Anupama, please change

Change is good.

Change is natural.

Stuck water spreads diseases.

Anupamaa is stuck forever now. No character growth. I'm hoping for her to change her ways and realise what will make her truly happy instead of boosting her ego.

Although I know that it's a waste of time to hope for an ITV heroine to change for the better as they are considered perfect even when they are far from one but phir bhi. Bore ho Rahi thi to socha thoda hopeless hope hi kar lu😆

Should she change her worn out suti saree? Or it's pallu which has wiped the snot of many a nose?

Millions of AnupaManiacs love and worship her for her kind and caring nature, her ability to balance all responsibilites effectively, her crusade for justice and equality and are devoted to her exactly the way she is. Her "journey" in itself is awe inspiring.

So, Sooori but what is there to change in someone who is already perfect and attained divinity that we mortals can only dream of?

When anuraj wedding didn’t workout everyone blamed vanraj for his affair with Kavya but nobody see any faults in Anupama. Maybe same happened that time that is happening now. There they had arranged marriage and maybe vanraj have some expectations from Anupama but she prioritised home and kichten work. After sometime vanraj lost all hopes and find someone outside. Hare Maan had love marriage and anuj hoped that Anupama will prioritise him but every single time she run away to shah house even if anuj was sick or CA needed her so now anuj is losing hopes from her. No one blamed her when her 1st marriage end so she thinks that there are not a single fault in her. She ijust like earlier is not able to recognise her priorities at the time. So when she should take care of her paralysed husband she was enjoying and dancing in shah house.when she should be taking part in a dance competition with CN she was making khichdi for baa (Pakhi could made it Barkha told it but Anupama stayed back for making it). And now when should be taking care of her son who is bedridden she wants to go for picnic. Here Anuj is not going to fell for maaya and they will make maaya evil but that’s also can’t erase Anupama’s fault which is to understand her priorities at the time. Only because of this fault of her anuraj marriage broke and it is affecting Maan’s marriage too.

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Should she change her worn out suti saree? Or it's pallu which has wiped the snot of many a nose?

Millions of AnupaManiacs love and worship her for her kind and caring nature, her ability to balance all responsibilites effectively, her crusade for justice and equality and are devoted to her exactly the way she is. Her "journey" in itself is awe inspiring.

So, Sooori but what is there to change in someone who is already perfect and attained divinity that we mortals can only dream of?

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

When anuraj wedding didn’t workout everyone blamed vanraj for his affair with Kavya but nobody see any faults in Anupama. Maybe same happened that time that is happening now. There they had arranged marriage and maybe vanraj have some expectations from Anupama but she prioritised home and kichten work. After sometime vanraj lost all hopes and find someone outside. Hare Maan had love marriage and anuj hoped that Anupama will prioritise him but every single time she run away to shah house even if anuj was sick or CA needed her so now anuj is losing hopes from her. No one blamed her when her 1st marriage end so she thinks that there are not a single fault in her. She ijust like earlier is not able to recognise her priorities at the time. So when she should take care of her paralysed husband she was enjoying and dancing in shah house.when she should be taking part in a dance competition with CN she was making khichdi for baa (Pakhi could made it Barkha told it but Anupama stayed back for making it). And now when should be taking care of her son who is bedridden she wants to go for picnic. Here Anuj is not going to fell for maaya and they will make maaya evil but that’s also can’t erase Anupama’s fault which is to understand her priorities at the time. Only because of this fault of her anuraj marriage broke and it is affecting Maan’s marriage too.

Maybe Anupamaa made a few mistakes but I know Vanraj is called trash for a reason😆 I have seen enough of him by now.

As far as this marriage is concerned, I blame Anupamaa the most but Anuj has a share in this one too. He too has made some mistakes and can't be acquitted so easily🫣😆

I am not saying that vanraj was not wrong. Yes, vanraj is trash because of his affair and how he treated Anupama and more trash for playing with Mukku’s feelings for property but It didn’t make Anupama 100% right.she too had faults of her but because of vanya cheating no one points out them. Here we are blaming anuj too but there no one blamed Anupama for anything. Here I am not understanding what anuj supposed to do.when earlier he didn’t say anything to Anupama and support her she took him for granted but when anuj ask her to choose he is like vanraj. HOW he is like vanraj.

I get it. But I am not the right person to point out her mistakes in the previous marriage as I was not a viewer of this show back then. Maybe somebody else can.

Even I don't understand how Anuj is like Vanraj. They are poles apart.

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

Change is good.

Change is natural.

Stuck water spreads diseases.

Anupamaa is stuck forever now. No character growth. I'm hoping for her to change her ways and realise what will make her truly happy instead of boosting her ego.

Although I know that it's a waste of time to hope for an ITV heroine to change for the better as they are considered perfect even when they are far from one but phir bhi. Bore ho Rahi thi to socha thoda hopeless hope hi kar lu😆

Anupama be like - main sab sab sab manage kar lungi . Sab kuch ...bahot bahot bahot ache se. Mere saare matke belence kar ke chalungi. Aap Jara bhi tension mat lijiye. Main hun ne. Mere naam me bhi maa hai ne. Aap dekhne. Main sab sab sab kar lungi. Sab kuch sab kuch sab kuch !!

Omg ! I can't even type her long bhashaan 🤣🤣 I'll leave that to BV and her team

Originally posted by: STPrincess

Anupama be like - main sab sab sab manage kar lungi . Sab kuch ...bahot bahot bahot ache se. Mere saare matke belence kar ke chalungi. Aap Jara bhi tension mat lijiye. Main hun ne. Mere naam me bhi maa hai ne. Aap dekhne. Main sab sab sab kar lungi. Sab kuch sab kuch sab kuch !!

Omg ! I can't even type her long bhashaan 🤣🤣 I'll leave that to BV and her team

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

Change is good.

Change is natural.

Stuck water spreads diseases.

Anupamaa is stuck forever now. No character growth. I'm hoping for her to change her ways and realise what will make her truly happy instead of boosting her ego.

Although I know that it's a waste of time to hope for an ITV heroine to change for the better as they are considered perfect even when they are far from one but phir bhi. Bore ho Rahi thi to socha thoda hopeless hope hi kar lu😆

She is just perfect the way she is. Leave her alone in her elements.😂

In fact I apologize to all her devotees and her for wanting a better Anupama, not for me but for herself.😢 Who was I to decide what that better self was? Who was I to decide if change is what she needed. I judged her harshly for wanting to be herself, a doormat princess, free maid to her family, maa to her batimaaz kids, buddua receiving bahu for ex-mother in-law.

I was harsh and I was wrong. I am soori, Anupama, what I thought you needed a break from was your element of strength, your happiness. I will never ask you to be someone you, can’t be.🙏 please forgive me and soori.😌