Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 14 Mar 2023 - Page 10

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

What had stopped her from telling Anuj that she cannot give her 100% if they adopted or that she has moved out of the motherhood phase? Did he force her to adopt? I do not recall, but my memory could be failing me.

btw, what is this "out of a the phase" thingy?

In reality, as children grow old, moms/parents miss their younger version of kids and become all the more patient/loving to little children in general.

Yes, when parents get old they need their grandchildren, but what they actually do with their grandchildren, they just do "awelly awelly babu shona" and nothing else, we cannot expect that they will take care like parents so we cannot expect from Anupama that she will become a mother of 5/6/7 year old kid and that too within 2 days of her marriage.

and the thing that stopped Anupama from talking to anuj was

"me sab kar lungi, me maa hoon ne" and here she was at fault, kaise sab kar legi, koi sab kuch nahi kar sakta.

My point is just ki why to only blame Anupama, OK I agree that Anupama is a bad mother, but why CA is ready to leave Anuj as well, what he was doing, why he could not connect with the kid, how Maya got that opportunity to connect with kid and get attached to her just within 15 days, what was anuj doing in those 5-6 months? Why only mothers are blamed everytime? Anupama is a bad mother no doubt (those 3 defective cases prove that how "besht" mother she is) but can we say that Anuj is a best father?

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Kab manayenge Holi? Diwali pe?

Holi ka rang utar gaya hai, they should jump to the next festival. Anyway, the order for their next set of gaudy, colour coordinated clothes will take some time to be ready

abhi manaenge just wait and watch, soon it will be proved that "anupama is the besht mother" and bas, festival start hojaega, vaise bhi, iss track me TRP bohot kam aai hai, toh shayad khatam karenge ab jaldi se aur naya drama shuru hoga.

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Kab manayenge Holi? Diwali pe?

Holi ka rang utar gaya hai, they should jump to the next festival. Anyway, the order for their next set of gaudy, colour coordinated clothes will take some time to be ready

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I was wondering, if CA wasn't adopted, how would their marriage be? She would have still gone to attend SH. But Anuj would not have anything to complain about, perhaps?

btw, all the bidaai etc is for nothing. Bacchi will be back for holi celebrations, I am sure.🤣

Aur nahi to kya.. CA will throw tantrums that mujhe Mummy papa chahiye.. then Maa will smirk at Maaya...🤣

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

abhi manaenge just wait and watch, soon it will be proved that "anupama is the besht mother" and bas, festival start hojaega, vaise bhi, iss track me TRP bohot kam aai hai, toh shayad khatam karenge ab jaldi se aur naya drama shuru hoga.

TRP is 3.2 for this track buddy. Itna salon mai nahi mila hai

Originally posted by: Harish111

TRP is 3.2 for this track buddy. Itna salon mai nahi mila hai

saalon thoda jyaada ho gya, mahino mein 🤣

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Oh no. It wasn't forgettable. (I personally felt the circus clown look suited her character)

To recap, she went on a picnic for a couple of hours with CA where they danced. Kinjal also came along with Pari. On the way back she had one of her trademark premonitions about precious Pakhi facing trouble. But the car broke down as usual (Does Anuj Kapadia only have such cars? No money to maintain/repair?)

So Mahaan Anu took an auto and ran back home whilst unaware Kinjal, CA and Pari were fast asleep in the car, stranded on the road. To be fair they were with a driver but she did not even tell Kinjal she was leaving. (Now that I think of it, was the driver hired for a day or did he also disappear like the rest of the staff such as Kamal bhai)

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

Yes, when parents get old they need their grandchildren, but what they actually do with their grandchildren, they just do "awelly awelly babu shona" and nothing else, we cannot expect that they will take care like parents so we cannot expect from Anupama that she will become a mother of 5/6/7 year old kid and that too within 2 days of her marriage.

and the thing that stopped Anupama from talking to anuj was

"me sab kar lungi, me maa hoon ne" and here she was at fault, kaise sab kar legi, koi sab kuch nahi kar sakta.

My point is just ki why to only blame Anupama, OK I agree that Anupama is a bad mother, but why CA is ready to leave Anuj as well, what he was doing, why he could not connect with the kid, how Maya got that opportunity to connect with kid and get attached to her just within 15 days, what was anuj doing in those 5-6 months? Why only mothers are blamed everytime? Anupama is a bad mother no doubt (those 3 defective cases prove that how "besht" mother she is) but can we say that Anuj is a best father?

IMO, "babu, shona.. " etc is what comes out for young beings they might see in public or of someone else's kids. Not for a child where they are acting as parents. In this case, the child is promised of a loving home. I do expect Anupama to be the mother is screams that she is. Abandoing the child in the middle of nowhere is unacceptable, even if she is not fostering or it was her neighbor's daughter.

Was Anuj also neglecting CA? I ask because I do not recall reading it in updates here. I believe he was there for her, unlike Anupama. If CA didn't have same connection/attachment with him, I don't think he can blamed for it.

He must be blamed for not holding Anupama accountable for her negligence. He is to blame for not nipping the problem in the bud. He must be blamed for not validating Maaya's claims, entrusting the responsiblity to Anupama. He is to blame for not using his brains, period.

Originally posted by: strancho

Aur nahi to kya.. CA will throw tantrums that mujhe Mummy papa chahiye.. then Maa will smirk at Maaya...🤣

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

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Barrage of emotions 🤣