Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #234 - Page 42

Originally posted by: firsttimehere

The way Raavi is done with pandyas now is a classic example of what damage being ridiculed, taken for granted does, on a long run in any family .

This was the girl who used to worship dhara, loved the family like crazy .

See what has happened now .

Never valued in the family

Not included in important things

Even her life decisions were imposed

Was not cared for when she needed all the most .

Ridiculed by each and every one

That's how a dhara or a suman breaks a Raavi and then cry that the Raavi broke the family .

Thoda Pyar and izzat dete toh raavi apni jaan bhi de sakti thi..

And here raavi's husband almost gave him life for the family but still that was not valued and in return even a basic like getting medical help was ignored.

I am not absolving of how Shiva was inconsiderate of the facts that his health could be in danger and what will happen of his and raavi's life if it comes to that . He was equally being an idiot. I understand he did what he felt is right for the little girl chutki but refusing medical help on time and focussing on dramas for getting back store is one thing that all of the family excluding raavi failed big time at .

And I really want to see how they take Shiva ka character once he regains is mental capabilities in whatever the atrangi way the creatives plan to .

If he starts dissing raavi again imho he doesn't deserve raavi and mithoo both .

Agree with what you said

@bold - if this happens, Raavi should just leave Kandya Niwas with Mitthu for good and Shiva can continue to stay as Bhabi bhakt and she should never turn and look back at these morons. She is already managing the house somehow with zero help from Shiva now, is very much capable of taking care of herself and Mitthu in the future if Shiva ditches both of them for his Bhabi. Finally Raavi will get much needed mukti and shanti from all of them, especially Shiva, Suman and Bhabima.

Originally posted by: sakshi.ekansh

Rishita speaks our heart out.

"Bahut Paise Chhaap liye hain"

"Do din me ameer ban gaya."

Shiva says "Lagta hai Gaumbi aur Bhabhi be teri pocket money badha di hai"

Krish is trying hard to bring in the importance to his character. But Rishita says

"No you might become my husband's target, my target will always be Dhara Bhabhi"

https://youtu.be/9FkYMnxbh6E

Ye Mohit, offscreen mei bhi Piddhi bann gaya hai kya? 😆 Itna attitude dhika raha hai 😆

Simran is making fun of Piddhi’s CLOSURE from Kandyas 🤣

Ek toh Piddhi criminal hai, upar se itna attitude?

Simran as Rishita is saying the right things about Dhara and that’s what many of us feel here bit the character is in denial that she even did something wrong even in today’s episode when Gautam accused her 😔
Once Dhara manages to Con devars and devranis into staying at Kandya Niwas, will wait for the right opportunity to throw someone under the bus and absolve herself from any wrong doings that happened 7 years ago, Dhara being the so called is the most delusional character I have seen in ITV.

Rishita should take the high road and not misbehave with Chiku, none of it is his fault. if she does then what’s the difference between her and Dhara, who only thinks about her happiness and will do anything to get it, even if it means making others lives miserable.

IMHO, once a joint family system breaks it is difficult for family members to live together again. I grew up in a joint family, have seen all these things, have gotten first hand experience. It is better to live in a nuclear family and be cordial to each other during special occasions , festivals, meet, enjoy the time together than to live together in a joint family, fight and bicker everyday, be unhappy and others around you are also unhappy.

I love it how everytime something foreshadows we starts saying that Raavi should leave Shiva for good and never come back lol🤣

Writers must be like, haan bhai likhlo, rolo, bhabhi ke rehte shiva raavi alag nahi reh sakte🤣🤣

And ab toh inko jod ke rakhne wala bhi hai, bhabhi bhi like mithoo ke liye saath rehlo 🤪

Aur jab bhi sochte hai isse zyada kya hi girega character, he crosses that bottom line, fir bhi they reconcile and start afresh😛

Wese this is my first ship jo 10 din se zyada alag nahi rahe honge ... Although misunderstandings go on for months, but rahe saath me hai chahe jo bhi ho... And also were together during pregnancy jo ki mila hi nahi

My favourite caps from today's episode ❤️

Raavi gives such a comforting hugs🤗

Originally posted by: mpks1

IMHO, once a joint family system breaks it is difficult for family members to live together again. I grew up in a joint family, have seen all these things, have gotten first hand experience. It is better to live in a nuclear family and be cordial to each other during special occasions , festivals, meet, enjoy the time together than to live together in a joint family, fight and bicker everyday, be unhappy and others around you are also unhappy.

@ Bold I agree completely

One can't forget and move in completely . Living in nuclear families is better and hope that the resentments reduce with time or with change in people .

Originally posted by: firsttimehere

@ Bold I agree completely

One can't forget and move in completely . Living in nuclear families is better and hope that the resentments reduce with time or with change in people .

Vani, sometimes watching Kandya Store is like watching my father’s family where 5 brothers and their families and a bua and her family all lived together with my widowed grandmother being the head of the family except my mother was mot Dhara being the eldest bahu, she got married into my father’s family when she was 19 and for the next 20 years toiled for the family side by side raising 3 daughters and finally the family decided to separate and my parents were the last ones to leave my grandmother’s house. Even after establishing separate families, guess where we lived, in the same compound where each brother built their own house next to each other, so none actually left each other’s life😆

When my husband came to see me for the first time, he became startled to see so many in my house, never expected to see so many for a bride- groom meet session 😆and realized all my uncles lived next door to each other and they are never going to go away from my life 😆 As soon as met me in private, first thing he said, he believes in nuclear family, doesn’t have any idea of returning to India and I should not expect anything like how I am currently living😆 So going from a joint family system to just the 2 of us was initially difficult but after many years of marriage and 2 kids, I prefer this nuclear system hands down.

My husbands family paternal side is huge too bit they all believed in nuclear families right from my in-laws generation. My husband’s grandmother insisted that all her sons and DIL, grand kids, also her daughters and their families live separately right from the get go. My husband grew up in a nuclear family setting and met his extended family only during special occasions and festivals.
My husband and I grew up in a different family setting and we managed to adjust and live together till date,

Originally posted by: mpks1

IMHO, once a joint family system breaks it is difficult for family members to live together again. I grew up in a joint family, have seen all these things, have gotten first hand experience. It is better to live in a nuclear family and be cordial to each other during special occasions , festivals, meet, enjoy the time together than to live together in a joint family, fight and bicker everyday, be unhappy and others around you are also unhappy.

The fact that dev rishitha lost 7 years of their child'd childhood..and what all chutki had to deal with growing up without having her parents to care for her...this can never be erased..and same for shiva ravi and mittus life..shiva lost the chance to be actively and mentally present in their child's birth..or take care of them all these years while they were struggling to survive..its a huge loss..and the cause of this is his blind devotion for his selfish family and ignorance towards his own responsibility..any normal person would realise this family love to be toxic ... distance himself a bit from them..but since its shiva..he will never accept his family is selfish and Raavi and his child had to go through everything without help due to them..

No normal person can behave normal with each other after such a mess..max civil thing would be to keep distance and show no hatred..

Dhara in her obsession to control everyones life ruined all..

Ps..i really dnt knw what piddhis attitude is for..why is he angry with shiva and dev....he should be guilt ridden actually ..in all this he is the only loser who didnt loose anything..infact gained a ticket to canada for free ka mehnath card along with bewaqoof nri mummy daddy and a traumatised prerna..🤪

Originally posted by: firsttimehere

The way Raavi is done with pandyas now is a classic example of what damage being ridiculed, taken for granted does, on a long run in any family .

This was the girl who used to worship dhara, loved the family like crazy .

See what has happened now .

Never valued in the family

Not included in important things

Even her life decisions were imposed

Was not cared for when she needed all the most .

Ridiculed by each and every one

That's how a dhara or a suman breaks a Raavi and then cry that the Raavi broke the family .

Thoda Pyar and izzat dete toh raavi apni jaan bhi de sakti thi..

And here raavi's husband almost gave him life for the family but still that was not valued and in return even a basic like getting medical help was ignored.

I am not absolving of how Shiva was inconsiderate of the facts that his health could be in danger and what will happen of his and raavi's life if it comes to that . He was equally being an idiot. I understand he did what he felt is right for the little girl chutki but refusing medical help on time and focussing on dramas for getting back store is one thing that all of the family excluding raavi failed big time at .

And I really want to see how they take Shiva ka character once he regains is mental capabilities in whatever the atrangi way the creatives plan to .

If he starts dissing raavi again imho he doesn't deserve raavi and mithoo both .

They always try to show Dhara as a bechari, but it's actually Raavi who is taken for granted since day 1.

Dev loves someone else, no let's not tell Raavi and get her married to someone who doesn't love her. (Dhara)

Oh Dev wants a new lollipop, his love okay let's get Raavi married to Shiva so that Dev can get what he wants. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi dislikes Shiva, let's give her gyaan of moving on with Shiva despite of the fact he manhandles her and throw verbal weapons on her every now and then. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi is beautiful and educated, lets ignore her and insult her in front of everyone and push her away to satisfy my ego. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi approached to give her advice on understanding her husband who is ridiculing her for no reason. Let's tell her she is on her own as I don't want to degrade my image in front of my bacchas. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi is trying to compromise in the marriage, lets give her a scar of divorce so that I satisfy my insecurities. I don't care what she wants. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi slapped Shiva. Let's throw verbal abuse at her as how dare she slap someone who questioned her character. (Suman)

Oh Raavi is back home for Dhara despite of the differences with her husband and held up divorce, let's keep abusing her verbally and let's give her more pain than getting divorced. Let's get another girl for her husband and play shadi shadi to make her cry. (Suman)

Oh Raavi shows some feelings towards me. Let's put all the pressure on her to save our relationship which was never broken from her side and call it as demand for sacche ehsaas. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi and Shiva are back together. Let's tell her she hasn't yet won the battle by letting her face your so called wrath. (Suman)

Oh Raavi has almost put her life at stake to keep the family together and bring Dev and Rishita back. Who cares ? Let's not call the doctor so that Maa doesn't spoil our plan.

Oh Raavi is upset on not being felt as a part of the family, let's get more upset and yell at her for demanding her own rights.

Oh Raavi was present when tiffin Dabba IVF was spoiled, let's trust others and reprimand her and blame her for everything. (Whole family)

Oh Raavi is kidnapped and was missing for so many days. Let her die. We don't care. (Whole Family excluding Gaumbi)

Oh Raavi is found and has gone through mental trauma of the kidnapping, let's bring her home and run behind her with a danda and throw vegetables on her and give all the verbal abuses you can. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi is happy with Shiva. Who cares? I want my revenge with the family and cannot attain that with my niece there so let's take advantage of her trust on me and get the papers signed. (Prafulla)

Oh divorce papers came, let's trust a piece of paper than a girl who is living in the same house and doing everything possible for the family and is yelling out loud that she is oblivious of the happenings. Lets throw her out ruthlessly using your masculine power. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi revolted and came back claiming her love let's make her life hell by abusing her mentally and verbally on a daily basis. (Suman and Shiva)

Oh Raavi is not agreeing to my plan considering Shiva's feelings. Let's make both bride and groom intoxicated and impose another marriage on them. (Dhara- supported by whole family)

Oh Raavi is having some insecurities, let's ridicule her by calling her dobi instead of paying attention to her mental health and making her feel important. (Dhara Rishita Suman Shiva)

Oh Raavi is asking Shiva not to leave home on his birthday, let's tell her she is spreading manhoosiyat and reprimand her for that. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi is getting compensation amount for her husband's death. Let's take that money and renovate our store. Let's ignore her pleas of saying her husband is alive. (Suman and Rishita)

Oh Raavi is on social media and is doing well let's call her not talented and classless as I am unable to earn. (Rishita)

Oh Raavi is earning now. Let's take all her money yet taunt her for being so high headed because she is a paise waali now. (Suman)

Oh Raavi is buying a car. Let's taunt her to make her feel she is useless and has no knowledge of cars. (Rishita)

Oh Raavi has become a victim of social media scam let's blame it all on her. (Suman)

Oh Raavi is seen with another guy entering a hotel room. Oh let's doubt her. Who cares if she has fought the world to be with me. Who cares if she has been with me through thick and thins. Who cares if she is the only support I had when no one was there. Let's doubt her loyalty and questions her in front of the entire city. It's Raavi, you can insult her. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi is showing her displeasure to the insult thrown to her character in front of the entire city. Let's say sorry twice and if she doesn't meltdown let's put all the pressure on her to fix everything. My male ego should be fed well. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi has got a new job let's ship her with her boss and forget everything about trust. (Shiva)

Oh somebody else is saying things about my wife. Let's believe strangers and misbehave with her. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi is trying to mend things, lets focus on the price tag of the gift and throw her intentions into the garbage. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi is the most selfless and giving one in the family. Let's break her marriage first on order to break the family and get a revenge on her sister-in-law. Who cares if she is not involved in my matter. (Shweta)

Oh Raavi is in hospital and is suspected to be pregnant let's blame her to be pregnant with another man's child. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi has just gone through a surgery and has come back home weak and that too in hospital clothes. Let's focus on the abortion confusion and blame her and cross all your limits. Who cares for her health. I don't feel a thing for her. My male ego is above everything. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi was innocent, who cares to apologize to her. She is meant to forgive everyone and will come back home. We run after Dhara and Rishita to apologize and bring them back home. We don't care about Raavi. (Suman)

Oh Arnav was someone Shiva doubted Raavi for. Who cares it's Shiva's lack of trust that almost broke their marriage. Let's go and snatch the only good thing Raavi had. Her job. Because I think Arnav is the source of Shiva'e trust issues. Who cares Raavi is not living with Pandyas and needs financial assistance. Who cares Shiva's trust issues won't get solved by merely sending one Arnav away. Let's impose it on Raavi (Shiva)

Oh Raavi is showing displeasure for snatching her job. Let's blame her for befriending a colleague which is more than normal in corporate culture. Let's taunt her to not being able to maintain distance from other men just because her husband has trust issues. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi is denying of trusting Shweta. Let's not pay attention. She is a dobi. And she is spreading manhoosiyat. (Krish Shiva and Dhara)

Oh Raavi is telling everyone to be practical and start earning and not being dependent on one source of income. Let's yell at her and call her names. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi is asking to help her to stop her husband from going to embrace death, let's go to a child first who has whole damn family present, sitting and doing nothing in the hospital and let Shiva die and blame Raavi later. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi is showing displeasure to deprioritize her husband's health over some plan. She is a pessimist. (Krish Shiva And Dhara)

Oh Raavi left the house because her husband has suffered the most and they have paid the price of someone else's greeds. Let's call her a house breaker.

Nobody ever acknowledged that Raavi has always been the first one to be happy for anyone's happiness, sad on anyone's misery and is the first one to sacrifice her needs, comfort and money for the family. She could've kept all the money Suman gave to her like Rishita did. But she gave half of her share to renovate the house. She has always kept family above money. But no Raavi is born to be taken for granted.

Sorry about the rant. I got carried away. But I feel for Raavi.

Originally posted by: sakshi.ekansh

They always try to show Dhara as a bechari, but it's actually Raavi who is taken for granted since day 1.

Dev loves someone else, no let's not tell Raavi and get her married to someone who doesn't love her. (Dhara)

Oh Dev wants a new lollipop, his love okay let's get Raavi married to Shiva so that Dev can get what he wants. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi dislikes Shiva, let's give her gyaan of moving on with Shiva despite of the fact he manhandles her and throw verbal weapons on her every now and then. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi is beautiful and educated, lets ignore her and insult her in front of everyone and push her away to satisfy my ego. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi approached to give her advice on understanding her husband who is ridiculing her for no reason. Let's tell her she is on her own as I don't want to degrade my image in front of my bacchas. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi is trying to compromise in the marriage, lets give her a scar of divorce so that I satisfy my insecurities. I don't care what she wants. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi slapped Shiva. Let's throw verbal abuse at her as how dare she slap someone who questioned her character. (Suman)

Oh Raavi is back home for Dhara despite of the differences with her husband and held up divorce, let's keep abusing her verbally and let's give her more pain than getting divorced. Let's get another girl for her husband and play shadi shadi to make her cry. (Suman)

Oh Raavi shows some feelings towards me. Let's put all the pressure on her to save our relationship which was never broken from her side and call it as demand for sacche ehsaas. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi and Shiva are back together. Let's tell her she hasn't yet won the battle by letting her face your so called wrath. (Suman)

Oh Raavi has almost put her life at stake to keep the family together and bring Dev and Rishita back. Who cares ? Let's not call the doctor so that Maa doesn't spoil our plan.

Oh Raavi is upset on not being felt as a part of the family, let's get more upset and yell at her for demanding her own rights.

Oh Raavi was present when tiffin Dabba IVF was spoiled, let's trust others and reprimand her and blame her for everything. (Whole family)

Oh Raavi is kidnapped and was missing for so many days. Let her die. We don't care. (Whole Family excluding Gaumbi)

Oh Raavi is found and has gone through mental trauma of the kidnapping, let's bring her home and run behind her with a danda and throw vegetables on her and give all the verbal abuses you can. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi is happy with Shiva. Who cares? I want my revenge with the family and cannot attain that with my niece there so let's take advantage of her trust on me and get the papers signed. (Prafulla)

Oh divorce papers came, let's trust a piece of paper than a girl who is living in the same house and doing everything possible for the family and is yelling out loud that she is oblivious of the happenings. Lets throw her out ruthlessly using your masculine power. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi revolted and came back claiming her love let's make her life hell by abusing her mentally and verbally on a daily basis. (Suman and Shiva)

Oh Raavi is not agreeing to my plan considering Shiva's feelings. Let's make both bride and groom intoxicated and impose another marriage on them. (Dhara- supported by whole family)

Oh Raavi is having some insecurities, let's ridicule her by calling her dobi instead of paying attention to her mental health and making her feel important. (Dhara Rishita Suman Shiva)

Oh Raavi is asking Shiva not to leave home on his birthday, let's tell her she is spreading manhoosiyat and reprimand her for that. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi is getting compensation amount for her husband's death. Let's take that money and renovate our store. Let's ignore her pleas of saying her husband is alive. (Suman and Rishita)

Oh Raavi is on social media and is doing well let's call her not talented and classless as I am unable to earn. (Rishita)

Oh Raavi is earning now. Let's take all her money yet taunt her for being so high headed because she is a paise waali now. (Suman)

Oh Raavi is buying a car. Let's taunt her to make her feel she is useless and has no knowledge of cars. (Rishita)

Oh Raavi has become a victim of social media scam let's blame it all on her. (Suman)

Oh Raavi is seen with another guy entering a hotel room. Oh let's doubt her. Who cares if she has fought the world to be with me. Who cares if she has been with me through thick and thins. Who cares if she is the only support I had when no one was there. Let's doubt her loyalty and questions her in front of the entire city. It's Raavi, you can insult her. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi is showing her displeasure to the insult thrown to her character in front of the entire city. Let's say sorry twice and if she doesn't meltdown let's put all the pressure on her to fix everything. My male ego should be fed well. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi has got a new job let's ship her with her boss and forget everything about trust. (Shiva)

Oh somebody else is saying things about my wife. Let's believe strangers and misbehave with her. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi is trying to mend things, lets focus on the price tag of the gift and throw her intentions into the garbage. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi is the most selfless and giving one in the family. Let's break her marriage first on order to break the family and get a revenge on her sister-in-law. Who cares if she is not involved in my matter. (Shweta)

Oh Raavi is in hospital and is suspected to be pregnant let's blame her to be pregnant with another man's child. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi has just gone through a surgery and has come back home weak and that too in hospital clothes. Let's focus on the abortion confusion and blame her and cross all your limits. Who cares for her health. I don't feel a thing for her. My male ego is above everything. (Shiva)

Oh Raavi was innocent, who cares to apologize to her. She is meant to forgive everyone and will come back home. We run after Dhara and Rishita to apologize and bring them back home. We don't care about Raavi. (Suman)

Oh Arnav was someone Shiva doubted Raavi for. Who cares it's Shiva's lack of trust that almost broke their marriage. Let's go and snatch the only good thing Raavi had. Her job. Because I think Arnav is the source of Shiva'e trust issues. Who cares Raavi is not living with Pandyas and needs financial assistance. Who cares Shiva's trust issues won't get solved by merely sending one Arnav away. Let's impose it on Raavi (Shiva)

Oh Raavi is showing displeasure for snatching her job. Let's blame her for befriending a colleague which is more than normal in corporate culture. Let's taunt her to not being able to maintain distance from other men just because her husband has trust issues. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi is denying of trusting Shweta. Let's not pay attention. She is a dobi. And she is spreading manhoosiyat. (Krish Shiva and Dhara)

Oh Raavi is telling everyone to be practical and start earning and not being dependent on one source of income. Let's yell at her and call her names. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi is asking to help her to stop her husband from going to embrace death, let's go to a child first who has whole damn family present, sitting and doing nothing in the hospital and let Shiva die and blame Raavi later. (Dhara)

Oh Raavi is showing displeasure to deprioritize her husband's health over some plan. She is a pessimist. (Krish Shiva And Dhara)

Oh Raavi left the house because her husband has suffered the most and they have paid the price of someone else's greeds. Let's call her a house breaker.

Nobody ever acknowledged that Raavi has always been the first one to be happy for anyone's happiness, sad on anyone's misery and is the first one to sacrifice her needs, comfort and money for the family. She could've kept all the money Suman gave to her like Rishita did. But she gave half of her share to renovate the house. She has always kept family above money. But no Raavi is born to be taken for granted.

Sorry about the rant. I got carried away. But I feel for Raavi.

Oh boy .. that's so much of nonsense that was thrown on Raavi and so much misogyny dumped on us viewers

This post is a summary of why Raavi strikes a chord with audience and not the projected mahaan woman Dhara .