Dhara’s way of getting things done her way, its been a pattern since the beginning.
She sacrifices by not having kids - expects Devars to be her bhakt, indebted to her for life and should not hesitate to lose their lives if she wants them to. Though she has adopted Chiku in a more bizaare, twisted way an adoption can happen by being obsessed with him, she still expects a lot from the devars and devranis which will continue till the end of life.
Now coming to the precap, she is using the same tactics with Suman.
“I will make sure Rishita and Raavi stay permanently stay in Kandya niwas and be our slaves inturn you should accept Chiku as your grandson”
I agree Chiku needs to be accepted but in a more natural way when everyone heals from the past trauma and things get better but not like how Bhabima wants, asking everyone to accept him at gunpoint.
So Bhabima has always been like this, I will do things for this family but the family members will have to do 10 things for me that too according to how I want it.😡
Infact she should have demanded chiku to be treated as a grandson regardless if any condition..she is not doing a favour by bringing family together.. she wants the minions under her hood as much as suman to control their lives..whereas chiku as a kid deserves to be treated with care and love like any child..which suman doesnt guve and dhara doesnt bother to ask for..