Originally posted by: Winterberry
Am so surprised that you are surprised!
Almost 80% couples try to consummate on wedding nights esp in arranged marriages, in most cases both parties are very excited and few cases the girls are clueless and few no body ask for girls consent !
Have u noticed the raise in divorce cases especially among urban middle and upper middle class families?Both are educated and have jobs but they fight for such petty things and demand divorce and not annulment!
The writer in her words said she had seen couples fighting and say they hate each other but still have kids , guess thru her story she tried telling them you have right and can ask ur spouse to wait! Your consent matters and your spouse might listen to you and respect ur decision!
She wanted to say Men like Murtasim will be loved too u don’t need to be like oh I am man and can have things my way!
Thanks winter for pointing this out... 💗
My school bestie got married right after 10th exam!
None of us were happy we had so many plans, tour blah blah
It was eid-ul-adha holiday they told her they gonna visit their village only
Aur waha leke chaat mangi paat biha karwa di
The guy she got married? Was a govt officer 35 years old.
She wasn't happy, she cried over phone on the day of her haldi. Said they betrayed her, told her something else but doing this to her
So one can easily guess she wasn't ready for any sexs or consummation?? But guess what that guy tried to shove his di#k inside right on first night.
Bhad mei jaye ladki ka consent. ( ooooh also how can i forget! She was on her period to stop that period fast so her hubby can have segs they, her bhabi aunties gave her pills)
First night kisi bhi haal par insert nahi huya aur woh dard se bar bar na kar rahi thi so he behaved like janwar!
And 2nd night he forced it inside.. giving damn about her pain or anything...coz in his language why should he wait???
Yeh to ek ki kahani thi...aise to roj roj hotey honge
In arrange married 70% time ladkiya first night ko hi excited nahi hoti yeh sab karne ko...but still they are expected to do so 🫠
Edited by mahiaana - 2 years ago
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