Akshara is messing with so many lives. - Page 4

Originally posted by: SAOkr

yes this bold remark is exactly what i think.

its just my prespective but....

i have seen here people saying abhimanyu considered akshara a baby making machine..he never listened to her part.. he rejected the baby...

but the thing is has akshara even listened to abhimanyu...and what has abhimanyu even asked to take care of herself and their babies...i dont think thats such a selfish request from a husband atleast i as a woman dont find it very selfish .

During picnic, during ngo incident all these time i find it very difficult that akshara despite knowing the risks she risked her as well as their babies life countless time...

and thats where i am unable to connect to akshara ...even though i have not been married but for a women as a parent i have seen countless women to try evrything to keep their babies safe ...no matter how noble the cause is i simply cant comprehend or come to terms with a state of mind of a mother who would risk the lives of her child or forget about them in order to save another...

and akshara has done it once ,twice but still doing it..

aksharas decision to not go back to goenkas was solely a very selfish one...and as always she never really considered the safety of her child who has been blessed without a second chance...

i mean look at that ep where abhinav has brought her to hospital more than emotional i find it traumatic i mean how dangerous it was for abhir and akshara both if something were to happen to abhir that day a second time will she be able to forgive herself ever... for not protecting her child second time...

she should have informed goenkas about her child...she could have told them she dont want to inform birlas about it and wanted to stay away ..they would have supported it after all she was divorced...

but akshara failed as a mother all these times ....

and as far as abhi is concerned no body could justify his behaviour that day but what he q that day as a father , as a brother was genuine...

and words like abhimanyu threw her out , abhimanyu never cared for her , i find it very sarcastic...

abhimanyu always hated akshara being yelled at by his family members so he always told her to stay away from their circus but has she listened to him once....

abhimanyu told her to take care of her and the babies..has she listened to him not once but even during the picnic incident he has observed this reckless behaviour of akshara...

if time and again abhimanyus plea to akshara to take care of herself and their babies was unheard everyone has a limit .. if you cant care for yourself what can anyone else do abhimanyu on that day has just given up trying to protect akshara...it was his breaking point too...

and for all the messed up relations and toxic families DKP is showing for the first time i am happy they are not glorifying aksharas , neils decision to fight the traffickers as some heroic one because it was an utter foolish one...i have seen people here people comparing this act to soldiers..

but there is a stark difference..soldiers are trained and even they dont just give away their lives by putting two or three soldiers in front of a whole battalion ...because every life is important even theirs too ..thats why they plan it before rescuing...

thats why what akshara and neil had done was foolishness and it was sheer luck akshara and one of twin survived...and you can call neils death a heroic one ...but what do you call the death of a twin , "collateral damage" its wrong on so many levels...

no civilian should risk their life like this atleast not without proper plan or assistance...and pregnant ladies should never attempt such a feat..although i doubt any mother would risk their babies life like akshara did ..

No Abhi did not treat Akshara as a baby making machine. But then all the people who are accusing him of this are the same people calling him a sperm donor. Hypocrisy.

I don't think Akshara was wrong to save the girls, it is a noble and good thing to do. And Abhi is wrong in this matter no matter how reckless Akshara had been because when someone has miscarried and lost a family member then you should give them some time to cope. There was no need to be harsh on her at that point in time. Agreed, he had a reason to be mad at her for risking his babies life despite him warning her several times but his actions are not justifiable.

The only stupid thing Akshara has done is venture out alone when she knows her pregnancy is a risky one. And then play this daddy game with Abhir. I cannot justify this action of Akshara either.

Not a fan of abhi, but i feel akshara more responsible for the mess between them.

After the separation of an year abhi needed a lot of strength to trust akshara again. She made a deal. She left without any explaiation. Whole geonka family was blaming him because his wife left bcoz of him and he had no idea why?

As we all know akshara is mahaan,we also know that abhi is short tempered even akshara knows it and she knows it really well.

All are blaming that abhi was rash on akshara and he was. But ca we think of a person's mind set who lost his brother, 2 children and is about to lose his mother?

He even metioned akshara to leave to geonka house for sometime after neils death asking for space. Did she do that?

Blaming abhi is easy,but according to me akshara is more responsible for their separation.

Originally posted by: Himani128

Not a fan of abhi, but i feel akshara more responsible for the mess between them.

After the separation of an year abhi needed a lot of strength to trust akshara again. She made a deal. She left without any explaiation. Whole geonka family was blaming him because his wife left bcoz of him and he had no idea why?

As we all know akshara is mahaan,we also know that abhi is short tempered even akshara knows it and she knows it really well.

All are blaming that abhi was rash on akshara and he was. But ca we think of a person's mind set who lost his brother, 2 children and is about to lose his mother?

He even metioned akshara to leave to geonka house for sometime after neils death asking for space. Did she do that?

Blaming abhi is easy,but according to me akshara is more responsible for their separation.

Toh you should divorce your wife and throw her out at such low phase. Where was he when she called him? Did he got once tried to call her after seeing all the calls. And yes ab and his anger was the reason for all this.

I agree with you on abhi's anger issue but not entirely. Initially he was calm asked Akshara to leave to geonka house for few days what about that?

Why dont akshara listen when someone says to go with the flow for some time. Her mahanta is reaponsible for her situation.

Even in sirats death scenario, it was aksharas mahanta that caused sirats death. Whenever she becomes mahaan it costs her something.

What about her walking out to some unknown place?

People justify that she was in sadma after loosing babies and divorce etc.

Abhi didnt receive her phone calls.yes. why didnt she tell geonkas about baby being alive. Abhi was not ready to listen to her. But he never showed hatred to any other goenkas what about that?

And why did akshara leave goenkas?

They are thinking ak is somewhat responsible for neils death. Not directly but Indirectly wasnt she?

And now if she will be blamed to hiding kid i wont mind. Her hiding kid's truth from birlas is ok. But with geonkas a big NO.

I am with kairav in this.her blaming akshara for not trusting their family and being flight risk is what he is afraid of

Originally posted by: Himani128

I agree with you on abhi's anger issue but not entirely. Initially he was calm asked Akshara to leave to geonka house for few days what about that?

Why dont akshara listen when someone says to go with the flow for some time. Her mahanta is reaponsible for her situation.

Even in sirats death scenario, it was aksharas mahanta that caused sirats death. Whenever she becomes mahaan it costs her something.

What about her walking out to some unknown place?

People justify that she was in sadma after loosing babies and divorce etc.

Abhi didnt receive her phone calls.yes. why didnt she tell geonkas about baby being alive. Abhi was not ready to listen to her. But he never showed hatred to any other goenkas what about that?

And why did akshara leave goenkas?

They are thinking ak is somewhat responsible for neils death. Not directly but Indirectly wasnt she?

And now if she will be blamed to hiding kid i wont mind. Her hiding kid's truth from birlas is ok. But with geonkas a big NO.

I am with kairav in this.her blaming akshara for not trusting their family and being flight risk is what he is afraid of

Kairav will support her and yes she didn't inform g fam was because them being in contact with b fam and she is afraid of the fact that b fam will snatch her kid and reject her once again.

Originally posted by: Himani128

I agree with you on abhi's anger issue but not entirely. Initially he was calm asked Akshara to leave to geonka house for few days what about that?

Why dont akshara listen when someone says to go with the flow for some time. Her mahanta is reaponsible for her situation.

Even in sirats death scenario, it was aksharas mahanta that caused sirats death. Whenever she becomes mahaan it costs her something.

What about her walking out to some unknown place?

People justify that she was in sadma after loosing babies and divorce etc.

Abhi didnt receive her phone calls.yes. why didnt she tell geonkas about baby being alive. Abhi was not ready to listen to her. But he never showed hatred to any other goenkas what about that?

And why did akshara leave goenkas?

They are thinking ak is somewhat responsible for neils death. Not directly but Indirectly wasnt she?

And now if she will be blamed to hiding kid i wont mind. Her hiding kid's truth from birlas is ok. But with geonkas a big NO.

I am with kairav in this.her blaming akshara for not trusting their family and being flight risk is what he is afraid of

Can we stop with this narrative please. Akshara was not responsible for Sirat's death. Period. It was just an unfortunate accident. If we are going around blaming 'kids' now for death, then it was Aarohi who was responsible, not Akshara. Both the girls were asked to stay at home. It was AAROHI who decided to go out following Sirat. But both girls are not to be blamed. They reacted on instinct and nothing else.

And Kairav or any of the other Goenkas have no voice to demand anything from Akshu, not after they let her get bullied for years. And this is the same guy who asked Akshu to leave from her own home when he should have supported her instead. So how is it Akshu's fault for not going to Goenkas. She cannot be blamed for not trusting Goenkas, who have time and again prioritized Aarohi over her.

People are still blaming Akshu for Sirat and Niel's death. Both of them were adults who took their own decisions. Akshu didn't force anyone to do anything. Neil made a decision to save those girls himself. He said that as a would-be father, it would be wrong for him to not do anything for the girls. It was his humanity. Akshu is not to be blamed for it. Are we really saying that Akshu and Neil should have let the girls get trafficked and simply gone home. Because police were not going to reach on time and they did whatever little they could do as responsible citizens. Neil's death was a tragedy. Blaming Akshu for it is totally wrong.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

When did I ever say that Akshara should go back to Abhi?

All I said was that lying to a child about their father (that Nav is his dad) is not right. It would have been okay had they been a real couple but they are not and I don't know why people are ignoring this. They are more like good friends who are faking a marriage for reasons only people in 1897 will understand.

Also, no one should compromise in a marriage. If you cannot love each other than do not get married. All four Abhi and Akshara and Nav and Arohi are morons who are treating marriage like a joke.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

people get married for different reasons that’s a fact..and in India and some other parts of the world arranged marriages still happen..so not everyone has love marriages..although I also believe love in a marriage is very important..but in yrkkh now it’s marriages for conveniences that they are showing.. I don’t expect this illogical show to depict anything close to reality so I just watch it with an open mind and don’t get too hyped about it..anyway abhira and kaira with their multiple marriages, divorces and remarriages was just too illogical and stupid..so I think too much about this silly show anymore.’🤷🏻‍♀️

A lot of people do a lot of unreasonable things for various reasons but that does not mean it is okay or should be accepted.

Otherwise I know it's a silly show where a character goes from thinking about aborting his baby for the well being of his wife to then disregarding the well being of the wife due to the baby. Illogical.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

But the marriage isn't real. At least legally, it is void.

She didn't have to live in Goenca house and noone would have forced her to go back to the Birlas. As I said, she could have lived far away with the help of her family and she also has her mamas house as well as her nani's maternal house (which the Birlas dont even know about). I do not understand this logic of Akshara running away like that other than the fact that the writers wanted to show her as a bechari. Yes, she was in trauma and I was one of them people who was rooting for Akshara but I cannot justify everything she does. There was no reason why a girl like Akshara needed to put her and her child's life at risk. Going back to Goencas does not mean going back to Abhi or his mum.

Howz the marriage void if it's on papers ?

I'd rather judge the character based on what "actually happened " rather than what "could have or should have" happened.... Akshu didnt lose another baby. She was provided shelter by a good man who saved their life ..she tried to tell abhimanyu but when she heard she should never come bk , she made her decision ..she was coming bk to goenkas but when she heard manish blaming her for Neil's death , she took off...when abhinav saved abhirs life she allowed him in his life as father to abhir.

Yes abhimanyus mistakes can't justify akshu but I feel she wasn't wrong, given the circumstances she was in..that's where I started..there is nothing like right or wrong it's a matter of perspective... abhir is a child so he doesn't need to know the truth at this age. Plus akshu didnt know abhinanyu will appear one day..she actually thot of settling down with abhinav...manjari also hid Neil's paternity for ages, again this isn't to justify akshu but if abhimanyu has objection he must be reminded of his hypocrisy ..one woman can't be wrong and another right for the same deed..... As for the events before the divorce, I never said akshu wasn't responsible...she acted dumb ..abhimanyu acted inhuman. , if I was in this situation I would run away or wait for the police but then , I'll not say what they did was a sin..they "tried" to save a few lives by giving up theirs.