TERE BIN-Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT#28 "Ye kya harkat thi?" "Kya?" - Page 68

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

With their regular dramas, it's even more rare. Once they get married, you would expect that all's good and bam, a few days later the wife starts popping babies. Beyond that, the husband and wife may hardly be in love/respect each other

In pak dramas, it really pisses me off when female lead gets pregnant at the same time where she either wants to get separation from the male lead or male lead wants to divorce her. This happens when the male lead is not in love with female lead and loves someone else and treats female lead so badly.So for a change, i love that meerub put that condition and murtasim respects it.

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

Every quality of hers that gets backlash, coming straight from the horse's mouth

I do feel sad for her overall situation. If the show was better written, the identity crisis this girl is actually going through could have been highlighted more sensitively. Her reactions to that, even more.

The biggest lapse I find is .....there are no meerabs monologues so the viewers have no understanding of what is going on inside her....neither her character was written in such a way ... to discuss/ talk /confess/ confide to any of her friends. Literally from her place she has none she can trust. So it becomes difficult to connect to her character.

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Ewwwwww

yeh bhi huya???? Ewwww ...

But what piss me more is even after all these lafanga pan..this serial topped the trp list!! Again and again! How????

Haya saying "daro maat usse hay nahi lagayungi. Usko main khud kha hi jayungi"

I'm really disappointed on maryam! Ek bacche ko leke jo abtak aya bhi nahi duniya mein yeh sab bol gayi! And behen is standing there....go and telk your brother or maa begum!

also mana meeru is not pregnant now...but in future??? What about her future safety??? Plus that bacchas safety.

Yeh haya to seedha chaku gussa degi pet par!

Originally posted by: Nephy1

I am not talking about characters..

I am talking about how sad life we have in real life that for us such men exist only in fiction....

actually someone like Murtasim will get ghosted by me after one date..he is very regressive .. they just add his eye lock scenes and some corny lines to appease the female audience but beyond that he is very problematic..

i hear that men like Murtasim only exist in fiction.. in arrange marriage desi men crowd? or TV show male leads?

Originally posted by: Heeba

https://twitter.com/terebinonly/status/1638575470580047881?s=46&t=vWydrv1kM9_fbNX9eLsWcw

Just love this scene ❤️😂

I love that both meerub and murtasim make baby faces whenever they do some mistake😆

Aj k epi mn saei batain ek traf meeru haya baji ka reaction buht enjoy kar rahi the 🤣🤣😉😉 i was Wi8ing k meeru bolay haya ko sb k samnay Mubarak ho phopho banay wale ho 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Nephy1

I was assuming ki how we people say that what murtasim does for her is basic human rights of meerab as a girl.

And this is so right.

Its not that he is doing something extra for her,this is something she as a human deserves...

But still at last we want a man like murtasim to exist.

IRONICAL.

This shows that how we as females are being denied of basic rights in day to day life that a fictional character who is respecting those boundaries is being termed as DREAM man...means a man who can exist in dreams only.

Need a lot of work in society to ome day achieve that such men not being just dreams but reality....

Am so surprised that you are surprised!

Almost 80% couples try to consummate on wedding nights esp in arranged marriages, in most cases both parties are very excited and few cases the girls are clueless and few no body ask for girls consent !

Have u noticed the raise in divorce cases especially among urban middle and upper middle class families?Both are educated and have jobs but they fight for such petty things and demand divorce and not annulment!

The writer in her words said she had seen couples fighting and say they hate each other but still have kids , guess thru her story she tried telling them you have right and can ask ur spouse to wait! Your consent matters and your spouse might listen to you and respect ur decision!
She wanted to say Men like Murtasim will be loved too u don’t need to be like oh I am man and can have things my way!

And yes men who respect women’s consent exist and they wait too ! It’s not like they don’t or it’s dream . They do and we all know or seen them in our life!

But these dramas also reach to diff section of society where girls consent is not even asked for marriage so consent for contraception or consummation is out of question!

Just started watching the episode after reading all the updates here 🤣

Why does Meerub say ‘main usko phone q karehi hun? Usko pata chal jaiga mera phone on hai’ before leaving for village

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

Every quality of hers that gets backlash, coming straight from the horse's mouth

I do feel sad for her overall situation. If the show was better written, the identity crisis this girl is actually going through could have been highlighted more sensitively. Her reactions to that, even more.

But I agree with what her dad said ....that if he was really your friend and knows now you are married .....how does his manners allow him to talk such things with you? Shouldn't he refrain from proposing to you. That point was apt on.