Extreme expectations from Abhinav - Page 2

Frankly I can't stand abhimanyu scenes , I watch only sadiyal goenkas with abhinav..something wrong with me really 😑

I agree , let abhinav die or leave , he is not fit for these toxic people. Abhir we know will end up like kairav ..neither here nor there ...akshu will say thank you Tata bye bye and run to her toxic husband at the first opportunity ...

Why can't I stand abhinanyu ? He is making promises which he can't keep . He takes decisions solely for somebody's happiness, his mate and roo...shadi hogi ya nai solely depends on whether aroo will make some mistake or keep some secret which might enrage bachu...the innocent children will suffer ..roo Nd abhir.

..he has zero guilt , zero sympathy for akshu ...bas apna dukh apni responsibility apna sab kuch which never includes akshu......his only redemption is if he let go of abhir and akshu when he knows the truth. He feels shameful and unworthy of them ..akshu doesn't need his money and wife tag and abhir is better off without a father like him..

C'mon, she was pregnant when Manjari pushed her after Neil's death. Even if they weren't aware, Manjari had no right whatsoever to push her. She didn't even care how fragile Akshara's state may have been given her recent miscarriage. Akshara and Abhinav don't need to be this mahan k insan he na lugay.

Also, what is this oksanay per? Is Abhimanyu a 5 year old kid? Doesn't this doctor have his own brain he can use? Is it so easy to manipulate him? Well, then he does not deserve to be married. Such mama's boys should never marry and ruin another girl's life.

I fail to understand how girls still love this character and side with him. That entire family is so toxic. It's okay to love/swoon over the actor but hate the character. People need to understand this and learn to separate the two. Calling out a character for their mistakes does not mean hating on the actor.

PS this 5-6 year old kid is smarter than this sorry excuse for a doctor.

Originally posted by: India_TV

i was too....but later i realised that she might bot be knwoing how manjari hates her...it was abhi who said all the nasty things to her....manjari ke uksaane per...per she might b unaware of level of hatred manjari has for her....so once manjari blocked her nuber, she must have realsied....

Usually a silent reader but wanted to add my 2 cents.

Are we seriously saying that Abhimanyu said all the horrible things because of his mom's influence on him. Then we might as well forgive all terrorists and criminals ( brain washed / come from unfortunate background). We can definitely have empathy for Abhimanyu but at the same time no one but him is responsible for his words and action of deserting his wife at her lowest point.

Another thing that hurts me is the dismissive attitude towards adoptive parent's rights. I have one biological kid and recently adopted another one after going through a painful stillbirth. That was the worst time of my life - despite the support of my husband and kid, parents, siblings, friends and colleagues. I find Abhimanyu completely unforgivable. And the feeling that Abhinav would eventually lose Abhir scares me - I can't imagine my life without my 2nd kid and to hear words like 'blood is thicker than water' thrown casually in this forum is equally painful. Anyways planning to completely give up this show now.

Originally posted by: fantasyshowfan

Usually a silent reader but wanted to add my 2 cents.

Are we seriously saying that Abhimanyu said all the horrible things because of his mom's influence on him. Then we might as well forgive all terrorists and criminals ( brain washed / come from unfortunate background). We can definitely have empathy for Abhimanyu but at the same time no one but him is responsible for his words and action of deserting his wife at her lowest point.

Another thing that hurts me is the dismissive attitude towards adoptive parent's rights. I have one biological kid and recently adopted another one after going through a painful stillbirth. That was the worst time of my life - despite the support of my husband and kid, parents, siblings, friends and colleagues. I find Abhimanyu completely unforgivable. And the feeling that Abhinav would eventually lose Abhir scares me - I can't imagine my life without my 2nd kid and to hear words like 'blood is thicker than water' thrown casually in this forum is equally painful. Anyways planning to completely give up this show now.

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Exactly my sentiments..it hurts to read such opinions..only bec they wanna see the ",burning " chemistry , which btw , kuch dikhaya hi nai uptil now, not even their sr or subsequent romance , abs nothing is great about the couple ...(not rooting for abhinav and akshu either if akshu can't stay away from her true lub)

I also would never blame manju mata for the "influence " , whatever abhimanyu did , he is accountable for it . He is a grown ass adult , a doctor ..mummy ke palloo mei rehna hai toh shadi nai karni thi. He is out to ruin aroo and roo ki life also ...

This! All of this! It literally boils my blood when Abhinav is compared to a nanny and called a naukar. Like seriously people?!! You don't become a parent by just lending your genetic material. Abhinav is Abhir's father in every way. Please don't pay heed to these insensitive, senseless, simp talks. Your child is only yours and will always be yours, biology can go scr*w itself in some corner.

Exactly! What kind of moronic soul connection do people keep talking about when the person involved here literally destroyed her soul in her most vulnerable state?! It would be absolutely shameful of she went back to a person like him. Then again, this is itv and only spineless doormats are the ones that are hailed as heroes.

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

This! All of this! It literally boils my blood when Abhinav is compared to a nanny and called a naukar. Like seriously people?!! You don't become a parent by just lending your genetic material. Abhinav is Abhir's father in every way. Please don't pay heed to these insensitive, senseless, simp talks. Your child is only yours and will always be yours, biology can go scr*w itself in some corner.

I also shocked to see such comments. It's Akshara who gave Abhir's father right to him.but all the hate is for Abhinav. Even mocking him for being good person.

Originally posted by: neenzz

C'mon, she was pregnant when Manjari pushed her after Neil's death. Even if they weren't aware, Manjari had no right whatsoever to push her. She didn't even care how fragile Akshara's state may have been given her recent miscarriage. Akshara and Abhinav don't need to be this mahan k insan he na lugay.

Also, what is this oksanay per? Is Abhimanyu a 5 year old kid? Doesn't this doctor have his own brain he can use? Is it so easy to manipulate him? Well, then he does not deserve to be married. Such mama's boys should never marry and ruin another girl's life.

I fail to understand how girls still love this character and side with him. That entire family is so toxic. It's okay to love/swoon over the actor but hate the character. People need to understand this and learn to separate the two. Calling out a character for their mistakes does not mean hating on the actor.

PS this 5-6 year old kid is smarter than this sorry excuse for a doctor.

@BOLD: Exactly......how can u mix a person and the character that he/she plays...

I may sound feminist....but thiking as akshu, how can i think about going back to abhi any time....itni berahmi se ghar se nikala and at such a delicate time...and on top of it it has been 6 years and use koi realisation hi nahi ki what has he done??? and he clains to love her....

Bhai agar kisi jaan pahchaan wale se itni bada jhagda types ho jaaye, then also u r bpund to reflect...and here abhi ko 6 years mein koi regret hi nahi...and conveneintly he iis in a self pity mode....invading akshu's fam,ily too....he does not seem to have told anyone what conspired in HIS room....and in kasauli, he says a sorry for a tini miny of the manu things that he ahs told...

as of now, How can I as akshu, i trust him? usse shaadi/saath to bahut door ki baat hai.....

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

This! All of this! It literally boils my blood when Abhinav is compared to a nanny and called a naukar. Like seriously people?!! You don't become a parent by just lending your genetic material. Abhinav is Abhir's father in every way. Please don't pay heed to these insensitive, senseless, simp talks. Your child is only yours and will always be yours, biology can go scr*w itself in some corner.

Thanks! Completely agree that Abhinav is Abhir's father in every way. He has given 6 years to raising and nurturing that child with love.

But this is itv - and only chemistry defines a relationship ( though I feel that it s true only for online audience).

Amen sister.

More power to you. I hope you are in a better place now.

Originally posted by: fantasyshowfan

Usually a silent reader but wanted to add my 2 cents.

Are we seriously saying that Abhimanyu said all the horrible things because of his mom's influence on him. Then we might as well forgive all terrorists and criminals ( brain washed / come from unfortunate background). We can definitely have empathy for Abhimanyu but at the same time no one but him is responsible for his words and action of deserting his wife at her lowest point.

Another thing that hurts me is the dismissive attitude towards adoptive parent's rights. I have one biological kid and recently adopted another one after going through a painful stillbirth. That was the worst time of my life - despite the support of my husband and kid, parents, siblings, friends and colleagues. I find Abhimanyu completely unforgivable. And the feeling that Abhinav would eventually lose Abhir scares me - I can't imagine my life without my 2nd kid and to hear words like 'blood is thicker than water' thrown casually in this forum is equally painful. Anyways planning to completely give up this show now.