Originally posted by: spicysagar
So are you admitting Nimrit was right. that woman are not better friends. It is men who are better friends.
I have both genders, male and female friends since school, college, work place and social gatherings.some are from my girlfriend school days also.
I have seen loyalty, compassion, caring, sharing , sacrificing, supporting, helping nature, protectiveness, encouraging, take a stand for a friend by both genders equally.
I have also seen jealousy, selfish, backstabbing, disloyal, unhelpful, lying, snitching, not caring, not sharing and ignoring a friend from both genders male and females.
Nimrit advocates feminism.
Feminism means the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.
But in today’s episode Nimrit shared her thoughts that women pulls down other woman. She threw feminism down the drain and proved that men are better, trustworthy, loyal, supportive, there is no jealousy or insecurity or competition with having male friends. But with women it does. She advocated one sex (male) and threw the other sex (female) under the bus. This was totally opposite of feminism that she preaches.
Sagar-Instead of putting words in ppls mouth and throwing this skewed codswallop of what feminism is sermon ,in a bid to present yourself as woke of the decade,why don't you ask yourself -Where's the feminism in this forum? Isn't it women of the forum making posts by truckloads to pull Nimmo (who also happens to be a woman) down? Aren't you doing the same too?Don't you think you should also go give this feminist sermon to them and yourself too? And whilst you are at it , also remind yourself-Why did your Pari devi become such a mahanta ki murat feminist and say to Simi ,Tina is her 'friend 'and she will want Tina to go ahead and accomplish all the best of everything,when minute's later, she sits with Shalin and listens to him bitch about her so called best friend Tina- and also agrees to everything he had to say.
Women are natural born 'biatch's We are born with the 'biatch' chromosome.
The wokes can pelt me with stones ,bricks, or whatever else they want for this -I'm going to say it the way it is.
Men can also be biatches too. Can also have insecurities .But if you look at the bigger picture ,in comparison, men tend to get less/insecure/jealous than women do.This is a fact .
In the cut-throat glamour/fashion/entertainment industry which Nimmo belongs to,insecurity/jealousy amongst fellow women/competitor's/rivals, comes hand in hand with the trade -it's actually a given for both genders in that field.
As for some of us common women,with time age,experience and wisdom, things that perhaps once used to trigger the insecurity/jealousy don't matter as much .We learn to accept our flaws. We learn to accept ourselves for what we are and who we are, and we tend to get more comfortable in our own skin.
We learn to appreciate our fellow women for their achievements and for reaching all the milestones in their lives.
Maybe Nimmo hasn't got to that stage yet ,where she feels whole about herself as a woman .And like I have mentioned above, the industry, she's a part of ,it's all part & parcel .
Being a feminist doesn't mean one can't dare to say men make better friends.
At the end of the day ,It boils down to a matter of perception,personal choice, experience, and comfort level.
A real bold ,brave /courageous woman should be able to speak her mind stand for what she believes in and have the balls to go against the norms.
I don't see your Pari devi doing that .Come WKW,she turns into a bheegi billi and cat gets her tongue then.All she can do is nod along to the host with whatever bollocks host says and does yes sir ,yes sir, three bags full sir...Otherwise,the rest of the week she's shouting at the top of her lungs in tapori gali ki gundi style fighting over few grains of coffee ,chinni and whatever else and acting like a wannabe sherni .
And she's hailed here by the masses as a 'strong' woman-The icon of face of women today.Oh the irony lol.