shoulder. He does not understand why only he has to fight for their relationship. He does not understand why only he has to beg for attention. Finally, the much-needed outburst. He does not hold her responsible for CA's departure. He understands but he wishes he did not have to understand. He is guilty of everything he said to her, but he knows that's exactly what he will keep doing if they continue this relationship. He married her with all her baggage, but he is tired of carrying them further. He is wrong but that's him. I am happy that instead of immediately giving this relationship a second chance, he has decided to maintain distance. They should take a considerable time before deciding to divorce, but right now it is better if they stay apart. They need to realize the priority of this relationship in their lives. Anuj has realized the mental images they created of each other are very different from the real ones. Both are very flawed. Now, if they can live with the real them is something they need to find out.

Is this what he said to himself, or Kanta Ben?

If it is to him that would make sense because he is reflecting on all he has gone through. If it is to her mother, it is just waste of breathe neither she will get or her daughter.😡

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Sadly, for that you need not 1 but 2 mature individuals.

With one of them being BESHT and Perphect, there is no belence of power and understanding.

My question:

Will Anupama still be co-owner of Kapadia empire on this duration of break? If yes, there won't be much to gather by the time this break period ends.

Exactly! I thought he said that he left both her and Ankush as co owner of everything. I doubt he would leave Anu alone on anything. The woman barley could run the dance academy. She acts too immature to handle adulting much less business.

Even ankush is not good at business, so kapadia ji ka business doob gaya 😆

Kapadia empire to anuj - chitti na koi sandesh Jane vo kon desh jaha tum chale gaye 😭

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Even ankush is not good at business, so kapadia ji ka business doob gaya 😆

Kapadia empire to anuj - chitti na koi sandesh Jane vo kon desh jaha tum chale gaye 😭

So it would be Barkha and adhik then🤫🤣

Originally posted by: imsoumyasrk06

So it would be Barkha and adhik then🤫🤣

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Even ankush is not good at business, so kapadia ji ka business doob gaya 😆

Kapadia empire to anuj - chitti na koi sandesh Jane vo kon desh jaha tum chale gaye 😭

Anuj is right. Why should he be the one who bows each and every time?

Upmaa has to take daughter in law to clinic for check up- sit around waiting for her.

Upmaa has to visit SH because it's her grand daughter's naming ceremony. - adjust even if you are paralysed and just woken from coma

Upmaa wants to celebrate festivals with ex and his family.- don't you dare question her character. She is just going for kids (immature adult pretenders) sake.

Upmaa's daughter can't handle her marriage. - get dragged around in the drama.

Upmaa could not show up for a dance competition with your foster child (even after sigining up for it) - she did her best. Don't yell at her. If you do you are MCP, worse than her cheater ex.

Your sister, your cousin, your sister in law are all muphat/nikammas/vamps. Her ex and his vile mother are Gods on Earth, her children are a gift to humanity and can do no wrong.

Bhai itne me toh koi bhi pagal ho jayega. Anuj ne toh phir bhi 6-8 months tolerate kar liya. Hats off to that guy's patience

And after all this Kantaben and Upmaa have the sheer audacity to say that Upmaa is not at fault. Me hoti toh umar ka lihaz bhi nahi karti. Dhake marke ghar ke bahar fek deti, divorce papers ke saath

Ke thik hai, me galat toh galat hi sahi. Sign karo aur baksh do iss lifetime torture se

My only complaint is Anuj did not mention all the instances and the reasons clearly to Kanta. He blamed himself more instead of telling the actual reasons. The ones you wrote came out as 1 or 2 sporadic sentences whereas the main content of his speech was how Anu can never be wrong and how badly he hurt her.

I dont think we would ever have anyone pointing finger at AnupaMAA for this broken marriage. Maaya was the only one and Barkha to an extent. But both have evil music playing as their BG score. So you know what they say is evil = Maker’s logic. 😛