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when Maa begum said "Meerab ko le jao" to gao.. Murtasim was like "woh kya karegi wahaan" WTF!! WWWTTFFFFF

he didn't want some quiet time along with his wife? does this boy even want to lose his virginity anymore?

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake

Murstasim's character has made a complete 180-degree turn. When he wasn't married, he never spoke to Haya with basic decency. He is suddenly more concerned with removing kachra from her eyes, and the next step is to clean the booger from her nose.

why was he grabbing her face? lol this boy is amateur at everything.. losing virginity, getting things removed from eyes..

Originally posted by: FanofAreebsMum

why was he grabbing her face? lol this boy is amateur at everything.. losing virginity, getting things removed from eyes..

He can't see. He is aakh wala andha.

He knows his wife whom he wants to gulp things up🤣Is not happy when he talks with her yet he plays gajra gajra with her

When MB will know meerub is not pregnant will she & anwar take back the money theye gave away in warding evil eye 🤣

Originally posted by: shruti46

He can't see. He is aakh wala andha.

He knows his wife whom he wants to gulp things up🤣Is not happy when he talks with her yet he plays gajra gajra with her

i mean why isn't he grasping her lower eye lid and pulling it down? or pulling upper eye lid up to check for the object?..

DOES HAYA HVE HER LOWER EYE LID ON HER JAW AREA AND LIKE UPPER EYE LID ON HER HEAD?

imagine when Meerab finally gives him consent, what will he do to initiate? rub her ankles? kiss her elbows?

Originally posted by: FanofAreebsMum

i mean why isn't he grasping her lower eye lid and pulling it down? or pulling upper eye lid up to check for the object?..

DOES HAYA HVE HER LOWER EYE LID ON HER JAW AREA AND LIKE UPPER EYE LID ON HER HEAD?

imagine when Meerab finally gives him consent, what will he do to initiate? rub her ankles? kiss her elbows?

He wants to do thorough investigation of that dirt🤣

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

Yes, after having some time away from epi 24 (cuz no way in heck am I rewatching that episode on my nightly treadmill session), I’m coming to terms with the fact that we need an “effective” way to bring Meerab closer to her husband. And, ugh, unfortunately they have chosen this way, but maybe it was the only effective way given the way they had set the characters up from the beginning. (Also, maybe it won’t be as bad as we think…like others have said, Murtasim always comes through in the end. )

Meerab really is a lost soul right now. She is just “reactioning” her way through the days and is basically going through the motions. In this reactionary state, I guess they need to really give her a big reaction causing event to get at least one firm feeling out of her: love. Remember that love is not just love, it’s often also a sense of belonging. (Right now her feelings are all over the place, and understandably so, given all the mistrust and loss she’s experienced.) And maybe seeing Murtasim with Haya, in that suggestive position, amidst the more private gao environment, really is what it takes to get her to react and confess her feelings. To herself first, and then to to Murtasim. I mean, think about it. The way they have written the story, even him almost dying for her didn’t have that effect on her. LOL….it will take Haya the snake to do it.

And also from one standpoint, maybe it had to be this way, again because of how they initially set this all up. Meerab, from the get go, has been giving Haya LOTS of hope herself. She herself has been telling Haya that she and Murtasim will be separated, she will be happy and thank Haya if she separates them, and that Haya should be ready. From that type of a setup, then Haya is just doing what Meerab is letting her do. It always bugged me when Meerab used to say stuff like that to Haya, and I guess NOW she will be forced to reckon with this by taking a firm stand. And that will require her to come to terms with her own feelings.

Meerab will have to begin her recovery in life by regaining some stable, durable feeling as a start. In this case, it will be love for her husband. Love = belonging, an anchor in her life. Law will come, I’m pretty certain about it. But it’s also unrealistic to think that someone so suddenly and emotionally messed up is thinking about career right this minute. Once she regains some stability in her life, she will be more able to get back to her old self and her old dreams. Murtasim, I feel, will ultimately do anything for her.

Just some thoughts. (Sorry for some reason my iPad is causing some weird spacing issues.)

Really loved reading this

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

Yes, after having some time away from epi 24 (cuz no way in heck am I rewatching that episode on my nightly treadmill session), I’m coming to terms with the fact that we need an “effective” way to bring Meerab closer to her husband. And, ugh, unfortunately they have chosen this way, but maybe it was the only effective way given the way they had set the characters up from the beginning. (Also, maybe it won’t be as bad as we think…like others have said, Murtasim always comes through in the end. )

Meerab really is a lost soul right now. She is just “reactioning” her way through the days and is basically going through the motions. In this reactionary state, I guess they need to really give her a big reaction causing event to get at least one firm feeling out of her: love. Remember that love is not just love, it’s often also a sense of belonging. (Right now her feelings are all over the place, and understandably so, given all the mistrust and loss she’s experienced.) And maybe seeing Murtasim with Haya, in that suggestive position, amidst the more private gao environment, really is what it takes to get her to react and confess her feelings. To herself first, and then to to Murtasim. I mean, think about it. The way they have written the story, even him almost dying for her didn’t have that effect on her. LOL….it will take Haya the snake to do it.

And also from one standpoint, maybe it had to be this way, again because of how they initially set this all up. Meerab, from the get go, has been giving Haya LOTS of hope herself. She herself has been telling Haya that she and Murtasim will be separated, she will be happy and thank Haya if she separates them, and that Haya should be ready. From that type of a setup, then Haya is just doing what Meerab is letting her do. It always bugged me when Meerab used to say stuff like that to Haya, and I guess NOW she will be forced to reckon with this by taking a firm stand. And that will require her to come to terms with her own feelings.

Meerab will have to begin her recovery in life by regaining some stable, durable feeling as a start. In this case, it will be love for her husband. Love = belonging, an anchor in her life. Law will come, I’m pretty certain about it. But it’s also unrealistic to think that someone so suddenly and emotionally messed up is thinking about career right this minute. Once she regains some stability in her life, she will be more able to get back to her old self and her old dreams. Murtasim, I feel, will ultimately do anything for her.

Just some thoughts. (Sorry for some reason my iPad is causing some weird spacing issues.)

You are right she has been reacting ever since her parentage truth was revealed. She said this in the Walima her defiance is her reaction. Even the contract was also a reaction, camouflaged as I am taking charge. But if she confesses to Murtasim anything it will be another reactionary moment, not out of free will.

I guess Meerab telling RoTall about the contract isn't out of character for her, since she has been telling the enemy pixie a little too much about her marriage. But I doubt even if Meerab didn't say anything Haya would have stopped with her moves.

Yes Murtasim isn't just her husband, he is her anchor right now, her home. So her being jealous of Haya isn't just about losing a husband, but also losing her home all over again. She has lost her identity the one she was very proud of which was her source of self esteem, but now all she has is being Murtasim's wife, what if that is taken away from her too, what and who will she be, that fear is causing her to lash out. Murtasim stature and esteem feeds Meerab's lost pride, after all who doesn't want to the king's bride especially his chahath. She told behaya in that gajra scene he chases me he desires me he loves me, it was more than just a taunt to piss off that pixie, Meerab feeds of Murtasim desire for her to rebuild her lost self. She is seeing herself through his eyes only, because she doesn't see herself anymore. Those two scenes during the contract signing scene where she says I only see you now and when Murtasim asks her during the date do you even see yourself and she has this lost look, but he does he sees her. But the question is does he see her in the image he wants her to be, or does he see her in the image she is proud to be?

The bottom line is I think once her marriage with Murtasim is on a more stable footing, once they both know for sure this marriage is for keeps they can have the more difficult conversations. Yes we love each other we want to stay married but what next. Hopefully his love is not all about consuming her whole existence and there will be room for her own separate identity.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

You are right she has been reacting ever since her parentage truth was revealed. She said this in the Walima her defiance is her reaction. Even the contract was also a reaction, camouflaged as I am taking charge. But if she confesses to Murtasim anything it will be another reactionary moment, not out of free will.

I guess Meerab telling RoTall about the contract isn't out of character for her, since she has been telling the enemy pixie a little too much about her marriage. But I doubt even if Meerab didn't say anything Haya would have stopped with her moves.

Yes Murtasim isn't just her husband, he is her anchor right now, her home. So her being jealous of Haya isn't just about losing a husband, but also losing her home all over again. She has lost her identity the one she was very proud of which was her source of self esteem, but now all she has is being Murtasim's wife, what if that is taken away from her too, what and who will she be, that fear is causing her to lash out. Murtasim stature and esteem feeds Meerab's lost pride, after all who doesn't want to the king's bride especially his chahath. She told behaya in that gajra scene he chases me he desires me he loves me, it was more than just a taunt to piss off that pixie, Meerab feeds of Murtasim desire for her to rebuild her lost self. She is seeing herself through his eyes only, because she doesn't see herself anymore. Those two scenes during the contract signing scene where she says I only see you now and when Murtasim asks her during the date do you even see yourself and she has this lost look, but he does he sees her. But the question is does he see her in the image he wants her to, or does he see her in the image she is proud to be?

The bottom line is I think once her marriage with Murtasim is on a more stable footing, once they both know for sure this marriage is for keeps they can have the more difficult conversations. Yes we love each other we want to stay married but what next. Hopefully his love is not all about consuming her whole existence and there will be room for her own separate identity.

Cant tell you how much i enjoy reading your posts. I feel you know the characters better than the writer herself ❤️