Originally posted by: princessjojo
Random thought
Murtasim needs to get off his high horse about being Gaddi ka Janasheen. Is it just me? I get tickled hearing this from a supposedly educated guy. Just because your father involuntarily contributed a Y chromosome to your being? Whatâs your role in this?
And Murtasim justifying the no dancing rule by saying itâs not backward but a rivayat. Uhh what does that even mean? Rivayats are often backward, Murtasim. Justifying his moms slap by saying sheâs been through a lot. He said if he wouldâve been there the snap wouldnât have happened. Yeah because you wouldâve done the honors yourself
Iâm honestly team Meerab at this time. Iâm watching his charms for fun but I donât want this guy for me or for Meerab. Not until he champions his wifeâs cause and maybe even ensures she becomes a lawyer. He has to come a long way away from his regressive thinking before he becomes a good father to his future baby girl
arrey, you are placing murtasim to some high standard. There is no such thing in this show, itâs what you see is what you get at level 100 of OTT.
This whole thing reminds me of an incident in high school. There used to be this loafer type classmate of mine who used to tease me while I walked to my tution class, one day I just got so angry, found out where he lived and went and complained to his mother. Idk what she told him, but he stopped for a week and then after a week, he would meet me on the way and start telling me âhow much he loves me and wants to do date meâ. This happened two three times, One day I just stopped walking, turned to him and walked over and said, âif you love me and want to date me, why were you treating me like a roadside chaap?! First learn to respect before you learn to love and dateâ. I then went off to college, moved on in life. Many many years later, I saw him and his wife in a mall with a kid, they seemed happy and loving, I can only hope for his wifeâs sake, he learned to respect women.
I think we can safely say, if this guy was a handsome and rich man, all my girlfriends would have wanted me to date him. Yehi tou hai na,,, we donât want to admit it,,.but reality yehi hai, ki there are many girls who are attracted to this âforceful, dominating and daddyâ types. Just like hamare south Asian mei boys have mummy issues, girls also have daddy issues.
Lekin yeh analysis bahut deep hai, which we are wasting our breath on these shows, we either must admit that we are waving our dupattas for Wahaj or accept that we love giving up to a man who meets certain criteria, no matter how superficial they may be,
After all everything can be justified,
I may say seducing to break her, someone may say seducing to make her fall in love.
What she really wants, feels jaaye bhad mei!