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I am watching the episode on TV right now and wanted to say this... don't know how many of yall will agree but mere hisaab se Raavi ko uss time ghar chhodke nahi jaana chahie tha... But dekha jaae toh she took it as a chance to save shiva kyunki use laga shiva aage bhi apne baare me na sochke apni life ese hi risk karega... she should have atleast waited for him to recover but again isme ek aur condition hoti ki shiva kabhi bhi family nahi chhodega.. he had already said her don't try to make him chose between her and family coz he'll leave her and chose family... So Raavi ne uss time jo bhi faisla liya mere according usne khud ko upar rakha, which is not wrong but usko hi iska nuksaan hua. At that moment Raavi ko bas Dhara se dur jaana tha and she didn't thought ki aage jaake woh kese manage karegi... It was like Raavi had an ego that time, nahi rehna hai dhara ke saath, isne meri nahi suni me ab kisi ki nahi sunungi...

Now if I think how it would be for Raavi to survive in vadodara, what job she chose because she had to be with shiva as well(writers didn't even bothered to tell woh karti kya thi).. and shiva's medical expenses, rent, everything kese manage kiya hoga.. mithoo is around 4 i guess, toh starting ke 2 saal toh she had to struggle a lot... thinking about starting life from scratch itself is so difficult and it breaks my heart. Also aaj ke episode se lagta hai shiva ko baby ki photo se flashbacks aate hai, that means jab mithoo hua hoga he might get some flashbacks isn't? How did she manage a new born and violent shiva? And insab me after Raavi, its mithoo who is suffering... Shiva's aggression se kitna darta hoga Mithoo, its definately not first time...even he knew photo chupao... I am believing that raavi ne jaanbujhkar dono ko dur rakha hoga, and thus no father son love reflect between them.

Mujhe nahi lagta raavi ne aajtak koi sahi faisla liya hai... Jo liya hai woh suffer hi karti aai hai... And her decision to leave house with ill shiva was completely wrong. If dhara is responsible shiva is more... 99% shiva ki galti thi, pehle boxing match me jaana even after Raavi and suman asked him not to go, then running away from hospital (yaha dhara & suman ki galti thi to delay his treatment for their stupid plan) and then running behind shweta to save chiku.

I might be sounding stupid, I can't help, maybe raat me dimag kuch zyada hi chalta hai, but Raavi ki hi galti thi to leave the house and chose misery for herself... I know for these seven years she had to struggle a lot, home, Shiva and little mithoo and other expenses she even mentioned about her being depressed..

Also makers just use raavi as a punching bag, so obviously she will be chastised once shiva ko realise hoga toh I can already imagine uska reaction... (Abhi filhaal toh I can imagine mamma reaction agar unhone mujhe phone me saath dekha toh)... But why to fear when Dhara ben/bhabhimaa/baa is there... Pehle she had dev rishita krish now she have chiko shesh mithoo for patching up shivi... So no tension, patchup toh hojaega unka...

Anyways... Meri bakwas over.. I think I should study or better sleep 🤪

Okay btw Dhara's dialogue saying mere baccho ko sene se lagane ke liye tadpi hu sounded so wrong... Omfl🤪🤡

Btw the same bacche have kids so umm.. okay

Originally posted by: Saakshi2k

Okay btw Dhara's dialogue saying mere baccho ko sene se lagane ke liye tadpi hu sounded so wrong... Omfl🤪🤡

Btw the same bacche have kids so umm.. okay

welcome movie ka dialogue yaad aa gaya lol 🤣😛 hehehhe lol

The thing was before shivas accident the first one raavi was already upset with dhara but she was still all for the family and supporting shiva. She kept on warning him and even asked dhara to stop him from doing the stupid match but dhara in her ego of not being supported let shiva leave and chose to go to the hospital where the entire family was already. Since then the way they handled shivas injury and chose again to prioritise the stupid plan over saving someones life was astounding coz last year they were willing to mortgage the same house for a little chance of an ivf procedure being successful. Raavi was already fed up by then and then shivas second injury his delay in operation compounded her hurt and anger. These ppl chose to fight the vamp and humiliate her over shivas health basically for her and the same vamp was repeatedly kept around them instead of being sent to jail. All this cricle of hell started with dharas obsession over another womans baby.

Raavi decision was impulsive but i shudder to think how they would have treated shiva once he came home let him do whatever he wants even though he was not stable or if he had one of his episodes would they freak out. Suman and dhara are ready to fake sumans death basically at this point so we know how sensitive they are to someones health issues. Suman seems to making a mockery of it and dhara would probably start brewing her own homemade meds on shiva lol I think they would have given up after a while and maybe even think of sending shiva to be committed to some rehab place or nursing home if they couldnt deal with this leaving raavi all alone and devastated. Raavi is right to be weary of these ppl. Imagine if she had a kid around these ppl and they raised him to be like on of those 3 dev shiva or krish lol it would be a mess on top bhabhi trying to have him under her control. Even though raavi faced hardships she still has a loving child in her small world unlike how she would be dealing with the rest of the family taking over her husbands health decisions, her life her childs and shiva was not likely to be there to support her either way. She still managed all these years all on her own coz if this foolish bhabhi had to take care of gaumbi by herself she would have destroyed him further lol

also all these years dhara and gaumbi had the resources and means to go check on shiva and see how he is but they did neither and act like it was raavis job to inform them. They can only get confused or take advantage of shivas condition and it was better raavi took him away from these horrible ppl. Shiva might never have left on his own coz he has no self respect for himself but raavi deserves to make her own choices and she kept her side of the bargain in sickness and in health and shiva when he does get better should be thankful for all her hard work she did taking care of him and her child and he better make it up to her. His condition shows how he starts regressing around these ppl imagine she would be living with these ppl his memory would be a mess and he would never support her.

Shiva gets triggered by past memories, it hurts his psyche more. May be doctors told Raavi to keep him away from triggers?

Which in this case were Bhabhi chikoo Suman shweta & all that.?

He was already badly hurt, later pushed down the stairs, and hit on head with bat. Grave injuries- and none of the family member felt it necessary to stay with raavi at hospital when his operation was on?
All we’re looking for chhutki, agreed: but call police & atleast one person can stay with Raavi. But no.

Raavi perhaps had to take him away to allow him recovery; was that possible with Bhabhi making all decisions and plans? If Raavi had come back, Shiva’s recovery would be on back seat & Bhabhi would have started drama of bring back Deshita like before.

For how long can Raavi deprioritize herself & Shiva?


iMO

Raavi was at her wits end.

Dhara was more focused on getting her fav minion under her control, was giving attitude & taunts to Raavi & shiva both for not agreeing with her blindly.

Refused to allow his treatment to delay it further for her ‘Kaand plan’ which was only about humiliating shweta in medieval way by dragging in the street- and not doing how normal 2022 humans do: call police.

Later she was busy romancing her husband while bachcha for whom all these happened was left to be babysitter by injured Shiva.
shouldn’t she be attending her newly bought bachcha 24x7 ? Uski pehli uttarayan thi.

Inshort Bhabhi- Gombi- Suman : all not only neglected Shiva & urgency of his treatment, they never ever bothered to check on them later in 7 years.
Dhara had numbers, Dhara has taught her newest grooming minion Chikoo about not talking to Raavi but to Shiva.
Dhara was cooking everyday, did Dhara or gombi or Suman ever cared to find out from hospital about Shiva’s recovery & how he got out??
Raavi must have moved after he was discharged, correct?

Nope, what Raavi did was correct.
and that’s how most trp viewers will see.

My MIL’s reaction at Dhara was: uss din kya hua tha ab pucchh rahi hai? Dekha nahin tha? Raavi kyoon aati tera khana khane? Uska sara sab kuchch toh tum ne kha liya. Wapis aa ke dhara ki aarti utarein?

I know writers are trying very hard to garner sympathy for Dhara, they even give her longer dialogues to make her case of nonexistent dukh of can’t galey lagaao.

But she is absolutely coming across as narcissist control freak.

Hulu didn’t update the synopsis today but they posted this

Looks like more of Bhabi’s dukh, dard, peeda coming our way, baad mei jaaye baski sab 😔

I have no doubt that Bhabima will turn Shiva’s mental health issues to her advantage and even complain how she had to deal with a drunkard all those 7 years and compare him with Shiva’s illness.

Originally posted by: Ria23

Yeh dora kaisi insaan hai

Abhi tak she doesnt have one percent of guilt

She stills thinks usne bhi jaila and thats it

Rishita lost her daughter, a baby

When dora never had a baby of her own

How come she can understand a mother’s pain

I was also thinking the same. After watching the episode. Dhara, Krish or Suman dont take any resppnsibitly for splitting up the famiy.

Instead they keep saying you guys left.🤔

Originally posted by: mpks1

Hulu didn’t update the synopsis today but they posted this

Looks like more of Bhabi’s dukh, dard, peeda coming our way, baad mei jaaye baski sab 😔

I have no doubt that Bhabima will turn Shiva’s mental health issues to her advantage and even complain how she had to deal with a drunkard all those 7 years and compare him with Shiva’s illness.

Nothing new then

First she will fix Shiva all alone and then use him to be loved by all ...all over again. 🤓

Thnx for the tag dear 🤗

Originally posted by: mpks1

Hulu didn’t update the synopsis today but they posted this

Looks like more of Bhabi’s dukh, dard, peeda coming our way, baad mei jaaye baski sab 😔

I have no doubt that Bhabima will turn Shiva’s mental health issues to her advantage and even complain how she had to deal with a drunkard all those 7 years and compare him with Shiva’s illness.

This looks like another self promise she is doing to steal Shiva from Raavi's care and cure him using her own hands. Hell no realization of mistakes and their drastic impacts on lives.😕

I was done with Bhabhi yesterday. Why is she still there today? 😔

Originally posted by: spdp

Shiva gets triggered by past memories, it hurts his psyche more. May be doctors told Raavi to keep him away from triggers?

Which in this case were Bhabhi chikoo Suman shweta & all that.?

He was already badly hurt, later pushed down the stairs, and hit on head with bat. Grave injuries- and none of the family member felt it necessary to stay with raavi at hospital when his operation was on?
All we’re looking for chhutki, agreed: but call police & atleast one person can stay with Raavi. But no.

Raavi perhaps had to take him away to allow him recovery; was that possible with Bhabhi making all decisions and plans? If Raavi had come back, Shiva’s recovery would be on back seat & Bhabhi would have started drama of bring back Deshita like before.

For how long can Raavi deprioritize herself & Shiva?


iMO

Raavi was at her wits end.

Dhara was more focused on getting her fav minion under her control, was giving attitude & taunts to Raavi & shiva both for not agreeing with her blindly.

Refused to allow his treatment to delay it further for her ‘Kaand plan’ which was only about humiliating shweta in medieval way by dragging in the street- and not doing how normal 2022 humans do: call police.

Later she was busy romancing her husband while bachcha for whom all these happened was left to be babysitter by injured Shiva.
shouldn’t she be attending her newly bought bachcha 24x7 ? Uski pehli uttarayan thi.

Inshort Bhabhi- Gombi- Suman : all not only neglected Shiva & urgency of his treatment, they never ever bothered to check on them later in 7 years.
Dhara had numbers, Dhara has taught her newest grooming minion Chikoo about not talking to Raavi but to Shiva.
Dhara was cooking everyday, did Dhara or gombi or Suman ever cared to find out from hospital about Shiva’s recovery & how he got out??
Raavi must have moved after he was discharged, correct?

Nope, what Raavi did was correct.
and that’s how most trp viewers will see.

My MIL’s reaction at Dhara was: uss din kya hua tha ab pucchh rahi hai? Dekha nahin tha? Raavi kyoon aati tera khana khane? Uska sara sab kuchch toh tum ne kha liya. Wapis aa ke dhara ki aarti utarein?

I know writers are trying very hard to garner sympathy for Dhara, they even give her longer dialogues to make her case of nonexistent dukh of can’t galey lagaao.

But she is absolutely coming across as narcissist control freak.

@bold this right here says it all.

Did they not know what happened to Shiva ??? Wasn't the guy already injured before Shweta attacked him ??

The makers have really dealt with this storyline very badly.🤢

And in all this Dhara is trying to be the victim cos she couldnt feed her fake bacche and hug them 🤢

Sick 🤢