Originally posted by: Saakshi2k
I am watching the episode on TV right now and wanted to say this... don't know how many of yall will agree but mere hisaab se Raavi ko uss time ghar chhodke nahi jaana chahie tha... But dekha jaae toh she took it as a chance to save shiva kyunki use laga shiva aage bhi apne baare me na sochke apni life ese hi risk karega... she should have atleast waited for him to recover but again isme ek aur condition hoti ki shiva kabhi bhi family nahi chhodega.. he had already said her don't try to make him chose between her and family coz he'll leave her and chose family... So Raavi ne uss time jo bhi faisla liya mere according usne khud ko upar rakha, which is not wrong but usko hi iska nuksaan hua. At that moment Raavi ko bas Dhara se dur jaana tha and she didn't thought ki aage jaake woh kese manage karegi... It was like Raavi had an ego that time, nahi rehna hai dhara ke saath, isne meri nahi suni me ab kisi ki nahi sunungi...
Now if I think how it would be for Raavi to survive in vadodara, what job she chose because she had to be with shiva as well(writers didn't even bothered to tell woh karti kya thi).. and shiva's medical expenses, rent, everything kese manage kiya hoga.. mithoo is around 4 i guess, toh starting ke 2 saal toh she had to struggle a lot... thinking about starting life from scratch itself is so difficult and it breaks my heart. Also aaj ke episode se lagta hai shiva ko baby ki photo se flashbacks aate hai, that means jab mithoo hua hoga he might get some flashbacks isn't? How did she manage a new born and violent shiva? And insab me after Raavi, its mithoo who is suffering... Shiva's aggression se kitna darta hoga Mithoo, its definately not first time...even he knew photo chupao... I am believing that raavi ne jaanbujhkar dono ko dur rakha hoga, and thus no father son love reflect between them.
Mujhe nahi lagta raavi ne aajtak koi sahi faisla liya hai... Jo liya hai woh suffer hi karti aai hai... And her decision to leave house with ill shiva was completely wrong. If dhara is responsible shiva is more... 99% shiva ki galti thi, pehle boxing match me jaana even after Raavi and suman asked him not to go, then running away from hospital (yaha dhara & suman ki galti thi to delay his treatment for their stupid plan) and then running behind shweta to save chiku.
I might be sounding stupid, I can't help, maybe raat me dimag kuch zyada hi chalta hai, but Raavi ki hi galti thi to leave the house and chose misery for herself... I know for these seven years she had to struggle a lot, home, Shiva and little mithoo and other expenses she even mentioned about her being depressed..
Also makers just use raavi as a punching bag, so obviously she will be chastised once shiva ko realise hoga toh I can already imagine uska reaction... (Abhi filhaal toh I can imagine mamma reaction agar unhone mujhe phone me saath dekha toh)... But why to fear when Dhara ben/bhabhimaa/baa is there... Pehle she had dev rishita krish now she have chiko shesh mithoo for patching up shivi... So no tension, patchup toh hojaega unka...
Anyways... Meri bakwas over.. I think I should study or better sleep 🤪
I do get what your saying. But maybe she feared that the family wont give Shiva first priority like they neglected his operation over saving PS !!
She had her fears and she followed her heart.
I feel whatever she did was somewhat a good thing atleast she got some breathing in peace without family drama.