TERE BIN-Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT #20 "CAN I??" (updt on pg-125, 6th post) - Page 84

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

The child looks like a 2 yr old but I think they will show her at max a 1 yr old.

Wasting more brain power, I just remembered that Maryam has 2 years of studies left and I assume she gets married in the last episodes, so a two year seperation for these two. 😆

I dont have kids can a 2 year old be given dialogues. Ok this is it i have officially lost my mind, i mean i am just finally accepting i have a disease, my brain is broken. I am trying to predict the story based on whether a 2 year old can talk. Someone call the doctor I should go to bed now.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

This shit gets my goat because he is the only one who can, he is the one with all the power but he is doing nothing about it. Even Maryam is more proactive. Even the servants who saw black magic are like no sister this has to STOP NOW. But Murtasim Maharaj is just all chill take it easy babe come on let me flirt with you don't ruin the mood. Mood my ass.

Lol at the selective outrage coming from women themselves. Internalised misogyny enabled further by women, whew.

You talk about that, the man even discussed that his wife does not love him yet with that Haya, was ready to be fed by her. Allowed access to his wardrobe to get out his clothes, drank the chai she made for her. Accepted all the lies she fed him about his wife to the point where she had to leave, when he knew she considers herself homeless. When her lies were uncovered, he did nothing to reprimand her. Just a simple go is not enough. Haya stole the gajras he brought for his wife and was showing it off infront of his wife and he had the audacity to ask, 'are you jealous?' boy, how can she not be? And moreover, how else do you want her to feel her secure with you when you don't do zilch to stop your obsessive lover?

Turn the tables, just turn them for once, put up a male cousin in the haveli and see the outrage.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

I dont have kids can a 2 year old be given dialogues. Ok this is it i have officially lost my mind, i mean i am just finally accepting i have a disease, my brain is broken. I am trying to predict the story based on whether a 2 year old can talk. Someone call the doctor I should go to bed now.

No dialogues lol. The reason they must have kept a toddler is to avoid unnecessary stretching of the kid bonding with the dad unknowingly and all that typical stuff. Ain't nothing like that happening here.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

I hated this scene too i am sorry if you felt i wasn't vocal enough. A scene like this in an hindi drama by a male lead will definitely be called as cheating, he will get a lot of hate. But you are right Murtasim didn't get enough hate, because of the cousin angle maybe.

Which I keep asking again and again is this a muslim cultural thing that us hindus are not getting.

But he didn't felt the offense when haya does wife duties to him. Instead he feels pity for her. If he feels pity for her then why can't he be Stern to her instead of indirectly entertaining her.

How it is the definition of loyal husband when he let's his obsessive lover do wife duties in the name of cousin.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

https://twitter.com/Meena51143543/status/1636294082992435200?t=kRgk0cQbGqnUqwyyHmANtw&s=19

See this kind of scenes I have problem with. How it is anything less than crossing boundaries? Is he a kid to get fed by her that too on his BED.

I am sure meerab would have named characterless had she did this kind of thing. Since it is murtasim a man , everything is okay. Because haya is cousin, he pity her, and many more excuses.

And fandom different reactions for these things also shows how low key misogynistic everyone here.

I agree with you no doubt that was not done.

Not this not her holding hand,not him telling her sternly.

I was just saying that I do have issues with this.

So when I have issue with this than I also have issues with what meerab is doing.

When I can't take that murtasim is not ignoring haya completely when he has not given any assurance to her than how can I see merab giving assurance to ruhail.

Meerab was right when she said to set boundaries clear,I agreed with that.

But than how can I support meerab..

When I don't support murtasim on haya case when meerab knows about her also than how can I accept meerab doing when even murtasim doesn't know about ruhail...

Thats the reason I was again and again saying ki feminism was never about talking in favor of female it was always about equality....

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

No dialogues lol. The reason they must have kept a toddler is to avoid unnecessary stretching of the kid bonding with the dad unknowingly and all that typical stuff. Ain't nothing like that happening here.

but isn't a 2 year old big enough to know they are around strangers. they can talk at that age, and say mom and dad. i am sure meerab will have some cute scenes with the kid.

ok stop please make me stop save me

Originally posted by: Nephy1

From caged life I meant to sacrifice her dreams or live amongst tight security and scrutiny always which is not possible being murtasim's wife,he himself is living a caged Life.

No,I am also doing a job,and if you do job in government sector,you always do work for people only,but I am not suffocating becoz the sacrifices I do for my job are tbe sacrifices I am doing for myself,there is a difference.

When you pursue your dreams you sacrifice a lot and eventually always contribute to the betterment of society,everybody does that but thats what we love thats what we want,it gives happiness.

But than a king's son has to be king but he doesn't want to be but he had to be becoz thats what hundreds of subject of wanted than that is different kimd of selfless sacrifice.

Murtasim has given that kind a sacrifice and same is expected from his wife.

Meerab want to sacrifice things for pursuing her dreams which will eventually help others.

Doctors do a lot of sacrifice but thats what they wanted for themselves right,nobody forces them to be a doctor when hundreds of other professions are available,thats their happiness but when a landlord son is forced to take charge of their land after returning canada after higher studies becoz many people are dependant on them and income their land provides them,its not easy...

Trust meits not easy to lose yourself to stand for others,to change yourself to provide others.

Both are providing but ome is living his identity himself other is losing his identy and himself.

There is a lot difference in both of them.

I haveno issues how tbey both behave,they behave the way they should its just that in real life such people are not mea t to be and if they did end up together they will suffer and people in such relationships do suffer.

Look around you,you willfind many examples.

when you choose the life of a socialist ,when you get involved with people in the context of serving justice you choose a different path ....there lies the difference my dear friend.....if meerab wanted to b a lawyer all this was coming to her anyway posible that is what i m trying to say .

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

I hated this scene too i am sorry if you felt i wasn't vocal enough. A scene like this in an hindi drama by a male lead will definitely be called as cheating, he will get a lot of hate. But you are right Murtasim didn't get enough hate, because of the cousin angle maybe.

Which I keep asking again and again is this a muslim cultural thing that us hindus are not getting.

No way is this a muslim cultural thing. Talking about me, all of us cousins have lived together for a considerable time and this is far from normal.

They have taken way too many liberties with Haya and Murtasim. Maryam is his sister by blood, do we see her hovering around her brother for food and clothes? No.

Simple lazy way to keep Haya around and keep the traingle alive and kicking. Hate this part of the show a lot.

ok bed time sorry i have to go eyes brains ears are going to pop

my hand is a claw cant type

Originally posted by: Nephy1

I agree with you no doubt that was not done.

Not this not her holding hand,not him telling her sternly.

I was just saying that I do have issues with this.

So when I have issue with this than I also have issues with what meerab is doing.

When I can't take that murtasim is not ignoring haya completely when he has not given any assurance to her than how can I see merab giving assurance to ruhail.

Meerab was right when she said to set boundaries clear,I agreed with that.

But than how can I support meerab..

When I don't support murtasim on haya case when meerab knows about her also than how can I accept meerab doing when even murtasim doesn't know about ruhail...

Thats the reason I was again and again saying ki feminism was never about talking in favor of female it was always about equality....

My issue was why this biased approach towards two characters.

U, me everyone know murtasim never got called out for his leeway to haya the way he should be.

While here we are all ready to call meerab names just by seeing promo.

After today's episode, I too will join people bashing her. But can't deny the fact that murtasim got lot of leeway from fandom.