TERE BIN - Yumna Z - Wahaj Ali DT #40 " Woh Mera Shauhar Hai" - Page 35

Originally posted by: Sofna

Who's in your dp 😆

Might be my next discovery ☺️😆

Originally posted by: Neha_S

Ok.. question has anyone been asked out by a friend who didn’t have feelings for?

Did you misbehave or act rudely? Or calmly explained - hey not interested-

R told her he’s taking her to a restaurant. To talk -She didn’t want to get him arrested because she thought let’s not create a scene over something so simple. Will eat explain and then visit Saba.

Stupid? Yes .. but malicious- No

R is a friend and class friend for years. Maybe grabbing hands and just casual patting was ok between them. Murtasim is always very aggressive when pulling meerab and she was obviously pissed off seeing him pull the gun. So bring Meerab she pulled back and gave attitude. His fire feeds hers- that’s how it’s always been

Originally posted by: Moonks

I don’t want to but I am still writing this and it’s my last post on who is right vs wrong.

Meeru was hesitatant with Rohail so was Murtu with Haya, Meeru may have listened Rohail bad mouthing Murtu but she didn’t listen a word against their relationship. That’s it for me, she values her relationship with Murtasim but she will surely take time to value Murtasim.

Murtasim gave Haya the leeway thinking she was his cousin and when haya talked about their time in the car it was clear that they were close but not before nor after marriage he took haya’s love confession calmly and neither Meerub did. They both were firm in their stands that they are married and it’s end of the discussion. You can have any delusional thought but we are clear so when they are clear in their stands then why are we in confusion?

Meerub character assassinated Murtasim and everyone was okay and now Murtasim doing the same is making him toxic. Murtasim being with Haya and Meeru seeing them then Meerub being with Rohail and Murtu seeing them together why are we giving different reactions to both the situations those who bash Murtu please bash Meeru as well and those who defended him please defend Meeru as well, I am saying it in a clear words stop being hypocrites, and start looking it as the situation is.

Neither Murtasim was right nor Meerub, Haya confessed his love in front of Meerub and Rohail did in front of Meerub so both of them are not going to be calm, haya said Meerub came in between and Rohail said this to Murtasim so what do you think the other person is going to do, Meerub was convinced that Murtasim doesn’t love her when Rohail said so but Murtasim was firm in his stand that it’s okay if Meerub doesn’t love him because one day she will do, Meerub was ready to leave him but Murtasim was not and this difference is because of their position in this marriage so stop using it for making one as good and other as villain but yeah I agree that Meerub can at least consider Murtasim as a human being and start respecting him, respect is a two way street and if Meerub is not respecting Murtasim so she should not accept that Murtasim will continue to respect and neither should we do.

And please stop quoting or tagging me in these Murtu vs Meeru posts, I am here to enjoy the show and a healthy discussion which I am doing without going into much details. Thank you 🤗

Bold - never did that. But yes it’s a bit rich coming from him, isn’t it? He’s the one being the hypocrite- I am all for bashing Meeru idiocy but as long as we also bash Murtu for doing the same.

Originally posted by: Moonks

I never said that Meeru has wrong intentions but it’s not about this situation only she is always rude to Murtasim even if there is no reason to be. Meeru also pushed him with agression whenever situation permits her.

Yes because of their equation which has been Tashan since day one. Pre wedding they were aggressively rude to each other- yeah I hate that Meeru is badtameez to all in the haveli. The only two people she talks nicely to are R and Saba because I guess they weren’t part of the insane parental drama

Originally posted by: Neha_S

Bold - never did that. But yes it’s a bit rich coming from him, isn’t it? He’s the one being the hypocrite- I am all for bashing Meeru idiocy but as long as we also bash Murtu for doing the same.

No it is not Meerub did this many times, everyone’s character is their strength, being a lady doesn’t mean it’s hold more value, the man Murtu was portrayed as his character was everything for him but his wife questioned it whenever she got the chance but it was okay because he was the husband and he did it for the one time and it’s wrong because Meeru is the wife?? I am not saying Meerub was wrong because she wasn’t after seeing the situation, we are wrong here😒

Btw there was this one van on Meerasim in the one hasi ban gaye that I saw on a couple of threads back. Can’t find it on YouTube. Can anyone give me the link?

Originally posted by: Moonks

I never said that Meeru has wrong intentions but it’s not about this situation only she is always rude to Murtasim even if there is no reason to be. Meeru also pushed him with agression whenever situation permits her.

@Bold : I think it is her way of protecting herself from falling in love with Murtasim. She is struggling between her mind and her heart. Her heart wants her to be with Murtasim and her mind reminds her of the things she lost because of this marriage. Murtasim always shows care towards her despite her being rude to him. It is making her weak and she is falling for him. And she is struggling with that. And if she behaves nicely with him he will become more caring then it becomes almost impossible for her to stop falling for him.

Sorry for intruding in your discussion Neha_S and Moonks. I just wanted to put my points across.

Originally posted by: Neha_S

Yes because of their equation which has been Tashan since day one. Pre wedding they were aggressively rude to each other- yeah I hate that Meeru is badtameez to all in the haveli. The only two people she talks nicely to are R and Saba because I guess they weren’t part of the insane parental drama

Originally posted by: Moonks

I don’t want to but I am still writing this and it’s my last post on who is right vs wrong.

Meeru was hesitatant with Rohail so was Murtu with Haya, Meeru may have listened Rohail bad mouthing Murtu but she didn’t listen a word against their relationship. That’s it for me, she values her relationship with Murtasim but she will surely take time to value Murtasim.

Murtasim gave Haya the leeway thinking she was his cousin and when haya talked about their time in the car it was clear that they were close but not before nor after marriage he took haya’s love confession calmly and neither Meerub did. They both were firm in their stands that they are married and it’s end of the discussion. You can have any delusional thought but we are clear so when they are clear in their stands then why are we in confusion?

Meeru gave the same leeway to Rohail as she knows him longer than she knows Murtasim*

Meerub character assassinated Murtasim and everyone was okay and now Murtasim doing the same is making him toxic. Murtasim being with Haya and Meeru seeing them then Meerub being with Rohail and Murtu seeing them together why are we giving different reactions to both the situations those who bash Murtu please bash Meeru as well and those who defended him please defend Meeru as well, I am saying it in a clear words stop being hypocrites, and start looking it as the situation is.

Neither Murtasim was right nor Meerub, Haya confessed his love in front of Meerub and Rohail did in front of Meerub so both of them are not going to be calm, haya said Meerub came in between and Rohail said this to Murtasim so what do you think the other person is going to do, Meerub was convinced that Murtasim doesn’t love her when Rohail said so but Murtasim was firm in his stand that it’s okay if Meerub doesn’t love him because one day she will do, Meerub was ready to leave him but Murtasim was not and this difference is because of their position in this marriage so stop using it for making one as good and other as villain but yeah I agree that Meerub can at least consider Murtasim as a human being and start respecting him, respect is a two way street and if Meerub is not respecting Murtasim so she should not accept that Murtasim will continue to respect and neither should we do.

And please stop quoting or tagging me in these Murtu vs Meeru posts, I am here to enjoy the show and a healthy discussion which I am doing without going into much details. Thank you 🤗

Only when he came out from hospital, he let her stay away from him. Only to forgive her easily and let her touch him.

I don't remember a single scene where murtasim was uncomfortable with her touch even when she was speaking nonsense.

But there are plenty of scenes where he let her touch him just after she bitched about his wife.

I was the one who bashed murtasim in haya matter. Because he let her do close him. Not just one time but many times. Still meerab always used love word for him. Remaining all her dialogues are taken as cute jealousy by murtasim himself. Infact he himself many times provoked her by saying ok I will go outing with her, when she said ur haya, he was like yeah like u said.

So her dialogue that u r romancing two girls is same as him saying ok I will go outing with haya. Both didn't meant what they said.

And till now murtasim get away with his behaviour towards haya despite haya's immoral actions. Her dressing as his wife is the last straw. Even now he didn't punish her for harming his wife.

Despite finding him in most compromising position with haya, meerab always believed his explanations. Didn't ask him to jump to prove his loyalty.

While murtasim indirectly used characterless tag for her. Decided to not believe her explanation.

Meerab deserves bashing for not speaking up for murtasim. For not understanding red flags from rohail.

Not for letting him touch her when she showed her discomfort.

Originally posted by: pressu

@Bold : I think it is her way of protecting herself from falling in love with Murtasim. She is struggling between her mind and her heart. Her heart wants her to be with Murtasim and her mind reminds her of the things she lost because of this marriage. Murtasim always shows care towards her despite her being rude to him. It is making her weak and she is falling for him. And she is struggling with that. And if she behaves nicely with him he will become more caring then it becomes almost impossible for her to stop falling for him.

Sorry for intruding in your discussion Neha_S and Moonks. I just wanted to put my points across.