TERE BIN-Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT #20 "CAN I??" (updt on pg-125, 6th post) - Page 85

Actually this is beautifully shown in suno chanda...

And I also tell you I didn't liked Arsal's character for the very same reason,he forcefully married Aziya by saying he will fulfil her dream,she was hesitant to marry him for very same reason,she again and again mentions jaisi ladki tumhein chahiye mein vaisi nhi hoon....but he gave her assurance ki no I like your kind a girls only....

But here murtasim always knew that his wife will be caged,he said that to Anwar and his mother,he persuaded meerab to not go for marriage but they are stuck...

Andits a show aur kuch ho jayega ismein but in real life its becomes very difficult but fir sacrifice at cost of dremas needed to be made....

But atleast they talked before marrying agreed on one point however later Arsal went back on his words....

Originally posted by: Nephy1

Actually this is beautifully shown in suno chanda...

And I also tell you I didn't liked Arsal's character for the very same reason,he forcefully married Aziya by saying he will fulfil her dream,she was hesitant to marry him for very same reason,she again and again mentions jaisi ladki tumhein chahiye mein vaisi nhi hoon....but he gave her assurance ki no I like your kind a girls only....

But here murtasim always knew that his wife will be caged,he said that to Anwar and his mother,he persuaded meerab to not go for marriage but they are stuck...

Andits a show aur kuch ho jayega ismein but in real life its becomes very difficult but fir sacrifice at cost of dremas needed to be made....

But atleast they talked before marrying agreed on one point however later Arsal went back on his words....

Yes. Very similar to what happened in Suno Chanda, compiling both seasons.

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

No way is this a muslim cultural thing. Talking about me, all of us cousins have lived together for a considerable time and this is far from normal.

They have taken way too many liberties with Haya and Murtasim. Maryam is his sister by blood, do we see her hovering around her brother for food and clothes? No.

Simple lazy way to keep Haya around and keep the traingle alive and kicking. Hate this part of the show a lot.

It's not like she is pretending like I will forget u, now I only see u as family member. She is openly showing her want to become his wife, infront of him flaunted flowers before his wife who is left with embarrassment.

Originally posted by: Chumu

Now what the hell is this ham pagla jaengea speculation laga kar what if vo actually gajra dal kar pregnant ho

https://twitter.com/maanmarziyan_/status/1636289451143081987?t=PotuMVL8NIWN5gzbln0WrQ&s=19

Yes tag me 3/4 more manhoos posts like this and I Swear ab maine hi pregnant ho jana hein ultiya (puke) kar karke. Then congratulations to you all ap sab masi ban jayenge 👏🥲

Ch*t*ya kaant ne ka bhi ek limit hota hein... 🤧 sabne milke pagal banana hein.

I think the mother herself is expecting another one. Tabhi post diya hein yess finally iska bhai/behen aayega. Bas finally ke baad baki likhna bhul gayi kyuki ulti agayi usko.

😤

So here is score board!

Murtasim

1. Let’s haya sit on his bed.

2. Allows her to feed him soup.

3. Shared his one side love story ka dard with her.

( I have broken down them into three points)

4. Believes her BS story after accident.

5. Allows her to pick up clothes for him

6. Makes her cook food for date (This I am still confused)

7. Takes joshanda from her hand.

8. Doesn’t scold her when she steals gajra and insults meerab.

9. Allows haya to sit in car beside him.

Meerab

1. Accepts ring Rohail gives her.

2. Brings it back home and ponders over it.

3. Shares with Rohail about marriage contract

Please be free to add in!

Originally posted by: Tvluvrk

when you choose the life of a socialist ,when you get involved with people in the context of serving justice you choose a different path ....there lies the difference my dear friend.....if meerab wanted to b a lawyer all this was coming to her anyway posible that is what i m trying to say .

But being a lawyer is her dream...

Its what she want to do...

Murtasim doesn't wanted to be gadinasheen...

It was forced on him...

Same way it was going to be forced on his wife..

I am getting your point.

My parents are doctors..

And I understand this living life for others very nicely and at personal level...let me make it clear to you.

But my parents chose to be doctor,they chose this life...

It wasn't forced on them.

Being sacrificial but they don't feel caged...

I have said in my post with example that both are doing is for betterment of people but one wanted to do that...and other one had different aspirations.

That landlord son wanted to be a civil servant,cleared his upsc but no they didn't allowed so he would have done sacrifices in both cases but one out of willingness one out of a family obligations...its like their family took care of those people now being son its automatically expected from him and his wife....

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

No way is this a muslim cultural thing. Talking about me, all of us cousins have lived together for a considerable time and this is far from normal.

They have taken way too many liberties with Haya and Murtasim. Maryam is his sister by blood, do we see her hovering around her brother for food and clothes? No.

Simple lazy way to keep Haya around and keep the traingle alive and kicking. Hate this part of the show a lot.

but are hindu cousins different from muslim cousins.

because in our hindu culture it is ok to be like this because for us we don't marry cousins, we are brothers and sisters. there is no romantic links between cousins, it would be like having feelings for a sibling which is incest. but after marriage siblings/cousins don't do spousal duties, that is crossing the line.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

I am not at all telling to not bash meerab. But why I didn't see this much outrage which is given to meerab when murtasim let haya do wife duties.

My issue was why this biased approach towards two characters.

U, me everyone know murtasim never got called out for his leeway to haya the way he should be.

While here we are all ready to call meerab names just by seeing promo.

After today's episode, I too will join people bashing her. But can't deny the fact that murtasim got lot of leeway from fandom.

Bold : Last week we bashed him left to right.

Pura baja dala tha...kheer , car blah blah leke. Oh also for that gajra promo too.

And we are doing the same for him letting haya sit in car that too besides him again in new promo too.

This is what i like about this forum fd we are not blindly biased. Yes we do favour our fav characters little here and there but we are not totally blind like twitter fd!

We all have different perspectives yet we try to understand each others word.

None of us are blindly biased ( i meant this forum fd only)

My take is may be she does not take that ring home... We are overthinking based on scene in ost...

May be it's only for ost... Like those dargah and khet scenes... In khet scenes they looked so in love but in reality there was nothing like that ... Some scenes are shot for ost only

Poor Contract 🤣https://twitter.com/aestic_marie/status/1636306144514670592?s=46&t=LwiO51-zzGOKafg-QYveAg