AbhiNav learns the truth: Epi Air Date Jan 31 2023 - Page 26

Originally posted by: iheartChai

The cancer is not Akshu. The relationship that they have is cancerous to his family is what Abhi is thinking hence he cut his own relationship. Meaning he realizes his love is causing harm to his family so he sacrifices his love relationship for his family's well-being.

This is no different when Akshu was doing family jaap and Arohi jaap. She was welling to sacrifice her love for Abhi if it meant keeping peace in the family and Arohi happy.

This reminds me of the scene where Akshu confessed to Abhi after Bade Papa had his heart attack. She never thought her "love" (her and Abhi's relationship) would cause this much harm.

Akshu was doing family jaap when she was unmarried now they are married, it makes a big difference Grace Abhimanyu acted as judge and passed sentence, as he thought fit

I apologize if I have sounded harsh not my intention I love you both ❤️🥰

Originally posted by: iheartChai

The cancer is not Akshu. The relationship that they have is cancerous to his family is what Abhi is thinking hence he cut his own relationship. Meaning he realizes his love is causing harm to his family so he sacrifices his love relationship for his family's well-being.

This is no different when Akshu was doing family jaap and Arohi jaap. She was welling to sacrifice her love for Abhi if it meant keeping peace in the family and Arohi happy.

This reminds me of the scene where Akshu confessed to Abhi after Bade Papa had his heart attack. She never thought her "love" (her and Abhi's relationship) would cause this much harm.

But here Abhi ripped apart that cancerous relationship in the worst possible way.I love love love abhi and akshu.And I can understand the decision of divorce since the trauma was big.But he could have atleast shown some mercy to a miscarried weak women.Send her with badepapa and serve the divorce paper in a calm manner.My gripe is not the Divorce itself but the horrible way its done.She even told him she was physically weak to handle this thod phod.Then also he didn't stop.And I can't connect this Abhi with the one who was ready to abort the baby to save his akshara.

And Abhir is a byproduct of the cancerous relationship he shook off without a backward glance. He let his fury get the better of him that day and after- he very clearly said “mujhe nhi sunni koi baat na Akshara ke, na bacche ke bare mein”. This was days after the funeral when Manjari’s wellbeing was his priority.

He is accountable for what he did just as she will be for altering/falsifying the key information on her child’s birth certificate.

After all the revelations I hope they can coparent amicably. I think openly discussing with Abhir is the only solution and including him in the decision making process will be a satisfying watch. I’m expecting Abhi to explain to him using the anger scale Abhir used ( Chota gussa gussa, usse bada gussa Anger and ussey bhi bada Krodh ).

They have good content this leap!

Originally posted by: iheartChai

The cancer is not Akshu. The relationship that they have is cancerous to his family is what Abhi is thinking hence he cut his own relationship. Meaning he realizes his love is causing harm to his family so he sacrifices his love relationship for his family's well-being.

This is no different when Akshu was doing family jaap and Arohi jaap. She was welling to sacrifice her love for Abhi if it meant keeping peace in the family and Arohi happy.

This reminds me of the scene where Akshu confessed to Abhi after Bade Papa had his heart attack. She never thought her "love" (her and Abhi's relationship) would cause this much harm.

Nitya please feel free to add to any of my posts, Grace and I are simply chatting and would love to hear your views too.

Since I’m dealing with the same dreaded disease in life atm with my parent, I will refrain from using the C word.

❤️

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

Grace , Ash I hope you won’t mind if I add my thoughts to this when a relationship is made of people, in this case the two of them, so indirectly one of them considers the other as a cancer ( I hate using this word) which needs to be cut off from his life When we say he cut her off because his love was causing harm to his family, so she was never part of the family there is no US OURS

Akshu was doing family jaap when she was unmarried now they are married, it makes a big difference Grace Abhimanyu acted as judge and passed sentence, as he thought fit

I apologize if I have sounded harsh not my intention I love you both ❤️🥰

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

it will be his turn to speak and she will be quiet, I agree

Originally posted by: Veenapai

https://twitter.com/chokeonadic/status/1620271482135003138?t=0QHEHcT5iCtIzg_QDmPfKg&s=19

I know people don't like Ekta but I don't doubt some of her FLs 😆

Originally posted by: IAMHope

And Abhir is a byproduct of the cancerous relationship he shook off without a backward glance. He let his fury get the better of him that day and after- he very clearly said “mujhe nhi sunni koi baat na Akshara ke, na bacche ke bare mein”. This was days after the funeral when Manjari’s wellbeing was his priority.

He is accountable for what he did just as she will be for altering/falsifying the key information on her child’s birth certificate.

After all the revelations I hope they can coparent amicably. I think openly discussing with Abhir is the only solution and including him in the decision making process will be a satisfying watch. I’m expecting Abhi to explain to him using the anger scale Abhir used ( Chota gussa gussa, usse bada gussa Anger and ussey bhi bada Krodh ).

They have good content this leap!

so Ak was never on the priority list at all

for me he set things into motion what he said to her in the room, divorce, and when he informed Manish he said divorce was mutual decision,( not sure about that ) did not go and look for her even once did not pick up her calls, just because a man answered her phone, got irritated, that’s no excuse, it could have been someone from a hospital/ or police, she announced her mg after 7 months what was he doing for so long

Keeping aside what is morally right, real world etc I am leaning towards Ak

I too am excited to see how they are going to handle this, I hope they keep the main focus on AkAb and their little boy and not involve you know who too much but I know I am asking for too much

Coparent amicably and itv serials I don’t know, it’s all about drama for them but I must give credit to the confrontation scene, it was done with a lot of dignity no extra chikana chillana

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I know people don't like Ekta but I don't doubt some of her FLs 😆

Originally posted by: Jiss555

Yep I agree makers have definitely made Abhi the great surgon dumb to increase the drama quotient.

You are correct Abhi will now be stuck at akshara rejecting his sorry.Hope he doesn't agree to marry jaru in either self pity mode or in anger mode..Usually akshara rejecting is equivalent to Abhis thandav.

I want the truth to come out from Akshara.But it seems less likely bcoz then drama quotient or blame game will be diminished.

So to get maximum drama Maybe arohi will discover and declare it to entire birlas thereby initiating a custody battle.I know arohi is selfish and don't want ruhis priority to lessen But she will disclose it if she sees any advantage to her position as birla widow

If abhinav discloses also he will make sure to let abhi knows how much akshara suffered..Then also drama quotient will be less.

I don't know I am loving this suspense. It can go anyway 🤣

Abhi's character is already dragged on the floor. He has to redeem himself by stopping the custody battle. He needs show he understood where he went wrong.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

Grace , Ash I hope you won’t mind if I add my thoughts to this a relationship is made of people, in this case the two of them, so indirectly one of them considers the other as a cancer ( I hate using this word) which needs to be cut off from his life When we say he cut her off because his love was causing harm to his family, so she was never part of the family there is no US OURS

Akshu was doing family jaap when she was unmarried now they are married, it makes a big difference Grace Abhimanyu acted as judge and passed sentence, as he thought fit

I apologize if I have sounded harsh not my intention I love you both ❤️🥰

His mindset has always been that way.

He described Arohi and Akshu’s relationship that way as well. He then tried to cut that relationship by making Akshu choose between him and her sister during the wedding times. I remember how many were upset with Akshu that it took her so long to choose Abhi.

Abhi cut his father out of a relationship with him due to the way he treated his mother.

What Abhi should have done was cut his own cord with his family. He knew what they were like from the start. He tried to protect Akshu from them but he didn't succeed. She got dragged around. He was then influenced this way and that way by someone in his family not realizing where he went wrong.

I find it just funny how when Akshu said the same words and had similar intentions and meaning about her love (Abhi and Akshu's relationship) harming her family some people were up and arms about how careless Akshu was saying things and it triggered an insecurity in Abhi. Was Abhi ever going to be a part of her family? Now those same words and intent is being used here and Abhi is looking callous? Granted Birlas are probably way more toxic than Goenkas. And quite frankly other than Shefali, Nistha, and Shivu all other Birlas are dirt. Harshvardhan only recently became sane again but he is no saint either.

Abhi from the start only wanted the relationship to be US. No family on his side. But she kept including them and getting involved in things forcing him to get involved. He never knew how to manage family because he had no one in his own family that could do it. Who was he to learn from? His mother? We see how well she has done it. Certainly not Anand and Mahima who was too busy running to the hospital. Harshvardhan mistreated and disrespected his mother so he is not someone either to look to.

We all know Abhir is going to show Abhi the mirror. Abhi became what he feared the most in his life which was his father. I am glad Vinay Sir confirmed he is still with YRKKH. We need Harshvardhan back so this first generation father son relationship can be explored and see how that reflects upon the second generation.

Abhi is in such a deep hole. I want him to be able to redeem himself. So far we have seen him be a fairly though unrealistic good boyfriend and a horrible husband (he tried to be good but his traumas and an extremely messed up family environment already put him at 1/100 chance of turning things around). Can he be a good father?