TERE BIN-Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT#28 "Ye kya harkat thi?" "Kya?" - Page 70

Originally posted by: Winterberry

Am so surprised that you are surprised!

Almost 80% couples try to consummate on wedding nights esp in arranged marriages, in most cases both parties are very excited and few cases the girls are clueless and few no body ask for girls consent !

Have u noticed the raise in divorce cases especially among urban middle and upper middle class families?Both are educated and have jobs but they fight for such petty things and demand divorce and not annulment!

The writer in her words said she had seen couples fighting and say they hate each other but still have kids , guess thru her story she tried telling them you have right and can ask ur spouse to wait! Your consent matters and your spouse might listen to you and respect ur decision!
She wanted to say Men like Murtasim will be loved too u don’t need to be like oh I am man and can have things my way!

And yes men who respect women’s consent exist and they wait too ! It’s not like they don’t or it’s dream . They do and we all know or seen them in our life!

But these dramas also reach to diff section of society where girls consent is not even asked for marriage so consent for contraception or consummation is out of question!

Bang on

About consummation, it is so expected that it will happen on the first night, never otherwise

Girls are now educated and well aware of everything going on with it but I have my own aunties and most elder women in my family say they didn't know how they became mothers. They just lived through the whole experience without actually registering it. Facts only. Most women would develop an understanding only after the first child back in the day.

Originally posted by: Winterberry

Am so surprised that you are surprised!

Almost 80% couples try to consummate on wedding nights esp in arranged marriages, in most cases both parties are very excited and few cases the girls are clueless and few no body ask for girls consent !

Have u noticed the raise in divorce cases especially among urban middle and upper middle class families?Both are educated and have jobs but they fight for such petty things and demand divorce and not annulment!

The writer in her words said she had seen couples fighting and say they hate each other but still have kids , guess thru her story she tried telling them you have right and can ask ur spouse to wait! Your consent matters and your spouse might listen to you and respect ur decision!
She wanted to say Men like Murtasim will be loved too u don’t need to be like oh I am man and can have things my way!

And yes men who respect women’s consent exist and they wait too ! It’s not like they don’t or it’s dream . They do and we all know or seen them in our life!

But these dramas also reach to diff section of society where girls consent is not even asked for marriage so consent for contraception or consummation is out of question!

I am not surprised.

The portion you wrote in bold,okay than I think I am wrong in generalizing men.I haven't such close encounter with men in this aspect toh have no idea.

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Thanks winter for pointing this out... 💗

My school bestie got married right after 10th exam!

None of us were happy we had so many plans, tour blah blah

It was eid-ul-adha holiday they told her they gonna visit their village only

Aur waha leke chaat mangi paat biha karwa di

The guy she got married? Was a govt officer 35 years old.

She wasn't happy, she cried over phone on the day of her haldi. Said they betrayed her, told her something else but doing this to her

So one can easily guess she wasn't ready for any sexs or consummation?? But guess what that guy tried to shove his di#k inside right on first night.

Bhad mei jaye ladki ka consent. ( ooooh also how can i forget! She was on her period to stop that period fast so her hubby can have segs they, her bhabi aunties gave her pills)

First night kisi bhi haal par insert nahi huya aur woh dard se bar bar na kar rahi thi so he behaved like janwar!

And 2nd they forced it inside.. giving damn about her pain or anything...coz in his language why should he wait???

Yeh to ek ki kahani thi...aise to roj roj hotey honge

In arrange married 70% time ladkiya first night ko hi excited nahi hoti yeh sab karne ko...but still they are expected to do so 🫠

So sad to hear about your friend mahi I hope she is fine now and out of this fooking marriage

Originally posted by: _HealeR_

Ramadan mubarak to you whos first ramadan is from tomorrow. 🤗❤️

How com its different this year ? Usually Pakistan,India and Bangladesh celebrate it in same day na ? In Bangladesh Friday gonna be the first Ramadan.But heard that Pakistan will start the holy month from tomorrow.

How come?

India and Pakistan begin ramadan together always.

The moon wasn't sighted here, strange

Anyways, ramadan mubarak 🤗

Originally posted by: Zofi_ee

Konsa serial

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

I solemnly swear to not predict the future

My word is as good as President Trump's word

Originally posted by: Merav

But I agree with what her dad said ....that if he was really your friend and knows now you are married .....how does his manners allow him to talk such things with you? Shouldn't he refrain from proposing to you. That point was apt on.

We are not sure how it works in Pakistan, married girl meeting her male friend alone.
I am now wondering how many Married girls meet their old male school friend alone casually! It’s usually a group meeting always ! And how many wives would be okay if their husbands are meeting old single female colleague alone !

Ramadan mubarak!

Pakistan mein kal se fasting hai.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Baby we earn that Consummation episode with blood, sweat and tears. It can take up 200 plus episodes to get that make love scene.

And then guess what 2 episodes later SEPARATION

Can't get more accurate than this

We EARN that consummation 😆

Originally posted by: Merav

But I agree with what her dad said ....that if he was really your friend and knows now you are married .....how does his manners allow him to talk such things with you? Shouldn't he refrain from proposing to you. That point was apt on.

Agreed.

But than maybe he was just telling her his feelings and after knowing that she was forced,he might think that maybe his confession can have some meaning..

Look beside murtasim you had to assume every other character pov so it is upto you,assume anything which suit you.😆