Abhi departs to Shimla : Epi Air Date Jan 11 2023 - Page 32

Originally posted by: SAOkr

for akshara

its apparent that she is more empathetic towards others her altruistic nature are one of her traits where she outshines others but sometimes it can be destructive not only for her but also for her loved ones.

questions asked by abhimanyu that

why she went after the goons despite knowing her condition. and she explaining that situation was grave with girls and what is her fault in this explains she just like abhimanyu has not yet realised her fault.

if we watch the ep .

neil tried his best to stop akshara and when he was not able to he went there himself. no matter how we justify it ,that it was neils choice or he saved the the girls but brutal truth is he lost his life ,his wife was widowed, and his daughter has lost his father akshara should have stopped neil. if she had placed herself in arohis or manjiris shoes .

and even more she went there herself without caring for her own safety or safety of their kids.

just like abhi asked she should have waited for police or should have gathered public .

no matter how much we say it as bravery but brutal truth is akshara put hers, her childrens and neils life in line in order to save those girls. and result is neil lost his life and akshara lost one of child.

she never placed herself in abhis shoes to understand that if she had also lost his life what would have happened.

this the the brutal truth which akshara have to face that that abhi is wrong in divorce and anger buthe question he asked her was genuine .

especially now if similar situation have happened and abhi akshu and abhir had to save the girls will she do the same thing and put abhi and abhirs life in danger.

she needs to understand ,in order to save others we need to be capable of saving ourselves otherwise its just plain foolishness.because what remains for those left behind are regrets whether its for relatives o those you save or for your own loved ones.

all i wish in this leap .

is for abhi and akshu to overcome these flaws of theirs and least i expect them is to keep themselves in each others shoes and show each other some patience and empathy which they are showing for others. no more big promises just this..

atleast they should think of abhir once before they take any decision.

💯 agree.

Both Abhi and Akshu are flawed and they need to come to turns with it themselves. They both contributed to the current state their relationship is in.

Will CVs have mercy and show them both realizing this? Or we again see them stubborn in their traits?

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Words said in anger, Abhi's own childhood trauma issues, and his OCD play a factor with him. He has it in his mind about how his marriage life should be different from his parents so he tries to control everything. Because before when he was a child he had no control over the things happening. He couldn’t help his mother when he was little it was only until he had grown into a man he was able to stand up to his father and truly protect her from a slap. He doesn't handle things well when life gets out of order. That is when his anger kicks in.

Truth is Abhi is right that Akshu makes decisions without forethought of the consequences and only focuses on the good intentions and end goal. Sometimes things work out okay but this time though no one told Neil to get out of the car to fight; it resulted in his death and she lost one child.

He told Bade Papa he didn't know what to do. Everything was getting out of control - he lost his brother, his mother is in shambles, Arohi is now a widow but she is with child, he lost his children, and the family is mourning. He essentially admitted to not being able to balance and lost control.

So my thought is he cut the only thing he could by making the practical decision which unfortunately was his relationship with Akshu. How many times have we heard him say if something becomes unfit, unmanageable, does more harm than good you have to cut it out of your life? So he viewed his relationship as such. Which is is a sad thing and a sad realization to come to if you think about it. He thinks because he fell in love and tried to be with someone that it caused more heartache for his family. So he lets go of the one person who truly loves him despite his flaws and who would stand by him.

Abhi is always hurt more when Akshu gets hurt because of him. He turned himself into a stone because if he really watched her walk away it would break him further. He was already broken by everything going on. So he simply let go and gave up. How does one get past the situation they found themselves in? Abhi always breaks relationships as that is his answer. Break and move on. But that is not practical. You have to mend and work through it. No one said it would be easy.

The only relationship he cannot break away from is his mother. Because she always starts her fainting and coma crap. I mean you have to be pretty heartless to see your mom in the hospital and go yeah I am going on vacation 🤣 This I challenge the CVs to fix. He has been put through the ringer because of his mother. Do they have the guts? Do you CVs?

I think Abhir is to remind Abhi there is still love in this relationship something worth fighting for as Abhir represents Abhira’s love. Abhi I hope recongizes what Akshu did to raise their son. Her decisions as a mother valued. If she was such a walking disaster then Abhir wouldn't be alive today.

Relationships are complex. You remember the good and the bad. Right now because of the separation we are only focusing on the bad that lead them to this. But we know the minute they face each other again the hurt and angst will come out. And love will be shown too when things cool when they start standing for one another because of Abhir.

And why shouldn't Abhi want to know about his son and be with him? Just because he has a broken relationship with Akshu doesn't mean he cannot get to know his son. Through this relationship he will end up mending his relationship with Akshu. I just need both to admit where they went wrong. Akshu has to tell him how guilty she felt. She loved Neil and never ever would have wanted him to get hurt. Abhi needs to forgive Akshu for that decision and apologize that he made her feel like a murder. Sure a simple sorry will not fix the past but it can go about building a bridge for the future.

Don't know if any of my ramblings made any sense.

Beautiful 😍

I want to watch this transfer on to the screen but you know good guy fatherjee is everywhere now! It's going to get messier before we get these scenes! I just hope the makers remember to address these issues!

He said that about a tumor. The cutting and throwing out.

So he needs to learn how to mend. And she needs to think before she acts.

But how can one survive the guilt of having killed his brother? She’s in hiding because she feels unwanted, unwelcome, unworthy and guilty as hell. I think the CVs went overboard this time, this is not something they can solve on screen given their skills. They bit off too much. Watch them not address this and simply show that their love surpasses this trial too. At least show Akshara saving Roohi from something to prove that many times heroes are altruistic personalities- soldiers, nurses, firefighters, doctors they all endanger themselves to a great degree for the safety and benefit of others.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Words said in anger, Abhi's own childhood trauma issues, and his OCD play a factor with him. He has it in his mind about how his marriage life should be different from his parents so he tries to control everything. Because before when he was a child he had no control over the things happening. He couldn’t help his mother when he was little it was only until he had grown into a man he was able to stand up to his father and truly protect her from a slap. He doesn't handle things well when life gets out of order. That is when his anger kicks in.

Truth is Abhi is right that Akshu makes decisions without forethought of the consequences and only focuses on the good intentions and end goal. Sometimes things work out okay but this time though no one told Neil to get out of the car to fight; it resulted in his death and she lost one child.

He told Bade Papa he didn't know what to do. Everything was getting out of control - he lost his brother, his mother is in shambles, Arohi is now a widow but she is with child, he lost his children, and the family is mourning. He essentially admitted to not being able to balance and lost control.

So my thought is he cut the only thing he could by making the practical decision which unfortunately was his relationship with Akshu. How many times have we heard him say if something becomes unfit, unmanageable, does more harm than good you have to cut it out of your life? So he viewed his relationship as such. Which is is a sad thing and a sad realization to come to if you think about it. He thinks because he fell in love and tried to be with someone that it caused more heartache for his family. So he lets go of the one person who truly loves him despite his flaws and who would stand by him.

Abhi is always hurt more when Akshu gets hurt because of him. He turned himself into a stone because if he really watched her walk away it would break him further. He was already broken by everything going on. So he simply let go and gave up. How does one get past the situation they found themselves in? Abhi always breaks relationships as that is his answer. Break and move on. But that is not practical. You have to mend and work through it. No one said it would be easy.

The only relationship he cannot break away from is his mother. Because she always starts her fainting and coma crap. I mean you have to be pretty heartless to see your mom in the hospital and go yeah I am going on vacation 🤣 This I challenge the CVs to fix. He has been put through the ringer because of his mother. Do they have the guts? Do you CVs?

I think Abhir is to remind Abhi there is still love in this relationship something worth fighting for as Abhir represents Abhira’s love. Abhi I hope recongizes what Akshu did to raise their son. Her decisions as a mother valued. If she was such a walking disaster then Abhir wouldn't be alive today.

Relationships are complex. You remember the good and the bad. Right now because of the separation we are only focusing on the bad that lead them to this. But we know the minute they face each other again the hurt and angst will come out. And love will be shown too when things cool when they start standing for one another because of Abhir.

And why shouldn't Abhi want to know about his son and be with him? Just because he has a broken relationship with Akshu doesn't mean he cannot get to know his son. Through this relationship he will end up mending his relationship with Akshu. I just need both to admit where they went wrong. Akshu has to tell him how guilty she felt. She loved Neil and never ever would have wanted him to get hurt. Abhi needs to forgive Akshu for that decision and apologize that he made her feel like a murder. Sure a simple sorry will not fix the past but it can go about building a bridge for the future.

Don't know if any of my ramblings made any sense.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

💯 agree.

Both Abhi and Akshu are flawed and they need to come to turns with it themselves. They both contributed to the current state their relationship is in.

Will CVs have mercy and show them both realizing this? Or we again see them stubborn in their traits?

they already showed both their flaws

abhis will be reminded of his weakness of cutting people and staying in his own bubble everytime he sees abhir. because of him his son had lost the truth of his true parentage, and abhirs future can also be plunged in hate just like abhi so this is the mirror which fate is showing him and his last chance to redeem his flaw if he doesnt want his son to suffer the same pain he went through i.e witnessing his mothers sadness and hate towards his own father.

as for akshu more than abhir i think roohi will be the one to always remind her that her altruistic nature will sometimes be destructive for her loved ones she would have never imagined for neils daughter to be without him even in her worst nightmares but that is the reality. and seeing abhir she will have to ponder every time that now she is blessed with the child she may have lost because of her rash decision.

this where we can connect how both these childrens will remind abhira of their flaws and help them to overcome it. if its shown like that it will be a saving grace for the show.

rather than making these children walk down the path of hatred and jealously and fight the battles which their parents were supposed to fight.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Words said in anger, Abhi's own childhood trauma issues, and his OCD play a factor with him. He has it in his mind about how his marriage life should be different from his parents so he tries to control everything. Because before when he was a child he had no control over the things happening. He couldn’t help his mother when he was little it was only until he had grown into a man he was able to stand up to his father and truly protect her from a slap. He doesn't handle things well when life gets out of order. That is when his anger kicks in.

Truth is Abhi is right that Akshu makes decisions without forethought of the consequences and only focuses on the good intentions and end goal. Sometimes things work out okay but this time though no one told Neil to get out of the car to fight; it resulted in his death and she lost one child.

He told Bade Papa he didn't know what to do. Everything was getting out of control - he lost his brother, his mother is in shambles, Arohi is now a widow but she is with child, he lost his children, and the family is mourning. He essentially admitted to not being able to balance and lost control.

So my thought is he cut the only thing he could by making the practical decision which unfortunately was his relationship with Akshu. How many times have we heard him say if something becomes unfit, unmanageable, does more harm than good you have to cut it out of your life? So he viewed his relationship as such. Which is is a sad thing and a sad realization to come to if you think about it. He thinks because he fell in love and tried to be with someone that it caused more heartache for his family. So he lets go of the one person who truly loves him despite his flaws and who would stand by him.

Abhi is always hurt more when Akshu gets hurt because of him. He turned himself into a stone because if he really watched her walk away it would break him further. He was already broken by everything going on. So he simply let go and gave up. How does one get past the situation they found themselves in? Abhi always breaks relationships as that is his answer. Break and move on. But that is not practical. You have to mend and work through it. No one said it would be easy.

The only relationship he cannot break away from is his mother. Because she always starts her fainting and coma crap. I mean you have to be pretty heartless to see your mom in the hospital and go yeah I am going on vacation 🤣 This I challenge the CVs to fix. He has been put through the ringer because of his mother. Do they have the guts? Do you CVs?

I think Abhir is to remind Abhi there is still love in this relationship something worth fighting for as Abhir represents Abhira’s love. Abhi I hope recongizes what Akshu did to raise their son. Her decisions as a mother valued. If she was such a walking disaster then Abhir wouldn't be alive today.

Relationships are complex. You remember the good and the bad. Right now because of the separation we are only focusing on the bad that lead them to this. But we know the minute they face each other again the hurt and angst will come out. And love will be shown too when things cool when they start standing for one another because of Abhir.

And why shouldn't Abhi want to know about his son and be with him? Just because he has a broken relationship with Akshu doesn't mean he cannot get to know his son. Through this relationship he will end up mending his relationship with Akshu. I just need both to admit where they went wrong. Akshu has to tell him how guilty she felt. She loved Neil and never ever would have wanted him to get hurt. Abhi needs to forgive Akshu for that decision and apologize that he made her feel like a murder. Sure a simple sorry will not fix the past but it can go about building a bridge for the future.

Don't know if any of my ramblings made any sense.

His parents were very poor role models as a couple, children learn by watching how parents handle conflicts, it's not just about happy times,but also how they resolve issues,

What you said about his mother is so true, somewhere he has internalized the fact that he's his mom's parent/ protector he has to learn that some things are not in his control, he has to let go, and he is not responsible for his mom's sadness/ happiness, it's a vicious cycle, he has to break it himself, he holds himself responsible for everything bad that happens in his family, ( like you said he fell in love and brought heartache to his family) he overcompensates

Akshara is the same, I heard that recorded message of hers if I had not returned this wouldn't have happened, etc

He should have been sent for therapy a long time ago.,but then there would be no show/ serial

I personally feel his family members are parasites , happily dumping all responsibility on him. Why can't they show arohi being both father and mother to her child ,maate can help her

Tomorrow trp and next week trp decides abhinav acha ladka or janvar banegaa 🤣🤣

The more I think about it I feel it’s pointless for Abhira to reunite.

Can you imagine Aarohi’s plight seeing Abhira together? Abhi is going to stretch himself further and further to be more inclusive of Aarohi, her needs and those of Roohi’s.
Every time something good happens to Abhira they will feel guilty that the same cannot be possible for Aarohi. So again, Abhi’s going to overcompensate.

Pretty soon Abhira will separate AGAIN.

PS: I wish Rohan would marry Aarohi.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

fabulous post,Grace agree 100%

His parentsi think were very poor role models as a couple, children learn by watching how parents handle conflicts, it's not just about happy times,but also how they resolve issues,

What you said about his mother is so true, somewhere he has internalized the fact that he's his mom's parent/ protector he has to learn that some things are not in his control, he has to let go, and he is not responsible for his mom's sadness/ happiness, it's a vicious cycle, he has to break it himself, he holds himself responsible for everything bad that happens in his family, ( like you said he fell in love and brought heartache to his family) he overcompensates

Akshara is the same, I heard that recorded message of hers if I had not returned this wouldn't have happened, etc

He should have been sent for therapy a long time ago.,but then there would be no show/ serial

I personally feel his family members are parasites , happily dumping all responsibility on him. Why can't they show arohi being both father and mother to her child ,maate can help her

Originally posted by: IAMHope

He said that about a tumor. The cutting and throwing out.

So he needs to learn how to mend. And she needs to think before she acts.

But how can one survive the guilt of having killed his brother? She’s in hiding because she feels unwanted, unwelcome, unworthy and guilty as hell. I think the CVs went overboard this time, this is not something they can solve on screen given their skills. They bit off too much. Watch them not address this and simply show that their love surpasses this trial too. At least show Akshara saving Roohi from something to prove that many times heroes are altruistic personalities- soldiers, nurses, firefighters, doctors they all endanger themselves to a great degree for the safety and benefit of others.

How does one get over the guilt of having killed someone's brother? This sentence hits so close to home for me, my dad died a year after I got md,I took it to heart,. It took me years to forgive myself. I wasn't directly responsible for his death but it was becoz of me certain people entered his life ,and I even fell ill, I have mentioned that before,

I loved the last four lines of your post, I agree no off duty first responder would have rushed into the twin towers knowing that they might not return, if they were only thinking of themselves.

Akshara was partly responsible for the circumstances that led to Neil's death, saving roohi would also go a long way in healing her and the family ( my opinion),

till now we didn't get akshara's pov after leap. i hope we get one today.

Originally posted by: IAMHope

The more I think about it I feel it’s pointless for Abhira to reunite.

Can you imagine Aarohi’s plight seeing Abhira together? Abhi is going to stretch himself further and further to be more inclusive of Aarohi, her needs and those of Roohi’s.
Every time something good happens to Abhira they will feel guilty that the same cannot be possible for Aarohi. So again, Abhi’s going to overcompensate.

Pretty soon Abhira will separate AGAIN.

PS: I wish Rohan would marry Aarohi.

It's your fate to see abhira janiyeee and kaise hua again...most probably on Feb ...arohi black mark ❣️❣️.

Abhi akshu girl baby 🍼 also will come...