TERE BIN - Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT #31 "Miya-Biwi ka personal matter hai" - Page 85

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

that is not the only thing that needs changing

I have a list

Things that murtasim need to change in his house or bedroom 😆

Lock change

Remove the sofa from his bedroom.

A huge walking closet for Murtasim's shawls.

Feena and other should say away from khan bedroom.

Jashonda ingredients easy access for meerab.

Maa begum ki bekaar ke panchayate.

Kick haya out permanently.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

No need to feel for female lead.

But atleast don't character assasinate her when male lead didn't get such backlash for doing more than 'just meeting' things with haya who acts as his wife 24*7.

Character assassinate dono ka hua hai.Reviews ka pata nahi i don't follow them religiously.But here in this forum, 3 threads tu lage tha murtasim ko bash karne wale. Meerub ko itna backlash nahi mila yahan p.Agar mila bhi tu many of us defended her too.Ab haar koi aik jaisa tu feel nahi kar sakte.

Originally posted by: Heeba

for the past 18 days.. ive been eating, drinking and sleeping TB 😭😅

In real life, I wouldn’t give two @#$!’s about Murtasim Khan and his Khandan. No matter how nice he is, or how hot he is. All my sympathies would go towards Meerab, because her situation is inexcusably messed up and unacceptable. I would tell her to leave with her friends as soon as she safely can, become a lawyer, and never look back. There would be zero fantasizing about any contract breaking, and I would say sorry dude…as nice as you may be, as charming as you may be, ya can’t cage someone into your life, whether it was your choice or not. Too bad, and so Sa(a)d for you. Try Haya.

But thank god this isn’t real life because I’m watching this show as a distraction from real life and its harsh realities.

I have come to accept that I 🙋‍♀️ have become a pure grey character just like the supporting characters of TB (and by supporting, I mean anyone but god Murtasim Khan the Great.) Grey in both my changing bipolar opinions about characters, and also grey in my willingness to put Khan-man’s greatness ahead of Meerab’s unfair and devastating circumstances (due to the gaping holes-filled, one-sided script and shoddy editing). And honestly, I’m not going to feel bad about it - this is the writer/director/producer’s fault. I’m just a spectator watching their show for entertainment 🤷‍♀️ and I don’t want to put effort to feel something other than what they are putting effort to show. (They get paid for their effort, I don’t.) If I’m finding Meerab to be overly irritating/bnoxious lately, that’s on Khan for being so over-consumingly perfectly written, and not me!

This is a hyper-fantasized story with a precisely crafted fantasy rich male unicorn of a man, with “many properties” (Hassan 😂 ), and the UNREAL ability to be both a dashing sakht londa (complete w/ andaar ka janwaar) and a sopping sensitive saad at the same time. In this crazily concocted Tere Bin universe, the writer has written that Murtasim Khan can seduce all the logic and morals outside of your brain and heart (and other feelings out of other places 😂) and he has 🤷‍♀️. I have become totally giraftar-ed in his love for Meerab (why hasn’t she?!) and have fully hawale-d myself to his advances. My brain has been completely shuttered embraced by his magnificent shawl. And again, due to the grey shades I sport while watching this show, even that opinion of him may change episode by episode 😎

And it’s ok, I’m ok with it. This show is no DNUTN, and I’m ok with that to be honest! I am enjoying the cooky non-sensical ride! I will continue to enjoy the one-sided, but still beautifully romantic show. Even Khan Saab the All-Everything can’t create the chemistry without Yumna, and I’m here to watch their insane 🔥. It is what it is, I guess.

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Hmm..

I am just going to watch the show as they serve..

Bas not going to put my expectations,assumptions or anything.

Maybe that's what we should do. It would make things easier for everyone as they're done shooting and there's no point. But I guess we discuss because we as people and mainly as girls have experienced and seen so many things. We discuss to analyse our and others thought processes, experiencs and connect or have open dialogues over it. It's great but very tiring since nothings been happening since episode 20. The discourse is important as we hope to see positive changes in real and reel. We're in dire need of it.

I guess there's nothing wrong with having no expectations assumptions and just taking it as it comes. And there is nothing wrong with having expectations and making inferences as well.

All I know is we need better writers. But more importantly better people with open minds in general. TB's writer reflects the South Asian culture of how women are viewed even when she says or thinks she's doing something different with murtasim. She does a disservice with how she portrays the women. And the sad thing is she probably does it unconsciously and that's how badly this whole thing is embedded in every fibre of the society. Just my take.

Originally posted by: pickachu

Character assassinate dono ka hua hai.Reviews ka pata nahi i don't follow them religiously.But here in this forum, 3 threads tu lage tha murtasim ko bash karne wale. Meerub ko itna backlash nahi mila yahan p.Agar mila bhi tu many of us defended her too.Ab haar koi aik jaisa tu feel nahi kar sakte.

Since many episodes he was doing it, last week audience response was the culmination of it.

He didn't get character assasinated for letting haya sit on his bed to feed him. (I am bringing that scene again and again because that's keep bugging me how a man who claims to love his wife can do that). People gave excuses to him then while the same consideration was not for meerab.

If it was meerab in his place, she would have got tarnished like anything.

That's the difference in reaction for same type of actions.

But as u said, may it is subective. So I agree on that.

Originally posted by: pickachu

Just because people r not feeling for female character.It doesn't mean that they r misogynistic.In real life,I support females when it comes to vs male.But in this drama, Sorry to say i don't feel sadness for meerub when drama goes on. Later when I really ponder hard then I feel for her but not at much as people here r talking abt.I do not relate to meerub even when in reality there is a girl i know which went through the same issue.I still feel really bad for her but here I m not feeling a thing for meerub.Initially in first 11 episodes, I felt bad for her that's it.

https://twitter.com/IAmGrumpyArtist/status/1639678180943339521?t=tq-PWqbrqi8uCsxBg7q7fw&s=19

🤣🤣

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

In real life, I wouldn’t give two @#$!’s about Murtasim Khan and his Khandan. No matter how nice he is, or how hot he is. All my sympathies would go towards Meerab, because her situation is inexcusably messed up and unacceptable. I would tell her to leave with her friends as soon as she safely can, become a lawyer, and never look back. There would be zero fantasizing about any contract breaking, and I would say sorry dude…as nice as you may be, as charming as you may be, ya can’t cage someone into your life, whether it was your choice or not. Too bad, and so Sa(a)d for you. Try Haya.

But thank god this isn’t real life because I’m watching this show as a distraction from real life and its harsh realities.

I have come to accept that I 🙋‍♀️ have become a pure grey character just like the supporting characters of TB (and by supporting, I mean anyone but god Murtasim Khan the Great.) Grey in both my changing bipolar opinions about characters, and also grey in my willingness to put Khan-man’s greatness ahead of Meerab’s unfair and devastating circumstances (due to the gaping holes-filled, one-sided script and shoddy editing). And honestly, I’m not going to feel bad about it - this is the writer/director/producer’s fault. I’m just a spectator watching their show for entertainment 🤷‍♀️ and I don’t want to put effort to feel something other than what they are putting effort to show. (They get paid for their effort, I don’t.) If I’m finding Meerab to be overly irritating/bnoxious lately, that’s on Khan for being so over-consumingly perfectly written, and not me!

This is a hyper-fantasized story with a precisely crafted fantasy rich male unicorn of a man, with “many properties” (Hassan 😂 ), and the UNREAL ability to be both a dashing sakht londa (complete w/ andaar ka janwaar) and a sopping sensitive saad at the same time. In this crazily concocted Tere Bin universe, the writer has written that Murtasim Khan can seduce all the logic and morals outside of your brain and heart (and other feelings out of other places 😂) and he has 🤷‍♀️. I have become totally giraftar-ed in his love for Meerab (why hasn’t she?!) and have fully hawale-d myself to his advances. My brain has been completely shuttered embraced by his magnificent shawl. And again, due to the grey shades I sport while watching this show, even that opinion of him may change episode by episode 😎

And it’s ok, I’m ok with it. This show is no DNUTN, and I’m ok with that to be honest! I am enjoying the cooky non-sensical ride! I will continue to enjoy the one-sided, but still beautifully romantic show. Even Khan Saab the All-Everything can’t create the chemistry without Yumna, and I’m here to watch their insane 🔥. It is what it is, I guess.

I would defo want a husband like him in real life.

Bru I am holiday forever!!

No work!

I guess you guys don’t work. Come to UK: I am exgusted with my life. I feel like I breath work, I live work, even now it’s Ramadan month it’s affecting my Ramadan, my pray, because we r slave to the society!

And I am a doctor.

Yes I love my job but as a female I want a supporting husband. Now that I am 28, job and best career is not everything.

You do need a family, you do need love and I surely wouldn’t mind having property where I can take holiday.

I think Meerabs character is someone at the age of 20/21 where your focus is career. When you reach near 30 your life goal do change.

mas a female I defo experienced that.

Just my real thinking 🤔

no bashing.

Originally posted by: _HealeR_

@bold : To a certain point that I want it to end soon so that I can concentrate on other important things in life !! My husband has become suspicious , its just he is not asking what I am really doing here and in Twitter all the time 😂

Hahahah omg tell me about it!!! Its like we are having a secret affaire with TB 😅