Originally posted by: Bechain_Bulbul
I understand the hatred about baa vanraj and its totally justified.
But, we can only blame others for our problems upto a certain limit. After that, its us who are at fault, our decisions which makes us suffer.
Yes baa and vanraj has always been the selfish person. So much has happened in their lives but they hadn't change. This simply proves the fact that these people are like leeches, sucking others, particularly anupama's blood, for their survival.
But even after spending so many years of her life with them, anupama still can't understand their true nature and keep blaming them or circumstances for her problems then she is a fool.
She needs to straighten her back bone, make up her mind and have strong resolution which is not susceptible to manipulation by shahs. But she fails everytime to see through their manipulation.
All the instances when anupama was called to shah house urgently was all fake. I can't believe that house full of people cant manage their own things amd need anupama everytime. Even in this situation, kavya, vanraj, baa, bapuji, samar and "anupama part 2 kinjal" who is bedridden toshu's wife, btw, who chose to be his nurse life long , even if she can't take care of toshu then who will? Why they need anupama for all this? And they need her for every small thing then who is anupama if not their free maid?
Despite repeated such scenarios why can't anupama see through it?
Sabki life mein hazaro problems hain and hazaro log hain which demands their attention lekin kisko kab kitna time aur importance deni hai, this is what makes all the difference. Har insan ko isse guzarna padta hai sirf anupama ko nahi. Isliye people will relate to her one time...two time...may be three time....but if she doesn't set her priorities right then people will not sympathize with her. Its totally her fault. There can be no justification about that.
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