Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 06 Feb 2023 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Harish111

No one is saying that she must ignore her own kids. What people are saying is

YOU CANNOT ABANDON A 7 YEAR YOU HAVE ADOPTED (like she did in the car etc)

NEGLECTING SUCH A SMALL CHILD IS A CRIMINAL OFFENCE AND IF SOMEONE COMPLAINS YOU CAN BE JAILED

The thing is her other kids are fully grown adults. Plus they have other family members to see to them aswell.

While CA is a child. 7 year old vulnerable child. She should be given first priority. At that age most children want their mothers no matter how close and loved they are by their father.

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

She did right by her child. Those babies start getting abused as young as a few weeks old. I remember seeing a preview of a documentary a western music band did of a brothel house in Thailand 10 yrs ago (while on music tour) where they were told of young boys and girls being abused. It was sick what they would tell young toddlers to do. They would say you want to go have (yum, yum) code word for Oral sex. It made me sick to my stomach. 🤢

I never watched the documentary but I will never forget what I saw in preview. I hugged my kids tighter every day after seeing this video and prayed to God to keep everyone’s child safe.

Its starts at very young age. Especially the girl child.

They are exploited drugged so they dont cry and have tantrums.

Its real and noone can deny what happens to young babies and children in that world 😭

Its just too senstive to talk about but its reality and noone can really do anything.

Child and human trafficking will continue until the rich and criminals dont stop this.

Originally posted by: Anjali_98

All i want is for Maaya to take her child home. Her child does not deserve parents like Anuj and Anupamaa.

I am so disgusted by Anuj's behaviour regarding a woman's profession. But i guess they had to give that mahaan woman empowerment script to Deviji 🤔

Even if Maaya didnt have a sad story, they still had no right to judge Maaya and her friend like that 🤢

Maaya should have given Ankush another slap 😡

So glad she spilled his filthy character to everyone.

I absolutely agree with you on this. Neither Anuj/Anupama should be raising Maya’s child. Anuj’s behavior has forever changed my opinion of him. I already questioned Barkha and Ankush behavior before but now they are not the same in my eyes. No one in that room had right to judge Maya!

The point isn’t even about any of this anymore. The point is as Maya put it that she didn’t put her child up to be adopted or abandoned. She was planning on coming back to get her so where did Anuj think he could adopt a child without the bio-parents first? Lastly, unless Maya says he is the bio-father, he has no right legally to tell Maya she can’t have her child back. Even the courts will not decide in his favor because of his attachment to this child.

They will see what is good for the child in the long run. Goal of temporary agency has always been to reunify a child with their bio-parents, if you can because it is in the child’s best interest.
Maya has a job, can provide a great home environment for her child and give her proper up bringing and attention she needs that neither Anuj can gave or his wife want to give.

His right or feeling will not matter to the courts legally. He has no right to the child as is and feeling, well too bad, Maya has more rights as her bio mom and feelings supersede his.

If he had treated her right, she might have agreed to joint custody. At this point, Maya needs to take her daughter and go somewhere far away from this toxic family, never look back.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Why do u think so if anupama will go to meet toshu in hospital she is abandoning chot anu

Don't understand this type of logic

You don’t seem to get what we are saying either. Her children are grown adults who can’t seem to stop getting in trouble of their own making.🤦🏻‍♀️.

Ca, is 7 years old kid who has learned to accept that she will never be on top of her foster mother’s concern or care list unless she has been threaten too by her foster father. That is no way for child to feel neglected or feel.

Anupama’s sixth sense seems to only come alive when her own child that need her but not when it is Maya’s daughter who needs her too.

Anupama will always put her kids first over Ca. It is proven over and over again.

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

I absolutely agree with you on this. Neither Anuj/Anupama should be raising Maya’s child. Anuj’s behavior has forever changed my opinion of him. I already questioned Barkha and Ankush behavior before but now they are not the same in my eyes. No one in that room had right to judge Maya!

The point isn’t even about any of this anymore. The point is as Maya put it that she didn’t put her child up to be adopted or abandoned. She was planning on coming back to get her so where did Anuj think he could adopt a child without the bio-parents first? Lastly, unless Maya says he is the bio-father, he has no right legally to tell Maya she can’t have her child back. Even the courts will not decide in his favor because of his attachment to this child.

They will see what is good for the child in the long run. Goal of temporary agency has always been to reunify a child with their bio-parents, if you can because it is in the child’s best interest.
Maya has a job, can provide a great home environment for her child and give her proper up bringing and attention she needs that neither Anuj can gave or his wife want to give.

His right or feeling will not matter to the courts legally. He has no right to the child as is and feeling, well too bad, Maya has more rights as her bio mom and feelings supersede his.

If he had treated her right, she might have agreed to joint custody. At this point, Maya needs to take her daughter and go somewhere far away from this toxic family, never look back.

Yes even i feel Maaya should get that chance of having her child back as she didnt give her away. She left her at the orphange to give her a safe place to stay until she was able to provide a decent home and education.

Anuj and Anupamaa can adopt another child that has no parents.

And CA was fostered. Have you ever heard of foster parents fight over a child with BIO parents unless they are a danger to that child. And in all this the social workers and whole team get involved.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Why do u think so if anupama will go to meet toshu in hospital she is abandoning chot anu

Don't understand this type of logic

Apparently Maaya shouldnt get her bio kid back or Anupamaa shouldn’t give time to her bio kids. Like this is sadly some of the tweets I see from fanatic MaAn/Anuj fans who think only he matters. They don’t outrightly say it but it sure sounds like that.

Yup mother can never top worrying about her biological children no matter how old they be

If mother go to meet neighbour aunty for 1 hr that does it mean mother is abonanding her child .no ?

Choti anu ko foster Kiya hai that it is expected from anupama she should take care of choti anu as she is fostering her

But anupama has kept her children in womb for 9 month she has blood relation with so how is it possible she will not worry for biological children who she kept them on wonb for 9 month

I think CA should go to mayaa

If anuj had behaved properly with her may be CA could have weekend visit with him on sundays.

But what anuj and ankush judged her and treated her and sushma i doubt maya will want CA to visit anuj or anupama. Because anuj may fill CA mind against maaya on her profession etc

See whether anupama or mayaa or barkha etc a biological child is always superior to adopted unless you do not have own child

A mother who has given birth can feel more bonding o her kids whom she gave birth than whom shes adopted that too here in anupama case because anuj forced her not out of her own will

So let mayaa have CA and anuj can adopt an child who has no family at all

No matter what one says a own child you feel more attachment or own grand child or own neice nephew etc because you have carried them for 9 months seen them in mother womb 9 months seen them the minute they are born.

Imagine people have pets dogs or cats. Than there are stary dogs and cats in city roads. Do they feel same love or care for stray dog or cat. Obviously your own pet you can die for to save its life or you will worry aout it like your own family member. A stray you feel pity but you do not love it like your own pet.

Same is for humans mostly. My own child or neice nephew is geatetst child over and above all other kids in life is it not for parents or grandparents or uncle auntys? Will you feel same love and protection towards a street kid nooo. So anupama is not wrong she does not feel much attachment to CA coompared to her birth kids.

Sorry for giving animal pet exaple. But if people are not married or no kids they may have dog or cat or any other pet. They will understand anupama point of view. So i gave its example to understand. Anuj has no kids so hes going crazy over CA but anupama has 3 kids and grandkids etc why should she act crazy for CA? That is why many people adopt kids within family if they are childless because easier to feel attachment and relatives will not ill treat it like Baa etc

Its not easy to love some stranger kid. Only may be a mother theresa or some kailash sathyarthi may feel love same as own kids towards street kids or orphans. Rest all see those kids on traffic signals or roads and just ignore is it not?

The Anupamaa I know and we all know from start and now is that all her children are equals to her. (All four of them). Even if we put Anu and Pari together - to her it’s the same/equal.

Despite however much her two kids Toshu and Pakhi do and lack. It’s her kids at the end of the day and she their mother who they will want too. But good thing is Anupamaa now knows when her two idiots kids need a slaps and time to time reality check.

Again, the GOAT maa had to make this all about herself. Why the hell she need to say that Maaya’a tragedies are greater than hers? For once please stop comparing everything to yourself Miss Deviji. Secondly why the hell do we need to compare? Everyone suffers in their life. Everyone go through pain, no matter how small or trivial it looks.

So, now the makers are saying that EMA is of less impact then what Maaya suffered? Also in general I have seen that one needs to bleed to make people believe that they are in pain.
Apologies for my long rant.