Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 14 Mar 2023 - Page 3

Originally posted by: Sleeepyy

Haan tho ye sab krke koi ehsaan nhi kiya hai, fostering Anu was their own decision and they had to do this, apart from all this they also had to prioritize her needs and protect her mental peace which MAan couldn't do !

Sorry, but repeatedly taking a child to the shah shanty where she can watch the ruckus and constant fights is the best gift you can ever give. They imparted holistic education and patience by keeping her near abusive Jhule ki chudail, Makkhi etc who taunted her. They taught her how to be self sufficient by ignoring her and literally dumping her in summer camp during winter and at friend's farmhouse where they barely enquired. Most importantly, they ensured the presence of the most delightful Mooch Unkil in her life who is a constant source of joy 😊

Honestly I felt bad for Maa today. She might be the only one dealing with Maaya with the basic respect and acknowledgement that she deserves all this while. And Maaya/Chhavi was awesome today, especially when she said she did not want to show AnupaMAA the mirror, but she had to because the rest of her pathetic family including Anuj kept blaming her, manipulating her etc.

From AnupaMAA’s angle, she’s been trying her best to keep running this impossible marathon ever since she got married. It was very wrong of Anuj to put forth his adoption desire in 2 days of their marriage. And now that she of course failed balancing all matkaa’s together, the only other thing she could do was to have a mature conversation with Anuj 2-3 months back that she is not being able to manage everything. But even then the outcome would still be this. Maaya or no Maaya, AnupaMAA is not ready to have a full fledged family in KM. This khayali pulaav of Anuj was never going to work. Well too bad it’s happening in this ugly way now with entire blame being put on Maa, whereas Anuj is 50% responsible of creating this impossible situation for her in the first place. 🤔

Shah Family is like crabs. They successfully brought Anu down with all their nithallapan in last 1 yr of their lives. The least they could do today was to keep their mouth shut and let AnupaMAA handle it in a way that could be a little favorable to them and something that she was doing i.e. begging unconditionally. Begging unconditionally is the only way. Stroking ego helps in real life in such situations. But no. They had to ruin this last chance too with constantly taunting and singling Maaya out. But guess what, to their surprise Maaya is not AnupaMAA. Turns out she has a voice and opinion. 🤗👍🏼👏 Now AnupaMAA would face the heat due to Shahs.

It’s known that Anuj is going to resent MAA big time if CA goes away. The bigger question is, is AnupaMAA going to resent the Shahs now as much as well ? Because she just lost the baby she claims to love as much because of the Shahs now. If she continues to visit SH without any remorse or resentment, I can conclude Anuj’s resentment would be worth it then.

Aaj maaya kya murkhta poora baat kar rahi thi anupama ko 15 din ka reference Dena Is out of context

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

I did not read it in recap but did she really say to Anu, how her children turned despite her being the besht maa?.😂😂😂 Can someone here say, if this was said, this I need to see.🤣 Part time mom was said. I burst out laughing when I saw it on YouTube. I had rewatch twice to see if I heard it correct.🤣

It was implied. She said that three defective Anuraj products even after adulting are unable to manage their lives. So Anupamaid will be running for a lifetime to cater to their needs and CA does not deserve an AADHI MAA.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Hain kya logic hai ki koi ehsaan nahi Kiya

Jub anupama kisi time ko choti ko na dekh paaye to anupama is worst mother of choti aur jub anupama choti ke liye kare to ehsaan nahi Kiya. ?kya logic Hai iska

What should anupama do ? anupama kare to bhi buri aur na kare to bhi buri hai

It’s a mother’s responsibility. A default. Means if she does it, it’s because it’s her duty, and not a favor she’s doing to the kid, and if she doesn’t, of course she’s a bad mother. It’s same way that works IRL. 😃

Finally watched it. Time nikaal hi liya🤣

Even though I liked and enjoyed what Maaya said but I feel the makers deliberately added that picnic one and then justified Anupamaa in a way because not going to picnic with Anu was actually her majboori. She wanted to go but Anuj denied her. They could've done away with that picnic thing and Anupamaa would have no answer to her allegations at all. Had they gone with that school function one (not as a passing reference) but full fledged, telling how it broke little Anu's heart with some added flashbacks of her crying (Anuj could remember them) the impact would have been much more. Even the trp audience would be by Maaya's side and against Anupamaa.

But they played it smart. First they vilified Maaya, then they made her take away her own daughter stealthily and then made her spew these allegations, side by side giving Anupamaa dialogues such as she loves Anuj the most, Anu and Anuj are her family, Ghar Ghar hota hai etc. and making Anuj angry with her, in turn buying sympathy for their lead character.

But still, they couldn't completely make Anupamaa the victim here. They tried to but failed and I'm happy.

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

It was implied. She said that three defective Anuraj products even after adulting are unable to manage their lives. So Anupamaid will be running for a lifetime to cater to their needs and CA does not deserve an AADHI MAA.

Anupama ko yeh bolna chahiye tha ki yeh Jo tum hum pe Jo blame laga rahi ho ki Maine choti anu ko ignore Kiya tum 15 din shah chali gayi

First anupama should ask maaya do u really want me to look after ca that u r telling me I have ignore ca

Because it was u jub main shah house jaa rahi thi to tumhe hi Mera bag Khushi Khushi pack kar rahi thi taaki mujhe choti ko care ka chance na mile

Anupama ko poochna chahiye if u really want me spend time with ca then us din tum Mera bag Khushi Khushi kyon pack kar rahi thi when I was going to shah house

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

It’s a mother’s responsibility. A default. Means if she does it, it’s because it’s her duty, and not a favor she’s doing to the kid, and if she doesn’t, of course she’s a bad mother. It’s same way that works IRL. 😃

Sab ajeeb/non ajeeb lozics side par rakh ke presenting a simple Funda:

Did Anupamaa teach CA the fundamental principle of life - Bade Bhagwaan hai aur hamesha sahi hote hai. Vo galat ho tabhi unhe kuch nahi kehna chahiye

If yes - Then she ijj a gud mother

If no - Then she ijj nutt a gud mother

😉😉

Maaya and Anuj dont know this and shah family won't confess but Maa goes to shah house saying she goes for her kids but she actually spends time cooking/cleaning or with baa and Vanraj. Most of the time she is busy slaving to Baa or having tashan with Mr. SHAH.