Member Topic: love has nothing to do with looks - Page 2

Originally posted by: TheMinion

How would you know about a person's soul unless you spend time with that person? Will you spend time with a person who is visually unappealing? There has to be something that attracts attention - could be voice, smile, personality, looks....

For me, I like to spend time with women who are soft spoken and have kind eyes and smile... 😳

My first love was visually unappealing but we were together on and off for 20 years....I fell in love with him the moment I saw him....when you fall in love with a soul, everything about that person becomes beautiful!

Also, I'm weird when it comes to finding people beautiful,

I might find Mrunal hot but this lady is also beautiful to me!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jM-fvh1E4HM

Originally posted by: mintyblue

You guys will be surprised if you saw the photo of the man I'm in love with. But he has an exquisite soul, and I connect with him deeply.

Thoughts??

Who is the man you're in love with, Minty? A new one? The one from your (former???) work place? Your first love? Hrithik?

The one from my former workplace. We talked the other day and all the feelings rushed back.

But we can't be together because we belong to different religions.

we've decided on being friends, but I love him a lot, and those feelings won't just fade away anytime soon.

In love - Looks 85% Bcoz for love attraction is a huge factor and tangible beauty attracts more than intangible.

In marriage - Stability 85%

We don't marry everyone we love...do we ?

Originally posted by: mintyblue

My first love was visually unappealing but we were together on and off for 20 years....I fell in love with him the moment I saw him....when you fall in love with a soul, everything about that person becomes beautiful!

How did you manage to see Hrithiku's soul? 😆

Originally posted by: TheMinion

How did you manage to see Hrithiku's soul? 😆

It shines through his conversations....he's beautiful inside and out...

The second line (religion) intrigues me...who of you both think that it's really an obstacle for living your love?

As for your question... one is attracted by the first aspect...it could be the voice, a facial expression (like smile), a way of speaking, a kind of behaviour, a smell, an involuntary touch...but if it's just seeing one, it certainly is the own perception of beauty that moves the senses.

In today's world attraction is based on luck looks and health ..... And that's sad because we dont have control on these 3 things..... Such people not only excel at relationships but also in careers....people with good looks are preferred everywhere.....

Only after selection of partner based on looks, people start knowing the person. If time and situation favours you get married or you drift apart.

There are very few people who search out for a good soul from the very beginning....these type of relations take years to come together as there is no instant attraction.

But there are some people who have that x factor charisma and personality to attract people like magnets....so i think it depends on case to case basis...

But yes todays love starts with looks and luck....harsh truth but this is what i have observed in all these years....

Originally posted by: TheMinion

How would you know about a person's soul unless you spend time with that person? Will you spend time with a person who is visually unappealing? There has to be something that attracts attention - could be voice, smile, personality, looks....

For me, I like to spend time with women who are soft spoken and have kind eyes and smile... 😳

What if you fall in love over IF Pms😆