Extreme expectations from Abhinav- Page 3

Originally posted by: Krinya

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Exactly my sentiments..it hurts to read such opinions..only bec they wanna see the ",burning " chemistry , which btw , kuch dikhaya hi nai uptil now, not even their sr or subsequent romance , abs nothing is great about the couple ...(not rooting for abhinav and akshu either if akshu can't stay away from her true lub)

I also would never blame manju mata for the "influence " , whatever abhimanyu did , he is accountable for it . He is a grown ass adult , a doctor ..mummy ke palloo mei rehna hai toh shadi nai karni thi. He is out to ruin aroo and roo ki life also ...

I too don't care for abhinav akshara pair except for how it impacts abhinav abhir bond. Like you I can't find anything likeable in Abhimanyu now - and would dislike him even more if he breaks another child's (ruhi's heart). The idea to marry arohi to become her dad is stupid but he was the one to propose that solution.

Originally posted by: neenzz

Amen sister.

More power to you. I hope you are in a better place now.

Thanks! Yes I am - thankfully

Also, I don't like how they ruined Manjari's character either, but to point blank blame her for her husband's abuse towards her and give HB a clean chit just because she couldn't keep herself from interfering in her son's life even after he was married just shows how unforgiving the society is towards women and how men can get away with whatever.

At least HB realized and was shown repenting (not nearly enough) after his divorce, but Abhimanyu is just delusional and has not even an ounce of regret.

Neither HB nor AB are husband material. However, I somehow have a feeling that a marriage between someone like Abhimanyu and and someone like Arohi could potentially work in real life. Not based on love, respect, trust, or understanding, but because both are toxic and I don't see either one of them being dominated by another.

Originally posted by: Krinya

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Exactly my sentiments..it hurts to read such opinions..only bec they wanna see the ",burning " chemistry , which btw , kuch dikhaya hi nai uptil now, not even their sr or subsequent romance , abs nothing is great about the couple ...(not rooting for abhinav and akshu either if akshu can't stay away from her true lub)

I also would never blame manju mata for the "influence " , whatever abhimanyu did , he is accountable for it . He is a grown ass adult , a doctor ..mummy ke palloo mei rehna hai toh shadi nai karni thi. He is out to ruin aroo and roo ki life also ...

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Exactly! What kind of moronic soul connection do people keep talking about when the person involved here literally destroyed her soul in her most vulnerable state?! It would be absolutely shameful of she went back to a person like him. Then again, this is itv and only spineless doormats are the ones that are hailed as heroes.

Seriously wth with the soul connection..if there is , why are they not together ? What kind of soul connection makes him hurt her so bad , not reflect upon his actions and be mummy ka munna after marriage ? Here is one guy who fails to deal with his issues so badly , it's not even destiny , what happened with him😆

They must ban the phrases such as star crossed lovers and soul connection for itv ...Abhira r the worst couple in the same league as virat sai and anupama vanraj.

Girl, trust me, this entire Birla clan is a family perfect for studying toxic traits, unhealthy boundaries, and to some extent personality disorders (perhaps a bit of a stretch there). No one besides Neil ever seemed sane in this family, and that only nice person was stuck with Arohi (perhaps the most toxic of Goenkas). There were so many times (before and after Abhira's wedding) that I felt Neil was more deserving of Akshara and vice versa. I could see the red flags with Abhimanyu from the very beginning (probably because of my hypersensitivity towards such behavior after being stuck in an abusive relationship for four years). For instance, how could anyone not mind how he acted the day of the first tilak? So entitled and abusive towards Akshara just because she couldn't articulate her feelings. What gave him the right? Anyway, the point is, people like Abhimanyu hardly ever change, and we are all responsible for our own actions. No matter how much others try to manipulate or instigate us, it's ultimately us whose decision it is whether or not to do their bidding. No one can force my hand if I don't let them.

Originally posted by: India_TV

@BOLD: Exactly......how can u mix a person and the character that he/she plays...

I may sound feminist....but thiking as akshu, how can i think about going back to abhi any time....itni berahmi se ghar se nikala and at such a delicate time...and on top of it it has been 6 years and use koi realisation hi nahi ki what has he done??? and he clains to love her....

Bhai agar kisi jaan pahchaan wale se itni bada jhagda types ho jaaye, then also u r bpund to reflect...and here abhi ko 6 years mein koi regret hi nahi...and conveneintly he iis in a self pity mode....invading akshu's fam,ily too....he does not seem to have told anyone what conspired in HIS room....and in kasauli, he says a sorry for a tini miny of the manu things that he ahs told...

as of now, How can I as akshu, i trust him? usse shaadi/saath to bahut door ki baat hai.....

Just because he is a decent looking , tall , muscular guy he has been glorified as a hero. But if he was an average looking, normal guy like Abhinav he would have been branded as a psychopath. That guy is Kabir Singh personified and I absolutely loathe the likes of him.

Frankly speaking, i don't see this scorching chemistry that everyone keeps talking about. Maybe its because the age gap between the leads is a bit icky for me, personally.

Its like you've taken words out of my mouth. I feel the same way you do. Not just itv but even elsewhere, people are generally too forgiving towards men and would almost crucify women for the tiniest of mistakes. One episode of moping around in self pity would get you the forgiveness from most of the audiences if you are a male character. But of the female character does the same, she would get zero sympathy and be labelled as a cry baby.

ML goes waaaa waaaaa

Itv audience- "oh! The poor guy! My heart aches for him".

FL goes waaaa waaaa

Itv audience-" b*tch deserves every bit of it!".

Soul connection is with Aarohi and not Akshara.

Abhira experienced gravitational force only.

I can say Abhinav and Akshara are very much compatible.

It's bec of 2 reasons.

One is that love is too overrated as an emotion.. when women "love" someone , it's forever kinds..they never switch their feelings no matter what . N it's kinda true in real life..once someone is emotionally attached , it's very hard to break the cycle ..women r more loyal than men..they r always one man's woman .

Second is that in itv shows, the equation is never balanced..women r hardly shown objective, they always think emotionally...they r in a certain way...there is a basic flaw with the characterisation....seriously I feel all of them r nutcase...

Sometimes I felt I have something against the women , while watching itv for years..but then when I see English shows and Korean shows, I love all the women there....There isn't a single one who I dislike..

itv dekho...case in point anupama ...that woman can't stop indulging in her ex in laws affairs bec she is a "ma" , she was a beti to her ex in laws blah blah. Bc they can't show a woman being indifferent to her children ..same with akshu..she won't ever be indifferent to abhimanyu .

also, most of the audience is women so they automatically sympathize with the opposite gender ..its not the character but it's the actor who's playing the character who gets a free pass everytime...the actor who's playing these roles and chemistry chemistry chemistry is the mai culprit .