Guilt Tripping a rape survivor

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Posted: 2 years ago
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MAA has reached a new low today. Each time I think she can't stoop lower, she proves me wrong with flying colors. She reprimanded a rape survivor for standing up for her dignity. According to her, a rape survivor should lower her eyes when someone questions her character. Dimpy was very respectful to Baa. She respectfully defended herself. I would have smacked the hell out of anyone who assassinated my character. But, Deviji still found Dimpy's behavior offensive. Her kids behave worse with everyone, but Deviji never lectures them. But, since Dimpy is a rape survivor who has no place to go, she has become an easy target for Deviji. She has successfully manipulated Dimpy into feeling guilty for raising her voice against Baa. I won't be surprised if tomorrow Dimpy seeks an apology from Baa.

I am shocked that BV, Ketki and RG did not find any issue with this scene. I always thought compassion for an abused survivor is something all women of this era have. I was wrong. BV, Ketki, and RG possess the mentality of a 1920s illiterate woman who felt rape survivors should think thousand times before speaking their minds. What a shame. Yesterday, my maid was telling me that Baa should be strangled with the Dori of the Patang for abusing Dimpy. But, today Deviji reprimanded Dimpy for crossing her limits. Even illiterates helping hands have more compassion than the makers and actors of this show.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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And frankly wth were those cold expressions that Maa was giving to dimpy because she stood up for herself against her buddhi ex saas ? Bhai tu kudh doormat hai n loves to get abused to dusre bhi iski tarah doormat ban jayen this is what she wants.Sorry to say but isko thrashraj hi sahi rakhta tha.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: zohakhan7

And frankly wth were those cold expressions that Maa was giving to dimpy because she stood up for herself against her buddhi ex saas ? Bhai tu kudh doormat hai n loves to get abused to dusre bhi iski tarah doormat ban jayen this is what she wants.Sorry to say but isko thrashraj hi sahi rakhta tha.

She has started giving cold shoulder to Dimpy after Samar has declared his love for her. She possesses the same mentality as Baa. She does not want her son to get married to a rape survivor. She wants a virgin doormat for her son.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

MAA has reached a new low today. Each time I think she can't stoop lower, she proves me wrong with flying colors. She reprimanded a rape survivor for standing up for her dignity. According to her, a rape survivor should lower her eyes when someone questions her character. Dimpy was very respectful to Baa. She respectfully defended herself. I would have smacked the hell out of anyone who assassinated my character. But, Deviji still found Dimpy's behavior offensive. Her kids behave worse with everyone, but Deviji never lectures them. But, since Dimpy is a rape survivor who has no place to go, she has become an easy target for Deviji. She has successfully manipulated Dimpy into feeling guilty for raising her voice against Baa. I won't be surprised if tomorrow Dimpy seeks an apology from Baa.

I am shocked that BV, Ketki and RG did not find any issue with this scene. I always thought compassion for an abused survivor is something all women of this era have. I was wrong. BV, Ketki, and RG possess the mentality of a 1920s illiterate woman who felt rape survivors should think thousand times before speaking their minds. What a shame. Yesterday, my maid was telling me that Baa should be strangled with the Dori of the Patang for abusing Dimpy. But, today Deviji reprimanded Dimpy for crossing her limits. Even illiterates helping hands have more compassion than the makers and actors of this show.

Pathetic.

I do not understand why Dimple is hanging out with this family. Can't she move out, find a job & live her life? No sane person will keep showing their face to the person who hurls abuses at them.


Don't the actors, writers hear/see their own work?I wonder how their family members react to this.

Aisha, please tell your maid that instead of using the dori patang on baa, it could be used on AnupamašŸ˜†

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

She has started giving cold shoulder to Dimpy after Samar has declared his love for her. She possesses the same mentality as Baa. She does not want her son to get married to a rape survivor. She wants a virgin doormat for her son.

True she is as regressive as her buddhi baa.By keeping Dimpi in KH she is trying to act as mahaan so tgat she can show off her ehsaan she did on dimpi as she had no place to go so she kept her so trying to manipulate her to act a doormat like her and keep praising her buddhi baa.Thats the criteria to stay in KH.Be a Shah bhakt n deviji will be super happy.Maa is nothing but a hypocrite.Kudh bhi deviji virgin nahi thi lekin Anuj ke gale padh gayi with her shah family.ATM bhi mil gaya for her kids kaands n kapadiya tag bhi mil gaya.Achi planning ki Maa ne.I thought kids were like thrashraj but no I was wrong they were like Maa only..Selfish n manipulative jerks.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: zohakhan7

True she is as regressive as her buddhi baa.By keeping Dimpi in KH she is trying to act as mahaan so tgat she can show off her ehsaan she did on dimpi as she had no place to go so she kept her so trying to manipulate her to act a doormat like her and keep praising her buddhi baa.Thats the criteria to stay in KH.Be a Shah bhakt n deviji will be super happy.Maa is nothing but a hypocrite.Kudh bhi deviji virgin nahi thi lekin Anuj ke gale padh gayi with her shah family.ATM bhi mil gaya for her kids kaands n kapadiya tag bhi mil gaya.Achi planning ki Maa ne.I thought kids were like thrashraj but no I was wrong they were like Maa only..Selfish n manipulative jerks.

She is letting Dimpy stay at her house so that one day she could guilt trip her into serving her one true phemily

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

She is letting Dimpy stay at her house so that one day she could guilt trip her into serving her one true phemily

After Puppy Patidev's NYE outburst Maa has realised she may need to stay away from SH to continue milking the ATM .Kavya toh haath se nikal gayi and Kinjal is also no longer there the entire day to serve SH esp Baa...New bakras needs to be established - Adhik ho gaya as a temporary fix and Dimpy's next in line 😔


Everything about this Sample track is so disgusting šŸ‘ŽšŸ¼ , even Samar , give her some space man , is her divorce even done yet ? And the extremely poor acting by the two - when the Sanan BGM came it actually made me miss OG Samar and Nandini

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: ga1986

After Puppy Patidev's NYE outburst Maa has realised she may need to stay away from SH to continue milking the ATM .Kavya toh haath se nikal gayi and Kinjal is also no longer there the entire day to serve SH esp Baa...New bakras needs to be established - Adhik ho gaya as a temporary fix and Dimpy's next in line 😔


Everything about this Sample track is so disgusting šŸ‘ŽšŸ¼ , even Samar , give her some space man , is her divorce even done yet ? And the extremely poor acting by the two - when the Sanan BGM came it actually made me miss OG Samar and Nandini

Patidev is still very angry at BAA. So, she won't risk freezing her bank account by serving Baa, so she has found her substitute in Dimple. She has given her shelter, a job, and food on her plate, enough to buy someone for eternity. Now, she can pamper her cow without making her true phemily suffer.


New Samar is a dick. The girl has been raped one month ago. Her divorce has not yet been finalized. Give her some time and space.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Not even once she rebuked baa and told her to shut up. Baa ko nahi samjhaya . She has given her full right to spew venom. She is making others habitual of her. Baa ko kuch bolti nahi sahi baat ulta dimpy ko bhashan de rahi

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