Ak makes an objection: Epi Air Date 31 Mar 2023 - Page 20

Originally posted by: Krinya

So akshu is the one who should explain the goenkas?

And goenkas are pristine white when they supported the man who divorced their daughter in a jiffy, and tamasha dekho like mute dolls when she was being accused by manjari on mimis bday and abhinanyus accident ?

When this season started , she was not the one who stayed away for 3 yrs..she was "made to" stay away bec of the conflict with arohi. Kairav said it a lot of times.

In khera kaand , this was his condition to operate on abhinanyu plus , she had to protect kairav from a false case ...

Staying with the goenkas after the white day would mean facing the same accusations on daily basis as their dear daughter arohi was still their bahu ..staying with them would mean giving access to abhimanyu again when he sepcifically ask her to stay far far away from him and his family ..

I dunno what's the baseline for a strong woman? That they must always depend on their family at the time of crisis ? It's the responsibility of the family to be there for their children in the decisions which they take . The responsibility of the family is to have their children's back and if goenkas don't have aksharas back, it's their fault, not hers.

To me its a vicious cycle that needs to be broken. We can keep arguing from Ak's side or Gfam side (right now I don't consider Birla's as part of the family equation), and keep pointing fingers at both.... and keep saying first this or first that. But from what they are showing, neither Ak nor Gfam is completely happy. Both side know they are missing something..... so they have to address this to move forward in life.

I'm not sure why you are talking about strong women. And family is important to everyone. A human being cannot function in a vacuum. If she could she would not need AA's support.

As for having her back, again, I think it goes back to her childhood. Someone mentioned how she always shielded AR, much to her detriment. I've not seen those episodes, so it seems like from childhood she has hidden her troubles and solved AR's, so her family never focussed on hers, maybe? That just became a habit for them, and she kept swallowing all her pain because as a kid she didn't know how to speak up for her own issues. So, in effect Gfam never saw her problems, and could not help her, and hiding them became her tool. There is no doubt that family is shallow, if none helped her speak up. Its just a sad situation.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

the first one sounds really good didn’t understand the second one

I am impressed you have Shatir Dimaag by any chance are you interested in joining the now semi retired Betal Angels Aardhan Most of them have ditched me.😭
They are more worried about haircuts 6 pack ABS etc😡 this is especially for Sejal and Aishu don’t think just because I didn’t reply to you posts I am not aware of what’s going on.

I don’t know your name, so using your username

Hey Sej! what happened to your reserved haircut? I thought he had a haircut. didn't see till now. did he reserve for SR?

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

she cribbed about that they have less money. And she was rude. I guess she said so.

Abhinav deserves some one better 😆

As akshu married him for money and abhir only 😕

Like I said, As Abhinav's rant made sense at the hospital, so does Akshara's rant given the situation. People say hurtful things to their spouses when things are dire and yet out of control

Originally posted by: DashOfSass

A lot of people with limited finances don't buy medical insurance in india.

That's not true

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I saw precap, So basically instead of turning aa negative they turned akshu negative who now thinks about money 😆

Aho bhaag hamare🤣

If she thinks about money how do u term it as negative ? Any mother will think for a son ...it's nothing to laugh in this...

And if you're poor , govt. Health insurance are also there

Originally posted by: Grey-licious

Acha hai dikha use uski aukat

I think Health Insurance/Medical Policy is a foreign concept for ITV 🤔

Pakka comparision horehain ..to highlight abhinav vs abhi...unwanted it is..

Akshu in agony not aware what's she s doing ..that's all

Originally posted by: DashOfSass

Today's episode reaffirmed one thing for me - girls should always focus on their career and be financially independant, save for a rainy day. Future is uncertain.

Choose a partner that uplifts you, who allows you to grow. 😊

Well Said Dash

I want to add to this sometimes in an arranged marriage ( have no experience of a love mg)even if you’ve discussed everything with your to be spouse you don’t know how they will turn out to be.
So irrespective of whether you have a partner who uplifts you or not be financially and emotionally independent.

If you need counselling take it. And if you’ve to make a tough decision or choice choose yourself even if the world tells you you’re being selfish or you are wrong

That doesn’t mean a person has to be mean or cunning .I am not being heartless 💕💕💕

Originally posted by: aardhan

To me its a vicious cycle that needs to be broken. We can keep arguing from Ak's side or Gfam side (right now I don't consider Birla's as part of the family equation), and keep pointing fingers at both.... and keep saying first this or first that. But from what they are showing, neither Ak nor Gfam is completely happy. Both side know they are missing something..... so they have to address this to move forward in life.

I'm not sure why you are talking about strong women. And family is important to everyone. A human being cannot function in a vacuum. If she could she would not need AA's support.

As for having her back, again, I think it goes back to her childhood. Someone mentioned how she always shielded AR, much to her detriment. I've not seen those episodes, so it seems like from childhood she has hidden her troubles and solved AR's, so her family never focussed on hers, maybe? That just became a habit for them, and she kept swallowing all her pain because as a kid she didn't know how to speak up for her own issues. So, in effect Gfam never saw her problems, and could not help her, and hiding them became her tool. There is no doubt that family is shallow, if none helped her speak up. Its just a sad situation.

hopefully now when Abhira come together,they will focus on both their trauma both need healing and assurance ,which both can heal,which will be needed for Abhir's future

Originally posted by: Grey-licious

And if you're poor , govt. Health insurance are also there

I did not know this. Coverage kya hai uska?

Does it cover costly high society birla hospital? 😆