Abhir scores the winning Goal: Epi Air Dt: 28 March 2023 - Page 26

Originally posted by: Tapdance

Ok the most common complaint here is not Nav being shown as a father as real as possible that a child does not even doubt it's validity!

The makers really did that part beautifully and I appreciate the attempted narrative. It's a very important question, a child understands love, care and warmth more than bloodlines. And I personally do not want to see Abhir accept Abhimanyu blindly without his father giving the right explanations and apologies.

BUT it's been 3 months....and the makers have been constantly sidelining Akshu as a character...Nav has solo scenes of mins with Abhir but Akshu gets hardly few seconds...it's really not about Abhira here..

Nav and his big heart are accepted but why at the cost of the relationship between mother and son?It is there but is it too much to ask for viewers to ask for if they've been watching this show pre-leap?

Akshu has always been portrayed as an empath and her heart automatically expands for children...and yet she is not getting that screen space...Abhimanyu does not know the truth, personally he hasn't redeemed himself well enough to do that yet...but if Kasauli has 50% of an episode....why sideline the FL to this extent? Atleast give her a POV clearly...some monologues, some perspective is the ask! Just give her enough ss with her own kid she has sacrificed everything for!

This show has very toxic solo fans and they sometime do more damage than good with the language and implications that they use. But it doesn't take away genuine criticism trying to be conveyed over here 🙂

Totally agree my gohenka hating partner in crime!

At the moment I don't care about abhira, or even truth reveal, but want to know akshu's pov! That white day and bus walk with her monologue really tugged all the heartstrings and I really want to connect with her journey! But what I get is nav! I don't connect with him! Don't under why I have to watch him!

I'm not questioning his fatherly love or his position! I'm just not interested in him! Same like o wasn't interested in neilrohi!

Originally posted by: Tapdance

Thanks Nisha...for the WU🤗

As long as the child's doing good....he's everyone's....the moment something goes wrong it's the mother's fault....the cut umbilical cord should have alerted her 6th sense yeahhh!

sad isnt it. I was really annoyed the way makers have literally sidelined Akhara's motherly emotions. They have been doing it since the leap. This girl nearly died giving birth but it feels like she only gave birth so Nav could become a dad.

I am not saying fathers are not important, but a mother is still a mother. Them showing her consoling Nav was so uncalled for. I wanted to see her breakdown, yet again we were deprived of that. Lets see if it comes out when she finds out the real issue.

My thoughts actually went back to my personal experience. When my twins were about 10 months old. One was learning to stand holding onto something. That particular day I was at home on my own and was feeding the other, whilst twin 1 was playing with the baby gym, suddenly he decided to get up holding onto the play gym, obviously that was not strong, so he fell backwards and hit his head on the floor which was tiled. It is hard to explain how I felt at that very moment, I rushed him to the doctors right away. He had actually cracked his skull, yup. Luckily the paediatrician said for babies it heals by itself. He is perfectly fine now, but I was an absolute mess until we got the all clear. Even now when I think about I get the shivers thinking about what could have happened. Now that is how a mother feels when her child is hurt or is unwell.

These makers couldnt even show that properly in their desire to glorify a sidey. 😡😡😡😡

Originally posted by: sunshining

sad isnt it. I was really annoyed the way makers have literally sidelined Akhara's motherly emotions. They have been doing it since the leap. This girl nearly died giving birth but it feels like she only gave birth so Nav could become a dad.

I am not saying fathers are not important, but a mother is still a mother. Them showing her consoling Nav was so uncalled for. I wanted to see her breakdown, yet again we were deprived of that. Lets see if it comes out when she finds out the real issue.

My thoughts actually went back to my personal experience. When my twins were about 10 months old. One was learning to stand holding onto something. That particular day I was at home on my own and was feeding the other, whilst twin 1 was playing with the baby gym, suddenly he decided to get up holding onto the play gym, obviously that was not strong, so he fell backwards and hit his head on the floor which was tiled. It is hard to explain how I felt that very moment, I rushed him to the doctors right away. He had actually cracked his skull, yup. Luckily the paediatrician said for babies it heals by itself. He is perfectly fine now, but I was an absolute mess until we got all the all clear. Even now when I think about I get the shivers thinking about what could have happened. Now that is how a mother feels when her child is hurt or is unwell.

These makers couldnt even show that properly in their desire to glorify a sidey. 😡😡😡😡

But i agree. They just made fun of akshu made her driver and abhinav took all limelight.

Originally posted by: Choco_mint

I second that!

Coming from a mother who just pushed a baby out very recently!

Yes I remember evey stage of pregnancy, labour pain, after pain..still very much!!!

So no its not we are pregnant or we gave birth!! If i kick the man in the balls everyday it will still not be equivalent to my pregnancy journey including birth!!!

Okay rant over!!!!

What bull crap father glorification are they showing that too for a stupid cameo!

Enough we want abhira centric!

me three. Makers have conveniently forgotten this girl nearly died giving birth. Father being upset is understandable but a mother having to console him that is going overboard. So done with cameo/parallel lead who gets more SS than the leads combined and the character isnt even interesting.

Dont know if you watched the episode their tapori wala dance at the grounds, I found that quite odd, especially infront of kids. May be it was just me but to me it looked slightly vulgar.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

i did not read paragraph and added laughing smiley. Sorry to hear about your kid. Thank god he is safe now. 🙂

But i agree. They just made fun of akshu made her driver and abhinav took all limelight.

thanks Diya. We were very lucky nothing serious happened.

Originally posted by: sunshining

sad isnt it. I was really annoyed the way makers have literally sidelined Akhara's motherly emotions. They have been doing it since the leap. This girl nearly died giving birth but it feels like she only gave birth so Nav could become a dad.

I am not saying fathers are not important, but a mother is still a mother. Them showing her consoling Nav was so uncalled for. I wanted to see her breakdown, yet again we were deprived of that. Lets see if it comes out when she finds out the real issue.

My thoughts actually went back to my personal experience. When my twins were about 10 months old. One was learning to stand holding onto something. That particular day I was at home on my own and was feeding the other, whilst twin 1 was playing with the baby gym, suddenly he decided to get up holding onto the play gym, obviously that was not strong, so he fell backwards and hit his head on the floor which was tiled. It is hard to explain how I felt that very moment, I rushed him to the doctors right away. He had actually cracked his skull, yup. Luckily the paediatrician said for babies it heals by itself. He is perfectly fine now, but I was an absolute mess until we got all the all clear. Even now when I think about I get the shivers thinking about what could have happened. Now that is how a mother feels when her child is hurt or is unwell.

These makers couldnt even show that properly in their desire to glorify a sidey. 😡😡😡😡

Originally posted by: sunshining

me three. Makers have conveniently forgotten this girl nearly died giving birth. Father being upset is understandable but a mother having to console him that is going overboard. So done with cameo/parallel lead who gets more SS than the leads combined and the character isnt even interesting.

Dont know if you watched the episode their tapori wala dance at the grounds, I found that quite odd, especially infront of kids. May be it was just me but to me it looked slightly vulgar.

No not watching! The episodes burn my abhira heart and kind of knew its going to be nav..nav..nav

I think hc is leaving? Otherwise with Akshara falling for nav, nav the father thing with limited ss for abhi. I honestly think the story has changed and abhi will be slowly phased out 🤷‍♂️

Originally posted by: Choco_mint

No not watching! The episodes burn my abhira heart and kind of knew its going to be nav..nav..nav

I think hc is leaving? Otherwise with Akshara falling for nav, nav the father thing with limited ss for abhi. I honestly think the story has changed and abhi will be slowly phased out 🤷‍♂️

The thought did cross my mind, especially after seeing RS and Romesh with HC in that award show, something didnt feel right. Anyway lets not jump to conclusion yet. Once the truth comes out I hope it will just be Abhira and Abhir at least for a while so we can cleanse our eyes and ears.

I havent been watching either but watched in FF'd mode today after reading Deepthi's review

Originally posted by: Choco_mint

No not watching! The episodes burn my abhira heart and kind of knew its going to be nav..nav..nav

I think hc is leaving? Otherwise with Akshara falling for nav, nav the father thing with limited ss for abhi. I honestly think the story has changed and abhi will be slowly phased out 🤷‍♂️

Okay watched the last bit where abhinav talks about dad's feelings and connections, indirectly connects to abhi! I wish, but got no umeed, the writers will show abhiras connect and nav will witness all that and maybe backout himself! At the moments u actually don't know where the story will lead to!

Blended family and co parenting kind of sounds boring! Navra have zero chemistry so, online hype will die down eventually along with abhira!

Trp audience might as well watch anupama! With nav being an orphan, they need family drama (because itv) Akshara will be running back to birlas to be their punching bag. Nothing new!

Originally posted by: Choco_mint

Totally agree my gohenka hating partner in crime!

At the moment I don't care about abhira, or even truth reveal, but want to know akshu's pov! That white day and bus walk with her monologue really tugged all the heartstrings and I really want to connect with her journey! But what I get is nav! I don't connect with him! Don't under why I have to watch him!

I'm not questioning his fatherly love or his position! I'm just not interested in him! Same like o wasn't interested in neilrohi!

Same same!!

The depths to which we hate these Goenkas are for exploring when the reactions for the truth reveal happen...I'm sure that GFN fake Mamma SuvarNas 🐽 is going to piss us off again...but that is for that day😆

I've been very vocal about the kinda abuse they have showed on this show...I cannot ever unsee the shove they showed a MIL giving her just miscarried DIL where most stood watching...and she was actually pregnant at that point in time! They need to destroy the perpetrator about all this!

Abhimanyu's redemption does not even begin till he stops flipping between sister's . . He has to vocalize and apologize for his actions on that White day....then only comes Akshu's decisions of hiding the paternity. And I personally do not have issues with her choices...she could have just done better with her finances ...that's my only complaint...she was not a pauper she's an heiress...and could have simply also used the money her parents left for her and avoided the Goenkas help as is now! They are most fake Mayka ever and a blot to the concept of maternal homes!

Did she suffer from PostPartumDepression ? Did she have some paralysis after the coma? Has she been having mental health issues for quitting music and not letting her son sleep her side ever? What have been her traumas, how did she look past it?

There are so many necessary answers to show over glorification of the cameo, that's all....this is and will remain Akshara's journey for me....the leap was around her...she does not get monologues or POVs...just gets used for promos to lure TRP audience...and no matter how popular an actor and their character is with the kind of reach and activity this show has on SM....these questions are being asked everywhere...few solo stans or shippers can't decide how a show should run and should not

Abhira's reunion for me is not valid till the real wrongs from the past get some logical ending....